What to Do
Bobby Vee Lyrics


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Man, I can understand how it might be
Kind of hard to love a girl like me
I don't blame you much for wanting to be free
I just wanted you to know
I loved you better than your own kin did
From the very start
It's my own fault for what happens to my heart
You see I've always known you'd go

But you just do what you gotta do
My wild sweet love
Though it may mean I'll never kiss your sweet lips again
Pay that no mind
Just find that dappled dream of yours
Come on back and see me when you can

Well, I know they make you sad
They make you feel so bad
They say you don't treat me like you should
Folks got ways to make you feel no good
I'd guess they've got no way to know
I've had my eyes wide open from the start
And boy, you never lied to me
And the part of you they'll never see
Is the part you've shown to me

So you just do what you gotta do
My wild sweet love
Though it may mean I'll never kiss those sweet lips again
Pay that no mind
Just find that dappled dream of yours




Come on back and see me
Come on back and see me when you can

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Bobby Vee's "Do What You Gotta Do" express a deep understanding of the reality of love. The singer in the song admits that it may be difficult to love them because of who they are, and they do not blame their partner for wanting to break free. However, they want their partner to know that they love them better than their own kin did, and it is their own fault for falling so hard. Even though the singer always knew their partner would leave, they still hold on to hope that they would return someday.


The song highlights the challenges of relationships, especially when outside forces like family and friends interfere. The singer acknowledges that other people make their partner feel bad and question the way they treat them, but they also understand that those people cannot possibly know what the relationship truly means. The singer has always been honest about their feelings and has seen a side of their partner that others have not. Therefore, they urge their partner to follow their dreams, even if it means they cannot be together. The singer's deep understanding of their partner's true self and their willingness to let them go show a level of selflessness that is rare in relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

Man, I can understand how it might be
I empathize with your struggle


Kind of hard to love a girl like me
It's not easy to love someone like me


I don't blame you much for wanting to be free
I don't fault you for wanting to be independent


I just wanted you to know
I need you to understand


I loved you better than your own kin did
I loved you more than anyone in your family did


From the very start
Since the beginning of our relationship


It's my own fault for what happens to my heart
I'm to blame for the condition of my heart


You see I've always known you'd go
I knew you would leave eventually


But you just do what you gotta do
You need to do what's best for you


My wild sweet love
My passionate and endearing love


Though it may mean I'll never kiss your sweet lips again
Even if it means we may never be intimate again


Pay that no mind
Don't worry about that


Just find that dappled dream of yours
Pursue your own ambitions and aspirations


Come on back and see me when you can
Visit me again when you're able to


Well, I know they make you sad
I understand that they cause you sorrow


They make you feel so bad
They make you feel guilty or regretful


They say you don't treat me like you should
They criticize the way you treat me


Folks got ways to make you feel no good
People have a tendency to bring others down


I'd guess they've got no way to know
They probably don't have enough information or understanding


I've had my eyes wide open from the start
I've been fully aware the entire time


And boy, you never lied to me
You've always been honest with me, my dear


And the part of you they'll never see
They will never see the real you


Is the part you've shown to me
Because you only show that side of yourself to me




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Jimmy L. Webb

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Comments from YouTube:

@natashachapin1567

This was my dads song to me, we danced to it at my wedding and shared many memories of listening to it together. I lost my dad in may to cancer, just 2 months after my daughter, his first grandchild was born. Today I shared this song with her the first time and while my heart hurt and the tears streaked my face I also laughed and smiled as I danced with her to it as I did with my daddy.

@michaelamilesmiles2097

He will be dancing up there ❤

@Harp_and_Guitar_Moving_Forward

🎶🎶❤

@guadalupemichaels1817

God this made me cry.

@astrogeraldo2836

Que história linda de pai e filha!

@peterdefabio9470

Well, I was going to comment on what a great video this is, with Bobby looking magical alone on the screen, but your story was so touching and beautiful, that I defer to you.

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@sylviacarlson3561

He was just 18 years old when he sang this! He was married for 52 years to his wife. God Rest him. He died of Alzheimers (sp?) when he was 73 years old.

@helgardforche3400

In so jungen eine so volle Stimme zu haben, ist ein Geschenk - für ihn und uns. Ich mag das Lied sehr! ❣️

@gaynormainwaring1853

This is from an era when singers could actually sing and not just ‘shout out’ a song.

@timtrussell9195

I was twelve in 1961 and just getting into listening to pop music. I can remember laying on my bed listening to this song and wondering if I would ever find true love. Footnote: my wife and I celebrate our 54 th anniversary in April . There is so much good in this troubled world.

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