Givin' Up
Bobby O Lyrics


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Girl, it's hard for me to understand
Why you're having an affair with another man
You did this once before but when I walked out the door
You said you'd never ever do it again, this time I

(Give it up
Don't you know that I give it up
Give it up) I've got to give it up
(Don't you know I give it up)

(There's a reason you don't understand
Why I'm having an affair with another man
Because there's one thing for sure: you've always been insecure
This time I let you walk out the door, that's why I)

(Give it up) (Oh, I got to give it up)
(Don't you know that I give it up) (Givin' up on your love)
(Give it up) (I've got to give it up)
(Don't you know I give it up) (Givin' up on your love, oh)

(Give it up
Don't you know that I give it up
Give it up
Don't you know I give it up)

Girl, I just can't understand
Why you're having an affair with another man
You did this once before but when I walked out the door
You said you'd never ever do it again, but now I

(There's a reason you don't understand
Why I'm having an affair with another man
Because there's one thing for sure: you've always been insecure
This time I let you walk out the door, that's why I)

(Give it up) (Oh, I got to give it up)




(Don't you know that I give it up) (Givin' up on your love)
(Give it up) (I've got to give it up)

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Bobby O's song "Givin' Up" tell the story of a relationship where the girl has cheated on the singer multiple times. He is struggling to understand why she would do this, especially after she had promised not to do it again. The girl responds by saying that he doesn't understand why she had the affair and reveals that he's always been insecure, prompting her to cheat. She then says that she will be the one to leave this time, and the singer realizes that he needs to give up on their love.


The song is a commentary on the complexity of relationships and the difficulties that can arise when one person is not entirely honest or open with the other. The singer is genuinely hurt by the girl's actions and feels like he has no choice but to end things, even though he may still have feelings for her. It is a relatable situation that many people have been through, making the song resonate with listeners.


Line by Line Meaning

Girl, it's hard for me to understand
I cannot comprehend why you are doing what you're doing


Why you're having an affair with another man
Engaging in intimacy with someone else while still in a relationship


You did this once before but when I walked out the door
You acted this way earlier, I left and you promised to change


You said you'd never ever do it again, this time I
You gave your word this behavior wouldn't happen again, now I


(Give it up
Stop doing what you're doing


Don't you know that I give it up
I must let go of this relationship


Give it up) I've got to give it up
I have to leave you


(Don't you know I give it up)
I'm telling you that I'm ending this relationship


(There's a reason you don't understand
You don't grasp this because


Why I'm having an affair with another man
I'm engaged with someone else now because of


Because there's one thing for sure: you've always been insecure
You lack confidence and trust


This time I let you walk out the door, that's why I)
I didn't fight for you to stay, that's why I


(Givin' up on your love)
I no longer want to be with you.


(Oh, I got to give it up)
I have to walk away from this relationship


(Givin' up on your love, oh)
I'm accepting that our romance is over




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@synthwave7

Bobby Orlando - Orlando is credited as one of the founding fathers of Hi-NRG dance music. - the man that made many stars famous and created so many 80's Synthesizer hits. A musical genius !!!

@sDerycke

Bobby O? For me this man is a teacher, not to say the god of music.

@thomasfranco5997

Yeah! Circus Disco, HOLLY WOOD. Great Memories back in the 80's with friends that are no longer here in 2022. They will always be in my HEART!

@chrissunbear167

I highly respect Bobby O, brings me chills 🥶😎

@ivanorellana2480

Para mi el mejor tema de Bobby O

@martinmdnss6236

Mi tema favorito numero 1 del señor Bobby Orlando

@debi1080

OMG when they played this at the Club always a packed dance floor 💯

@rickrockin155

Wow, Bobby "O", sings about true life experiences, i also "gave-up".

@rrus73

Очень мало видео у Bobby Orlando. Но музыка- офигенная!

@jaypat1052

Who listening in 2021 HI NRG SIEMPRE

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