California Rain
Betty Who Lyrics


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We won't build a home,
You won't buy flowers every Monday
Or call on my birthday
I'm not the first,
And I won't be the last to love you
And I do

I love it when you're lonely
That's when we feel the same
You come around, you let me down
Like California rain

How many times will midnight come and go without so much
As a single touch?
How many times will I find solace in the worst of you
'Cause I do

I love it when you're lonely
That's when we feel the same
I come around, and I let you down
Like California rain

I love it when you're lonely
That's when we feel the same




You come around, you let you down
My California rain

Overall Meaning

The song "California Rain" by Betty Who is about an unconventional, perhaps even toxic, relationship. The lyrics describe that the couple will not be building a home together, the man will not make grand romantic gestures like buying flowers every Monday or calling on her birthday, and that she is not the first nor last to love him. Despite this truth, the singer declares that she still loves him. She loves him when he is lonely because that is when they feel the same. However, she also acknowledges that their relationship is not perfect, and there are moments when they let each other down. She compares this feeling to California rain, where it can be unpredictable, come in waves, and be both beautiful and destructive.


The chorus is the most significant part of the song both lyrically and musically. "I love it when you're lonely, that's when we feel the same" is a catchy and memorable line because it contrasts with what people think would make a healthy relationship. Most people would not say that they like it when their partner is lonely. It shows that the singer and her partner bond over their shared hurt, making their relationship complicated but still valuable to them. The second half of the chorus, "You come around, you let me down, like California rain" is a metaphor comparing the man's actions to the state's unpredictable climate. She's not sure when he will leave or return, but it's inevitable that he will let her down in some way.


Line by Line Meaning

We won't build a home,
We won't commit to a long-term relationship or create a permanent living situation together.


You won't buy flowers every Monday
You won't consistently show romantic gestures or put in effort to make me feel loved and valued.


Or call on my birthday
You won't remember or acknowledge important milestones or events in my life, indicating a lack of emotional investment.


I'm not the first,
I'm aware that there have been other people who have loved you before, and I'm not the only one.


And I won't be the last to love you
I know that there will be other people after me who will fall for you, just as I have.


And I do
Despite these uncertainties, I still love you and am willing to take a chance on this relationship.


I love it when you're lonely
I feel more connected to you when you are feeling vulnerable or sad, and I can offer you comfort.


That's when we feel the same
Our emotions align and we can understand each other better when we are both experiencing difficult feelings.


You come around, you let me down
You drift in and out of my life, giving me hope only to disappoint me shortly after.


Like California rain
Just as the weather in California can be unpredictable and inconsistent, so too is our relationship.


How many times will midnight come and go without so much
How many times will we miss opportunities for intimacy and connection because we are unable to communicate or prioritize each other?


As a single touch?
How much physical and emotional distance will there be between us, despite a desire for closeness?


How many times will I find solace in the worst of you
How many times will I cling to the few positive aspects of our relationship, even when faced with numerous negative ones?


'Cause I do
Despite the challenges and disappointments, I still love you and cannot help but feel drawn to you.


I come around, and I let you down
I also struggle to maintain consistency and connection in our relationship, perhaps inadvertently contributing to the inconsistency and instability of our connection.


My California rain
The ups and downs of our relationship are like the unpredictable and tumultuous climate of California during rain season.




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
Written by: PETER WALSH, JESSICA NEWHAM

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