The Situation
Black Eyed Peasⴀ Lyrics


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Some times I pick the flower
Cause I wanna know
He loves me not
He loves me lot
He's got to go
Not talking bout the dude
That's on the go go go
The situation that we got
Is so much more.
You make me laugh
You make me cry
But I want you
Right by my side
And if you go I could die.
You bring me low, you bring me high.
I build you high. You break me down.
And that's story of our situ a a a tion
You pick me hard. I let you down.
And that's story of our situ a a a tion
My therapist told me that opposites attract. I wish that you was here with opposites attack.
You love me then you hate
What's it going to be
Don't wanna miss the magic
That is you and me
You make me glow
You make me shine.
We always fight right on time.
And if you go I could die
You bring me low, you bring be high
I bild you high. You break me down.
And that's story of our situ a a a tion
You pick me hard. I let you down.
And that's story of our situ a a a tion
Sometimes we don't see each other eye to eye baby.
We up and down like a rollcoster ride baby.
Sometimes you don't see the way I try baby.
I hate the way you make me wanna cry lady.
I wanna fly away. Sometimes I need a break.
The way you treat me made. Me wanna go and say. But I can go on. With out you in my arm.
I can't resist the way you used me with your charm.
You make me glow
You make me shine.
We always fight right on time.
And if you go I could die
You bring me low, you bring be high
I bild you high. You break me down.
And that's story of our situ a a a tion
You pick me hard. I let you down.
And that's story of our situ a a a tion
I bild you high. You break me down.
And that's story of our situ a a a tion




You pick me hard. I let you down.
And that's story of our situ a a a tion

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of The Situation by Black Eyed Peas are about a couple in a turbulent relationship where they have a love-hate situation going on. The singer is honest about the realities of their situation, sometimes they're happy, and sometimes they're fighting. The chorus talks about the dynamics of them building each other up and then breaking each other down. Despite all of this, the singer cannot imagine life without their partner next to them. The therapist may have told them that opposites attract, but it seems like there is a lot of tension between the two.


The second verse delves deeper into the ups and downs of their relationship, acknowledging that they don't see eye-to-eye, but they still need each other. There are moments where one partner feels like they need a break, but the other partner's charm keeps them from leaving. Once again, in the chorus, there is a mix of emotions, where the couple brings each other up and down. Overall, the song is about the complexities of relationships and the emotions that come with them.


Line by Line Meaning

Some times I pick the flower
Sometimes I engage in games to determine if my love interest reciprocates my feelings.


Cause I wanna know
Because I desire to know the truth.


He loves me not
He does not love me.


He loves me lot
He loves me very much.


He's got to go
He has to leave.


Not talking bout the dude
I am not referring to any specific guy.


That's on the go go go
Who is busy or on the move.


The situation that we got
Our relationship circumstance.


Is so much more.
Is more complex than it may seem.


You make me laugh
You bring joy and humor to my life.


You make me cry
You cause me emotional pain.


But I want you
Despite the negative aspects of our relationship, I desire to be with you.


Right by my side
Close to me.


And if you go I could die.
If you were to leave, I would be very upset.


You bring me low, you bring me high.
You have an extremely powerful effect on my emotions.


I build you high. You break me down.
I put a lot of effort into the relationship, but you often tear me down.


And that's story of our situ a a a tion
This summarizes the narrative of our relationship.


You pick me hard. I let you down.
You are highly critical of me, and I often disappoint you.


My therapist told me that opposites attract.
My therapist suggested that people with different personalities are often attracted to one another.


I wish that you was here with opposites attack.
I wish that you were here and that our differences would not cause so much conflict.


You love me then you hate
Your feelings towards me are inconsistent.


What's it going to be
What will your decision be?


Don't wanna miss the magic
I do not want to miss out on the special connection we share.


That is you and me
The connection we have together.


We always fight right on time.
Our conflicts arise at very predictable intervals.


Sometimes we don't see each other eye to eye baby.
We sometimes have very different perspectives and cannot always agree.


We up and down like a rollcoster ride baby.
Our relationship is very unpredictable and has its ups and downs.


Sometimes you don't see the way I try baby.
There are times when you cannot appreciate my effort.


I hate the way you make me wanna cry lady.
I strongly dislike how you make me so emotional.


I wanna fly away. Sometimes I need a break.
At times, I feel like running away and taking a break from the relationship.


The way you treat me made. Me wanna go and say.
Your behavior makes me want to confront you.


But I can go on. With out you in my arm.
Despite any pain, I could continue living without you in my life.


I can't resist the way you used me with your charm.
I find it difficult to resist your charm, even when you treat me unfairly.


I bild you high. You break me down.
I elevate you to a high standard, but you often bring me down instead.


And that's story of our situ a a a tion
This summarizes the narrative of our relationship.


You pick me hard. I let you down.
You are highly critical of me, and I often disappoint you.




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@hiramsanchez9170

Pauly d 😂😂😂 “ I think mike tried to commit suicide because he was tired of the Ron and Sam situation “

@ht3047

paulys too jokes

@grizzlymillion490

I almost died when he said that

@originalg6918

Hiram Sanchez I read that in his voice in my head 😂😂😂

@Albert-bo7rr

Dirty Sanchez

@iliketurtles8918

I couldn't breathe when he said that 😂😂😂

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@aaronkovacevic9601

Pauly was by far the most loyal person on that show. He stood up for vinny multiple times. And when mike went to the hospital Pauly went with him

@joaoflores1131

Aaron Kovacevic Pauly is the foundation of the group honestly

@billdelfera8580

G-unit! Lol

@extremeredtv5728

When did Pauly go to the hospital with Mike? Refresh my memory.

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