Love Me Or Leave Me
Billie Holiday W/ Teddy Wilson & His Orchestra Lyrics


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This affair is killin' me
I can't stand uncertainly
Tell me now I've got to know
Whether you want me to stay or to go

Love me or leave me
Or let me be lonely
You won't believe me, I love you only
I'd rather be lonely
Then happy with someone else

You might find the night time
The right time for kissin'
But night time is my time
For just reminiscin'
Regrettin' instead of forgettin'
With somebody else

There'll be no one
Unless that someone is you
I intend to be independently blue
I want your love
But I don't want to borrow
To have it today to give it back tomorrow




For your love is my love
There's no love for nobody else

Overall Meaning

The song "Love Me Or Leave Me" sung by Billie Holiday and composed by Gus Kahn and Walter Donaldson, portrays a love affair that is driving the singer crazy. She is unable to handle the uncertainty, and she needs to know if the other person wants to stay or leave. She wants the other person to either love or leave her or let her be alone. She can't just be with someone else and pretend to be happy. She is reminiscing about the times they had together and feeling regret for not being able to forget the memories with someone else. She is independent and doesn't want to borrow love that will be returned tomorrow. She wants that love to stay with her forever, and she doesn't love anyone else.


The song is a plea for honesty and clarity in a love affair that has become too complex. It describes the pain of someone who doesn't know where they stand in a relationship and wants reassurance from the other person. The singer is honest about her feelings and desires and wants the other person to reciprocate. The song beautifully captures the pain of uncertainty and the need for authenticity in a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

This affair is killin' me
This relationship is causing me great emotional distress.


I can't stand uncertainly
I cannot tolerate not knowing where our relationship stands.


Tell me now I've got to know
Please be honest with me and tell me your true feelings.


Whether you want me to stay or to go
I need to know if you want me to remain in this relationship or not.


Love me or leave me
Please either love me truly or end this relationship now.


Or let me be lonely
I would rather be alone than continue a relationship without genuine love.


You won't believe me, I love you only
You may not trust me, but I truly love only you.


I'd rather be lonely
I would prefer to be single and alone than in a loveless relationship.


Then happy with someone else
I would rather be alone than settling for someone I don't truly love.


You might find the night time
Perhaps you believe that nighttime is meant for romance.


The right time for kissin'
You may think that evening hours are perfect for kissing and romance.


But night time is my time
But for me, the nighttime is a time for reflection and memories.


For just reminiscin'
I prefer to spend the evenings alone, reminiscing over past experiences.


Regrettin' instead of forgettin'
During these times, I often regret past mistakes instead of forgetting them.


With somebody else
If I were with someone else during these times, I would only feel more regret and sadness.


There'll be no one
If I cannot have your love, I will have no one else.


Unless that someone is you
The only exception to the above statement is if you decide to love me back.


I intend to be independently blue
If I must be alone, I plan to do so in a melancholy, reflective state.


I want your love
My heart desires your affection more than anything else.


But I don't want to borrow
However, I do not wish to receive your love temporarily, as a mere loan.


To have it today to give it back tomorrow
I don't want to experience the joy of love only to have it taken away like a fleeting moment.


For your love is my love
I only desire your love, and no one else's affection would compare.


There's no love for nobody else
I cannot love anyone else but you, and will not settle for less than wholehearted affection.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., MEMORY LANE MUSIC GROUP
Written by: GUS KAHN, WALTER DONALDSON

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@hamedtriqui

Recorded in 1941 true, but why an Evans' pic? He was a 12 yo kid in 1941.

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