The L Word Theme
Betty Lyrics


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Girls in tight dresses
Who drag with moustaches

Chicks driving fast
Ingenues with long lashes.

Women who long love lust
Women who give.

This is the way
it's the way that we live.

Talking, laughing, loving, breathing
Fighting, fucking, crying, drinking
Writing, winning, losing, cheating
Kissing, thinking, dreaming.

This is the way
it's the way that we live





It's the way that we live
And Love...

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Betty's song, The L Word Theme, celebrate and honor the diversity of the queer women's community. The opening lines describe women who bend and blur gender norms by wearing tight dresses while sporting moustaches. The next line, "chicks driving fast," hints at a need for speed and adventure traditionally reserved for men. The reference to "ingenues with long lashes" suggests a nod to femininity that exudes beauty and strength. The song then moves to address the various aspects of queer women's lives - love, lust, giving, and longing. The chorus highlights the complexities of queer women's lives. Talking, laughing, loving, and breathing is intermingled with fighting, f*cking, crying, drinking, writing, winning, losing, cheating, kissing, thinking, and dreaming. The song celebrates women's multifaceted experiences and affirms their right to choose how to live and love.


Overall, The L Word Theme uses its lyrics to convey a sense of empowerment and celebration of the diversity of queer women's lives. The song highlights that queer women can lead a life filled with joy, love, sex, adventure, and complexity while fighting sexism, homophobia, and transphobia. The L Word Theme's message is universal - it reminds us that we are all different and unique in our own ways, and our differences define us.


Line by Line Meaning

Girls in tight dresses
Women who dress up and own their femininity with confidence and style.


Who drag with moustaches
Women who go against traditional gender norms and embrace their uniqueness by wearing mustaches.


Chicks driving fast
Independent women who refuse to conform to the societal expectation that women are not capable of driving fast cars.


Ingenues with long lashes.
Young women with innocent looks, but also with long and beautiful eyelashes that showcase their beauty.


Women who long love lust
Women who are passionate and yearn for love, intimacy, and sexual fulfillment.


Women who give.
Women who are generous, charitable, and kind to others.


This is the way
These traits and characteristics are what define us as a community of women.


it's the way that we live.
Our way of living is not traditional, but it is our own and it is beautiful.


Talking, laughing, loving, breathing
We communicate, enjoy life, love, and simply exist like any other human being.


Fighting, fucking, crying, drinking
We experience turmoil, passion, emotions and indulge in activities like any other person would do.


Writing, winning, losing, cheating
We explore our creativity, succeed, fail and sometimes make mistakes like everyone else.


Kissing, thinking, dreaming.
We express our love, contemplate and aspire for better things like every other human being.


It's the way that we live
Our lives may be different from others, but it is the only way we know how to live.


And Love...
At the core of our community and way of living is love and acceptance.




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