Not Even Close
Bis Lyrics


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you like to think that you know me
but perhaps don't even like me
i'm sure it's not unexpected
that any love will be rejected
i'm not eccentric in anyway
just watching my vulnerability
i'm just fed up with fake friends
I think i'll keep my thoughts to myself

you think that you are close to me
but i can see through you all

i used to think that everyone was nice
now i realise it's for a price
too many people love themselves
so much that they can't love anyone else
used to say things secretly
now say a word and it's used against me
fed up with bitching backstabbers
i now know who my real friends are

you think that you are close to me
but i can see through you all

so easy to say paranoid
a subject that you like to avoid
don't really know a thing about me
won't get to know me personally
just believe what you are told
isn't it just easier that way?
take advantage of my good nature
confide, then turn around and hurt you





you think that you are close to me
but i can see through you all

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Bis's song "Not Even Close" delve into the idea of friendship and how true connections are hard to find. The opening lines convey a sense of disappointment where the singer expresses their frustration towards others who claim to understand their nature but don't seem to appreciate them for who they truly are. The singer doubts the authenticity of others towards them and recognizes that they may just be pretending to be friends. The line "i'm just fed up with fake friends, I think I'll keep my thoughts to myself" suggests the singer's unwillingness to open up to anyone anymore due to their past negative experiences.


The second verse amplifies the previous idea, where the singer complains about how most people are fickle and only love themselves. They acknowledge that true friendship is rare because people are not willing to selflessly love and support anyone anymore. They are wary of people who pretend to be their friends and backstab them when the opportunity arises. The singer has discovered that not everyone is reliable, and it's crucial to discern real friends from fake ones. The line "i now know who my real friends are" acknowledges the singer's gratification in discovering their dependable and trustworthy friends.


The chorus repeats the idea that others think they know the singer well, but the singer knows better. The singer sees through the facades of those around them, and their words and deeds have revealed their dishonesty. The lyrics reveal a sense of disappointment and heartbreak due to the betrayal experienced from people who pretended to be friends but wanted to hurt them. The last line "but I can see through you all" conveys the idea that the singer is not deceived by others' actions and that they have become wise to the games that some play.


Line by Line Meaning

you like to think that you know me
You have a perception of me that you believe to be accurate.


but perhaps don't even like me
Despite thinking you know me, you may not actually enjoy my company.


i'm sure it's not unexpected
This lack of liking is not surprising to me.


that any love will be rejected
I am aware that almost any love I receive will ultimately be denied.


i'm not eccentric in anyway
Contrary to what you may think, I am not peculiar in any manner.


just watching my vulnerability
I am observing my susceptibility, and being wary of exposing it.


i'm just fed up with fake friends
I am sick of insincere companionship.


I think i'll keep my thoughts to myself
I am considering keeping my opinions to myself, to avoid further disappointment.


you think that you are close to me
You hold the belief that you have a close relationship with me.


but i can see through you all
I am able to comprehend your true intentions and see through any facade.


i used to think that everyone was nice
Initially, I assumed that most people were good natured.


now i realise it's for a price
But, I've now come to the realization that there is often an ulterior motive behind people's actions.


too many people love themselves
A lot of individuals prioritize their self-interest before others.


so much that they can't love anyone else
They're so focused on themselves, that they're not capable of truly loving anyone else.


used to say things secretly
I used to confide things to others in confidence.


now say a word and it's used against me
But now, anything I say can be turned around and used against me.


fed up with bitching backstabbers
I'm tired of dealing with malicious individuals who talk behind my back and betray me.


i now know who my real friends are
Despite these challenges, I have come to understand who my true, loyal friends are.


so easy to say paranoid
It's simple to accuse me of being paranoid.


a subject that you like to avoid
This is a topic that you often ignore or evade altogether.


don't really know a thing about me
In reality, you don't truly know me or my situation.


won't get to know me personally
You are not interested in making a genuine effort to get to know me on a personal level.


just believe what you are told
Instead, you choose to blindly believe what other people say about me.


isn't it just easier that way?
This is an easier, uncomplicated option for you.


take advantage of my good nature
You have taken advantage of my kind, forgiving personality in the past.


confide, then turn around and hurt you
You gain my trust, then subsequently betray me.




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