Never Loved Before
Bobby Caldwell Lyrics


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I used to think love was a game
Only meant for pleasure
And the world would turn for me

And meeting you has brought a change
The things I used to measure clearly
Don't matter to me
I have never loved before
I never knew the meaning
Till I saw your face
Now I can be sure
I guess it's safe to say
That I've never loved before
Darling not until today

Seems like the perfect love affair
The best I can remember
Never turned out right for me
That's why I never really cared
But now my feelings all betray me
Your lips slay me

I have never loved before
I never knew the meaning
Till I saw your face
Now I can be sure
I guess it's safe to say




That I've never loved before
Darling not until today

Overall Meaning

In Bobby Caldwell's song "Never Loved Before," the lyrics express the singer's previous lack of understanding of what love truly means. The singer used to view love as a game, something meant only for pleasure, and believed that the world revolved around them. However, meeting the person they are singing to has caused a paradigm shift in their perception of love, making them realize that the things they used to hold as most important don't matter now that they have found the person they have been looking for.


The chorus emphasizes the singer's newfound understanding, stating that they have never loved before and didn't understand the meaning of true love until they met the object of their affection. The singer feels safe to say that they have never loved before, but now they are sure that they are experiencing true love for the first time. The bridge of the song acknowledges that the singer has had previous relationships that they thought were "perfect love affairs," but they never worked out, leading to a lack of caring about love in general. Still, the singer's feelings for the person they are singing to are intense, with their lips having an almost physical effect on them.


Overall, the song is about discovering the depth of love after thinking it was only a surface-level emotion. It shows how one person can completely transform your understanding of what love is and how it can change your outlook on life.


Line by Line Meaning

I used to think love was a game
I believed love was something that was only used for pleasure and not taken seriously


Only meant for pleasure
Love was something meant for temporary enjoyment and satisfaction, not a long-lasting commitment


And the world would turn for me
I believed that love was something that would revolve around my wants and needs, and that success in love was dependent on what I could receive


And meeting you has brought a change
Since I've met you, my perspective on love and relationships has shifted, and what's important to me has changed


The things I used to measure clearly
The qualities I used to prioritize in a partner, such as wealth or status, were what mattered most to me before, but now they don't hold the same significance


Don't matter to me
I've realized that the superficial aspects I once placed importance on no longer have a hold on me, and that deeper connections mean more than external factors


I have never loved before
I have never truly experienced love in its purest form until I met you


I never knew the meaning
Before meeting you, I did not have a full understanding of what love truly meant or felt like


Till I saw your face
It wasn't until I met you and saw the beauty within you that I began to understand the true meaning of love


Now I can be sure
Because of you, I am now certain that what I feel is true love


I guess it's safe to say
I am confident enough to say without hesitation that this is real love I feel


That I've never loved before
The love I have with you is unlike any other I've felt before


Darling not until today
I've waited my entire life to find this love, and I'm grateful that it's with you


Seems like the perfect love affair
Our love seems almost too good to be true


The best I can remember
Of all the past loves I've had, this is the one that stands out as the most special


Never turned out right for me
All of my past relationships have failed, but this one feels different


That's why I never really cared
Because of my past heartbreaks, I stopped believing in love and stopped caring about finding it


But now my feelings all betray me
Despite my past and my reluctance to let love in, my feelings for you are too strong to deny or ignore


Your lips slay me
Your kisses have a powerful effect on me, and make me feel alive and loved in a way I never have before




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