Family Man
Blackfield Lyrics


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Breath in
Breath out
You had your shot you blew it all
Right now
Dead end
Your rescue team is miles away

Breath in
Breath out
You had your shot you blew it all
Right now
Dead end
Your rescue team is miles away

People talk behind your back
In idle news become a clown
For those you despise, those you never count
They cheered you while you crashed

Chasing your dreams
Paying your bills
Here you go again
Definite sign
You are around
No, it's not a shame to be a family man
To be a family man

Stand still
Slow down
You had your shot you blew it all
Right now
Dead end
Your rescue team is miles away

Hard boy
Blank heart
How shallow can you get?
Stand still
Slow down
Where else can you go?

Chasing your dreams
Paying your bills
Here you go again
Definite sign
You are around
No, it's not a shame to be a family man
To be a family man

Family man
Family man
Family man




Family man
To be a family man

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Blackfield's song "Family Man" describe the feeling of regret and hopelessness from someone who had a chance to succeed and blew it all. The repetition of "Breath in, breath out" emphasizes the notion of taking deep breaths to calm oneself down from the situation at hand. The second line "You had your shot, you blew it all" highlights a sense of disappointment and frustration. The line "Your rescue team is miles away" suggests that there is no one around to help or support the person in his or her time of need.


The second verse seems to be directed at people who have talked behind this person's back, becoming a target for ridicule and contempt. The line "They cheered you while you crashed" portrays the idea of Schadenfreude - taking pleasure in someone else's misfortune. However, the chorus softens the tone: "No, it's not a shame to be a family man" emphasizes the importance of putting family first and the idea that responsibility and purpose can be found through familial ties.


Overall, the song's melancholic vibe and contemplative lyrics reflect on the importance of finding fulfillment through more significant things than just material success.


Line by Line Meaning

Breath in
Take a deep breath


Breath out
Exhale slowly


You had your shot you blew it all
You had your chance and messed it up


Right now
At this moment


Dead end
No way out


Your rescue team is miles away
No one is available to help you out of this situation


People talk behind your back
Others speak negatively about you when you're not there


In idle news become a clown
Gossip turns you into a fool


For those you despise, those you never count
People you dislike and ignore


They cheered you while you crashed
People were happy to see you fail


Chasing your dreams
Pursuing your aspirations


Paying your bills
Meeting financial obligations


Here you go again
Starting over, repeating the cycle


Definite sign
Clear indication


You are around
You are present


No, it's not a shame to be a family man
It's not embarrassing to prioritize your family above other things


Stand still
Stop moving


Slow down
Take it easy


Hard boy
Tough guy


Blank heart
Lacking emotions or empathy


How shallow can you get?
How lacking in depth can you be?


Where else can you go?
What other options do you have?


Family man
Individual who places family above everything else


Family man
Individual who places family above everything else


Family man
Individual who places family above everything else


Family man
Individual who places family above everything else


To be a family man
To prioritize family above other things in life




Lyrics ยฉ Downtown Music Publishing
Written by: AVIV GEFFEN

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

Maria Diaz

Breath in
Breath out
You had your shot you blew it all
Right now
Dead end
Your rescue team is miles away

People talk behind your back
In idle news become a clown
For those you despise, those you never count
They cheered you while you crashed

Chasing your dreams
Paying your bills
Here you go again
Definite sign
You are around
No itโ€™s not a shame to be a family man


Stand still
Slow down
You had your shot you blew it all
Right now
Dead end
Your rescue team is miles away

Hard boy
Blank heart
How shallow can you get?
Stand still
Slow down
Where else can you go?

Chasing your dreams
Paying your bills
Here you go again
Definite sign
You are around
No itโ€™s not a shame to be a family man



All comments from YouTube:

Carlos Fernandes

After a horrible 2020, we need a new Blackfield album.

Sean Flaharty

Wow! Incredible sounding. Can't wait for this one!!

Laurence Ellis

This is how to cross the bridge between progressive rock and popular music, put simply, backfield is the missing link... I can't remember the last band that completely satisfied me with every CD release, this one was well worth waiting for... ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

O Fiscal

Maravilhoso

A. Yฤฑldฤฑz

Oh my God. They're back with such a great material... I love this new powerful sound of Blackfield.

Everett Patterson

Looking forward to the whole album. Sounds great!

Salazar Antonio

Brutal, fantรกstico. โค

Mao Kido

I have so many years listening to all the albums from Blackfield, and this song have like something really important to me. I have no idea if is this part of the lyrics: "Paying your bills. Here you go again" maybe is not the most " new sound" (stills sounds fucking incredible to me haha) or the most innovative song, but I can feel really vivid how Aviv and Steven were enjoying playing or making this song. Is so great!

Finlay Macdougall

Excellent! ๐Ÿค˜

Pancham K

Beautiful โค
I don't know why people were slamming this album, coz Aviv Geffen has more presence than Steven...
That accusation is baseless ๐Ÿ˜‘
The whole album is amazing !! (but certain lyrics are too sad and heavy for my taste)

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