IfIWereABoy
Beyoncé Lyrics


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If I were a boy
Even just for a day
I'd roll out of bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted and go

Drink beer with the guys
And chase after girls
I'd kick it with who I wanted
And I'd never get confronted for it
'Cause they'd stick up for me

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man
I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

If I were a boy
I would turn off my phone
Tell everyone it's broken
So they'd think that I was sleeping alone

I'd put myself first
And make the rules as I go
'Cause I know that she'd be faithful
Waiting for me to come home (to come home)

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man
I'd listen to her
'Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

It's a little too late for you to come back
Say it's just a mistake
Think I'd forgive you like that
If you thought I would wait for you
You thought wrong

But you're just a boy
You don't understand (Yeah, you don't understand)
How it feels to love a girl someday
You wish you were a better man

You don't listen to her
You don't care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
'Cause you've taken her for granted




And everything you have got destroyed
But you're just a boy

Overall Meaning

The song "If I Were A Boy" by Beyoncé talks about the different privileges enjoyed by men which women do not. The first verse focuses on the freedom men have to dress as they please and their social life without consequences. The second verse brings in the emotional aspect, and Beyoncé discusses how she would treat women better if she were a man. The chorus emphasizes that men do not understand the pain women endure in love and relationships, and how they do not care until they lose it all.


Through the lyrics, Beyoncé is emphasizing the differences in the way that men and women are treated in society. She is urging men to be more understanding and empathetic towards women by putting themselves in their shoes. The song highlights the importance of gender equality and raises the need for change in society's perception of gender behavior.


Line by Line Meaning

If I were a boy
The beginning of the hypothetical scenario where the singer imagines living as a male.


Even just for a day
Specifying the duration of the hypothetical scenario.


I'd roll out of bed in the morning
The freedom to wake up and move freely without worrying about the usual gender stereotypes.


And throw on what I wanted and go
The ability to wear whatever and not be judged because of their gender.


Drink beer with the guys
Socializing with male friends in a way that is not always possible as a woman.


And chase after girls
The freedom to flirt without societal labels.


I'd kick it with who I wanted
Being able to hang out with whoever she wants, regardless of gender or societal norms.


And I'd never get confronted for it
Not facing any repercussions for actions deemed unacceptable for women.


'Cause they'd stick up for me
Other men would defend her actions or decisions.


If I were a boy
Reiterating the hypothetical scenario's start.


I think I could understand
The idea that men and women often have different experiences and understandings of love and relationships.


How it feels to love a girl
The singer imagines how it might feel to be male and love a woman.


I swear I'd be a better man
Acknowledging that men may have a responsibility to treat women better.


I'd listen to her
The ability to empathize and understand a woman emotionally.


'Cause I know how it hurts
The singer recognizes the pain of feeling unheard or unappreciated.


When you lose the one you wanted
Emphasizing the pain of losing someone you love.


'Cause he's taken you for granted
Blaming the person's bad treatment for the end of the relationship.


And everything you had got destroyed
The aftermath of a failed relationship and the pain involved.


If I were a boy
Reiterating the hypothetical scenario's start.


I would turn off my phone
Not responding to calls and messages.


Tell everyone it's broken
Giving off the impression of not interested in communications.


So they'd think that I was sleeping alone
Suggesting that men do not need to be as communicative in relationships.


I'd put myself first
Prioritizing what the male version of the singer wants in a hypothetical sense.


And make the rules as I go
Enjoying the freedom to make independent choices without any cultural constraints.


'Cause I know that she'd be faithful
Assuming that the woman in the relationship will be loyal and patient with him.


Waiting for me to come home (to come home)
The idea that men do not always have to check in with their significant other.


If I were a boy
Reiterating the hypothetical scenario's start.


I think I could understand
The same sentiment expressed earlier in the song.


How it feels to love a girl
The singer imagines how it might feel to be male and love a woman.


I swear I'd be a better man
The same sentiment expressed earlier in the song.


I'd listen to her
The same sentiment expressed earlier in the song.


'Cause I know how it hurts
The same sentiment expressed earlier in the song.


When you lose the one you wanted
The same sentiment expressed earlier in the song.


'Cause he's taken you for granted
The same sentiment expressed earlier in the song.


And everything you had got destroyed
The same sentiment expressed earlier in the song.


It's a little too late for you to come back
The person who took the singer for granted wanting to come back after realizing their mistake.


Say it's just a mistake
Trying to justify their actions as an accident rather than purposeful.


Think I'd forgive you like that
Assuming that the singer would be willing to forgive them easily.


If you thought I would wait for you
A partner thinking that the singer would have been waiting for them.


You thought wrong
The singer bluntly stating that this is not the case.


But you're just a boy
The person who made the mistake is seen as being immature or inexperienced.


You don't understand (Yeah, you don't understand)
The idea that men and women often have different experiences and understandings of love and relationships.


How it feels to love a girl someday
The singer emphasizing that someday the person might understand her and her feelings.


You wish you were a better man
The person acknowledging that they need to improve themselves.


You don't listen to her
The same sentiment expressed earlier in the song.


You don't care how it hurts
The same sentiment expressed earlier in the song.


Until you lose the one you wanted
The same sentiment expressed earlier in the song.


'Cause you've taken her for granted
The same sentiment expressed earlier in the song.


And everything you have got destroyed
The same sentiment expressed earlier in the song.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, BMG Rights Management, Spirit Music Group
Written by: Brittany Jean Carlson, Tobias Gad

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@nekoreou4159

“you don’t listen to her, you don’t care how it hurts.” this line hits man

@taylorrmelanie5706

RIGHTTT

@swaroop2518

True though this song is for women, but i will say that, an immature person cheats and hurts and a mature person loves and care irrespective of gender and age.

@raihapaul2425

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@Wisdom122

Women hurt men too .. and they are much more subtle and vicious about i..t

@hiromitsukanzuki9137

@@Wisdom122 Facts

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