Woman You've Been Dreaming Of
Beth Hart Lyrics


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How can you throw twenty years away
What about your kids and the words they pray
I promise to be just like I was before
But you can't hold a man
When he's holding out for more

I found another letter in your shirt
I can't even tell ya what's left to hurt
From the top of my head to the soles of my shoes
Guess some women win
Some women lose

You've been talking in your sleep
Every secret that you keep
And I know you got a woman you've been dreaming of
Every second of the night
I've been holding on so tight
Cause I know I'm not the woman you've been dreaming of

I picked up your clothes from the laundry mat
Brushed back the feather from your hat
Washed all the dishes and swept up the floors
But you can't keep a man
When he's looking for the door
Anymore

You've been talking in your sleep
Every secret that you keep
And I know you got a woman you've been dreaming of
Every second of the night
I've been holding on so tight
Cause I know I'm not the woman you've been dreaming of

When you're calling out her name
I'll be taking all the blame




Cause I know I'm not the woman that you really love
And been dreaming of

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Beth Hart's song "Woman You’ve Been Dreaming Of" depict a woman who has been betrayed by her significant other. She implores him to consider their twenty-year long relationship, their children, and their prayers before walking away from her, while he is not able to keep himself tied down to her because he's looking for "more." She discovers a letter that is likely from a mistress, and that causes her to doubt herself and her relationship with him, wondering who comes on top in love and life, with some women winning and some losing. She also talks about how she has been taking care of him untiringly, alluding to the loads of laundry and cooking dishes that she has cleaned, but she knows that it won't make a difference because you can't keep a man if they are looking for a door. Throughout the song, she reflects on his infidelity and acknowledges that she is not the woman he is looking for, as evidenced by his dreams and, consequently, his sleep-talking. Despite this, she still hangs on to him for dear life, wishing that the woman of his dreams was her and taking the blame when he calls out for someone else's name.


The song's lyrics are quite intricate, portraying the insecurities and heartaches that stem from a toxic relationship. The use of metaphors such as "20 years," "holding out for more," and "looking for the door" accentuates the man's fickleness and inability to commit. The phrase "some women win, some women lose" exemplifies how such scenarios can be unpredictable and disastrous in the long run. Beth Hart's raw, emotional delivery brings the song's poignant message to life, evoking empathy and resonating with listeners who have undergone similar heartbreaks.


Line by Line Meaning

How can you throw twenty years away
Expressing disbelief at the idea that a person is willing to discard a long-standing relationship.


What about your kids and the words they pray
Asking the person to consider the impact of their actions on the children and their wellbeing.


I promise to be just like I was before
Making a plea to the person to reconsider their decision and return to the status quo.


But you can't hold a man When he's holding out for more
Acknowledging that it's impossible to keep a person in a relationship when they desire something else.


I found another letter in your shirt
Describing an instance of finding evidence of infidelity.


I can't even tell ya what's left to hurt
Expressing the pain of betrayal and how it's affecting the person emotionally.


From the top of my head to the soles of my shoes
Indicating that the person is consumed by and affected by the infidelity in every aspect of their being.


Guess some women win Some women lose
Reflecting on the fact that relationships don't always pan out as desired, and some people end up getting hurt.


You've been talking in your sleep Every secret that you keep
Revealing that the person has been unknowingly disclosing their infidelity in their sleep, leading the artist to uncover the truth.


And I know you got a woman you've been dreaming of Every second of the night
Pointing out that the person is consumed by thoughts and dreams of another woman, indicating that their feelings for the artist have waned.


I've been holding on so tight Cause I know I'm not the woman you've been dreaming of
Expressing how the person is struggling to hold on to the relationship despite knowing that their partner's heart is elsewhere.


I picked up your clothes from the laundry mat Brushed back the feather from your hat Washed all the dishes and swept up the floors
Describing the artist's acts of service and care for the person, which are ultimately in vain.


But you can't keep a man When he's looking for the door Anymore
Reiterating that it's impossible to hold onto a person who wants to leave or is actively searching for a way out.


When you're calling out her name I'll be taking all the blame Cause I know I'm not the woman that you really love And been dreaming of
Acknowledging that the person will always have another woman on their mind, and expressing that the singer is prepared to accept the blame for the failure of the relationship.




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Beth Hart

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@SeaGullArt

OK : final verdict : Woman You've Been Dreaming Of, No Place Like Home, and Weight of the World : Are the three most Tender Vocals I can think of - Thank You Beth @ * * * @

@davidscothern6900

Wow. The whole mood of the song - melodically as well as lyrically - is so chillingly alone.

@SeaGullArt

my HEART weeps for all of us When I Hear This

@joanneadair9227

Beautiful. Listening to it again. Thank you.

@salinoises1217

Thank you Beth for your music 🙏🏻

@AbdallahMohamed-sw3ox

Inspiring. Beth Hart, you are the best .

@petereyles5583

abdallah gaber totally agree!!🙏👋♥️🇦🇺

@ligiailean1852

She is indeed! 😇🙇💝

@joeobrien196

Brilliant

@helenadewet4523

Soulfull

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