So Long
Black Box Lyrics


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I canβ€²t remember what I found in your eyes
Now that my dreams are slipping out of my mind
You said you'd never want to compromise
I just canβ€²t keep on wasting anymore time

So long, so long, so long you're is the wrong

You're only human and you canβ€²t resist
Well, itβ€²s an insult I could never forgive
How can you tell me that I should insist
When you just cut the ground from under my feet

So long, so long, so long you're is the wrong

I, I wanted to see a sign
You aimed at my heart your own way
And you tried to lead me astray
Day by day
I, I knew that you were untrue
β€²Cause you ain't got nothing to lose
Anyway

I know you think I should retrace my steps
But I canβ€²t do it, I'm on my own
I said that I was free
You never cared about that
So please donβ€²t say that I'm destroying your life

So long, so long, so long you're is the wrong

I, I wanted to see a sign
You aimed at my heart your own way
And you tried to lead me astray
Dday by day
I, I waited for you to stay
Even though you were goinβ€²away




Now youβ€²re falling on evil days
As you say

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Black Box's song "So Long" convey the emotions of heartbreak and betrayal. The singer is struggling to come to terms with the end of a relationship, which has left them feeling hurt and disappointed. The opening lines, "I can't remember what I found in your eyes / now that my dreams are slipping out of my mind," suggest that the singer is experiencing a loss of the feelings they once had for their partner. They no longer see the same promise or potential in the relationship, and their hopes and dreams for the future are fading away.


The chorus, which repeats the phrase "so long" three times, is a reflection of the singer's desire to move on and leave the past behind. The words "you're is the wrong" emphasize that the relationship has reached a point of no return, and the singer has accepted that it is time to say goodbye. The lines "You said you'd never want to compromise / I just can't keep on wasting anymore time" suggest that the singer feels their partner was not willing to work with them to overcome the problems in the relationship. They see no reason to continue trying when their partner is unwilling to make any effort.


In the second verse, the singer expresses their frustration with their partner's actions: "How can you tell me that I should insist / when you just cut the ground from under my feet?" They feel like their trust has been betrayed, and they are struggling to make sense of their partner's behavior. The lines "You aimed at my heart your own way / and you tried to lead me astray / day by day" suggest that the singer's partner was manipulative and deceptive, trying to control them and push them in a direction they didn't want to go.


Line by Line Meaning

I canβ€²t remember what I found in your eyes
I have forgotten what made me fall in love with you or what I saw in your eyes that captivated me.


Now that my dreams are slipping out of my mind
I am losing sight of the dreams we had and ideas we shared together.


You said you'd never want to compromise
I remember you promising me that you'd never want to settle for anything less or betray my trust.


I just canβ€²t keep on wasting anymore time
I am tired of being held back and don't wish to waste any more of my time.


So long, so long, so long you're is the wrong
This is goodbye and I wish I had never met you in the first place.


You're only human and you canβ€²t resist
I understand that you are only human and have flaws but I cannot forgive you for it.


Well, itβ€²s an insult I could never forgive
It's an insult that you could hurt me so deeply and I will never be able to forgive you for it.


How can you tell me that I should insist
How can you expect me to have faith in you when you have betrayed me or our relationship?


When you just cut the ground from under my feet
You have shattered me or taken away my foundation by doing what you did.


I, I wanted to see a sign
I was hoping to receive some form of a clear signal from you about your true feelings towards me.


You aimed at my heart your own way
You tried to win my heart in your own unique way, but it was not enough.


And you tried to lead me astray
You attempted to mislead me or deceive me about your true motives or intentions.


Day by day
Every single day, I became more suspicious or wary of your actions.


I, I knew that you were untrue
I was well aware that you were lying to me or not being sincere with me.


β€²Cause you ain't got nothing to lose
I believe you feel as though you have nothing to lose or that your actions do not have any serious consequences.


Anyway
In any case or regardless of this, I am still moving on from you.


I know you think I should retrace my steps
I am aware that you feel I should go back to you or reconsider my decision to leave you.


But I canβ€²t do it, I'm on my own
However, I cannot do that or come back to you because I must move forward with my life alone.


I said that I was free
I told you that I wanted to be free of you or our relationship.


You never cared about that
But it seems you never really cared about my feelings or desires for my own personal freedom.


So please donβ€²t say that I'm destroying your life
So, please do not try to guilt me or make me feel responsible for the consequences of your own actions.


I, I waited for you to stay
I was hoping that you would decide to stay with me and commit to our relationship.


Even though you were goinβ€²away
Even though I could tell that you were slowly drifting away or becoming less invested in our relationship.


Now youβ€²re falling on evil days
Now, you are experiencing hardship or difficult times, possibly as a result of losing me or as karma for your actions.


As you say
As you have stated or admitted to yourself and others about your current situation.




Writer(s): Valerio Semplici, Daniele Benati, Daniele Davoli, Mirko Limoni

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