Ashes
Beyond The Embrace Lyrics


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I've waited, and given the chance again,
I'd do it all the same, but either way
I'm always outplayed, up on your down days,
I left it the right way, to start again

Now watch me rise up and leave,
All the ashes you made out of me,
When you said that we were wrong, life goes on,
Just look how long I've agreed
Just look how long I've agreed

Out of place, like a gem on a coalface
Lost on the right way, it's all the same
'Cause I've had my hopes raised, riding the wrong waves
Scared when you feel safe to start again

Now watch me rise up and leave,
All the ashes you made out of me,
When you said that we were wrong, life goes on, just look how wrong I could be
Now watch me rise up and leave,
All the ashes you made out of me
When you said that we were wrong, life goes on, you blew me away
Away
Away
Away

Now watch me rise up and leave,
All the ashes you made out of me,
When you said that we were wrong, life goes on, just look how wrong I could be
Now watch me rise up and leave,
All the ashes you made out of me
When you said that we were wrong, life goes on, you blew me away
Away
Away
Away

I sink like a stone, I lost my control




I sink like a stone, I lost my control
I sink like a stone, I lost my control

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Beyond The Embrace’s song “Ashes” narrate the experiences of someone who has been defeated by their partner in love and relationship. The singer of the song admits that they have had a second chance to redo their circumstances, but they would not have done anything differently, as they always end up being the losing party on their lover’s down days. The singer has started over after leaving their partner, and they are determined to rise above the ashes of their past relationship, which was characterized by emotional manipulation and ultimately defeat. The singer says that they have been “out of place, like a gem on a coalface,” feeling lost even when they were on the right path, but they hope to regain their confidence and start over again.


The chorus of the song is particularly poignant, as it states the poem’s central message that life goes on, regardless of whether we are defeated or victorious. The singer declares that they have agreed with their partner, despite feeling that they were wrong, but life has still gone on. The singer goes on to affirm that they have risen above the ashes created by their partner, who tried to blow them away. The song concludes on a note of resignation, as the singer admits that they have lost their sense of control in the relationship and are sinking like a stone.


Line by Line Meaning

I've waited, and given the chance again,
Even if given the same opportunity, I'd still wait for you to come back to me.


I'd do it all the same, but either way
I wouldn't change a thing if we could start over, but regardless of what I do, I always end up losing to you.


I'm always outplayed, up on your down days,
When you're struggling, I tend to make it worse, and even when I'm not trying as hard, you still come out on top.


I left it the right way, to start again
I ended things in a way that gave us both a chance to move on and hopefully start anew.


Now watch me rise up and leave,
I'm going to prove myself by leaving and showing you that I can do better without you.


All the ashes you made out of me,
You destroyed me emotionally, but I will rise from the ashes and become a better person.


When you said that we were wrong, life goes on,
When you ended things between us, you made it seem like life would go on as normal, but it's been a struggle for me to move on.


Just look how long I've agreed
I've put up with being miserable for so long because I wanted to make things work between us.


Out of place, like a gem on a coalface
I don't fit in with you or your life, like a gem amongst coal, and it's made me feel out of place and uncomfortable.


Lost on the right way, it's all the same
Even though I might be on the right path, I always feel lost and unsure of myself.


'Cause I've had my hopes raised, riding the wrong waves
I've been holding onto the hope that things might change and get better, but I've been riding the wrong waves and not making progress.


Scared when you feel safe to start again
I'm scared to start again with you because I don't want to get hurt again when you're feeling safe and secure.


just look how wrong I could be
I've been proven wrong so many times about us being able to make it work, but I still hold onto hope.


you blew me away
You hurt and destroyed me emotionally to the point that I had to leave.


I sink like a stone, I lost my control
I feel like I'm drowning and out of control without you, but I know I need to leave to save myself.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DANIEL MCNAMARA, RICHARD MCNAMARA

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