Do You Hear What I Hear?
Bobby Felder & Friends Lyrics


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You only hear what you want
You only hear what you want

Knock me down
I'm not sure I have it in me to get back up
To be who I am seems exhausting anyway
You have a lot in common with my conscience
You both erase my confidence

I can't leave you
You can't leave me
We've been stuck in here forever
If I disappear, if I disappear
I can't see you, you can't see me
We'll be lost in here together
If I disappear would you notice I'm not here

Back and forth
Between some kind of vague attachment to yesterday
And never knowing what form of myself I'll get today (to get today)
I'll always be a faded sign in your eyes
No matter what the point of view (point of view)

I can't leave you
You can't leave me
We've been stuck in here forever
If I disappear, if I disappear
I can't see you, you can't see me
We'll be lost in here together
If I disappear would you notice I'm not here

I'm not here
You only hear what you want
You only hear what you want to hear

I can't leave you
You can't leave me
We've been stuck in here forever
If I disappear, if I disappear
I can't see you, you can't see me
We'll be lost in here together




If I disappear would you notice I'm not here
Would you notice I'm not here

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Bobby Felder and Friends' song "Do You Hear What I Hear?" explore the complexity of a relationship that is marked by a lack of communication and understanding. The singer acknowledges that the other person only hears what they want to hear, implying that they are not truly listening to the singer's words or internal struggles. The first verse sets the tone for the rest of the song, with the singer feeling knocked down and lacking the energy to be their full self. They suggest that the other person erases their confidence, which could be interpreted as the other person not allowing them to speak their mind or be themselves in the relationship.


The chorus is a plea for recognition and understanding. The singer admits that they cannot leave the other person, and the other person cannot leave them, implying a codependent relationship. They fear disappearing and not being noticed by the other person, emphasizing the lack of connection between them. The repetition of the lines "If I disappear, would you notice I'm not here" drives home the point that the singer feels invisible and unheard.


In the second verse, the singer remains stuck between the past and present, unsure of who they will be each day. They feel like a faded sign in the other person's eyes, suggesting that they are not truly seen or acknowledged. The repetition of the line "I'm not here" gives voice to the singer's feelings of invisibility and perhaps a desire to be seen and heard.


Overall, the lyrics convey the frustration and lack of communication that can exist in a relationship. The singer is struggling to be heard and understood, and the repetition of the chorus suggests that they fear disappearing and not being noticed. The song ends on a somber note, conveying a sense of hopelessness and resignation.


Line by Line Meaning

You only hear what you want
You have selective listening and only tune in to what you want to hear


Knock me down
Bring me down


I'm not sure I have it in me to get back up
I doubt if I have the capacity to recover from this setback


To be who I am seems exhausting anyway
Being myself feels like a difficult task that requires too much energy


You have a lot in common with my conscience
You share a similarity with my morals and inner voice


You both erase my confidence
You and my conscience decrease my self-assurance


I can't leave you
I cannot walk away from you


You can't leave me
You are unable to separate from me


We've been stuck in here forever
We have been trapped in this place for eternity


If I disappear, if I disappear
In the event that I vanish


I can't see you, you can't see me
I cannot perceive you, and vice versa


We'll be lost in here together
We will be stranded here alongside each other


If I disappear would you notice I'm not here
Would you recognize my absence if I vanished?


Back and forth
Oscillating


Between some kind of vague attachment to yesterday
Stuck between a hazy connection to the past


And never knowing what form of myself I'll get today (to get today)
Uncertain about which version of myself I will become today


I'll always be a faded sign in your eyes
I will always be a distant signal in your sight


No matter what the point of view (point of view)
Irrespective of the perspective


I'm not here
I am not present


You only hear what you want
You selectively listen to what you want to hear


You only hear what you want to hear
You only listen to the things that fit your preferred narrative




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Written by: Daniel Lambton, David Knox, Brian Blake, Eric Haines, Michael Joseph Green, Kyle Fasel

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