Didn't Even Know Her Name
Bread Lyrics


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Should've kept on goin'
But the hurt was showing
When she looked at me that way
I had to stay
I knew I had to get to know her name

The town was weary
She was to marry
Someone planned years ago
Her eyes said no
I knew I had to get to know her name

And when I got her all alone
She told me through the tears
That she didn't really loved him
But he'd waited for so many years
She said she couldn't break his heart
She'd rather live with hers
And though I told her she should leave with me
She just could not believe with me

Should've kept on goin'
Better that than knowin'
That he made her his wife
He took her life




You know I didn't even know her name
You know I didn't even know her name

Overall Meaning

The song "Didn't Even Know Her Name" by Bread tells a story of a man who meets a woman in a town which appears to be small and conservative. The woman is about to get married but she seems unhappy about it, and the man falls for her instantly. He knows he should have kept on going, but he is caught in her gaze and feels he has to know her name. He learns that she is unable to break the heart of the man she is about to marry, despite not truly loving him. The singer tells her that she should leave with him, but she is unable to meet his request. The song concludes with the singer expressing regret for not having gotten to know her name more, lamenting over what could have been.


The lyrics of the song, although simple, are packed full of meaning. The narrative expresses an understanding that timing and context can significantly impact the course of one’s life. The man understands that he should have moved on and not gotten involved, but he was captivated by her and the connection he felt. In the end, all he can do is look back with regret, because he didn't even know her name but he feels a sense of loss for what could have been. The song carries a message of wistful longing, as we see the singer missing an opportunity that he would never get back.


Line by Line Meaning

Should've kept on goin'
I should've walked away and never looked back


But the hurt was showing
My pain was written all over my face


When she looked at me that way
When she gave me that look


I had to stay
I couldn't leave


I knew I had to get to know her name
I felt compelled to learn her name


The town was weary
The town was tired


She was to marry
She was engaged to be married


Someone planned years ago
Her fiancé was chosen for her long ago


Her eyes said no
Despite her engagement, she didn't want to marry him


I knew I had to get to know her name
I felt compelled to learn her name


And when I got her all alone
When I had her to myself


She told me through the tears
While crying, she confessed


That she didn't really love him
She didn't have true feelings for her fiancé


But he'd waited for so many years
He had been devoted to her for a long time


She said she couldn't break his heart
She didn't want to hurt his feelings


She'd rather live with hers
She preferred to deal with her own pain instead of causing someone else's


And though I told her she should leave with me
Despite my urging, I suggested she come with me


She just could not believe with me
She didn't agree with my plan


Should've kept on goin'
It would have been better if I had just walked away


Better that than knowin'
It would have been better than knowing


That he made her his wife
That she married someone she didn't love


He took her life
He monopolized her existence and happiness


You know, I didn't even know her name
Despite my feelings, I was just a stranger to her




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Written by: RYAN ADAMS

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Hunter Sullivan


on Lost Without Your Love

Lost and all alone
I always thought that I could make it on my own
But since you left I hardly make it through the day
My tears get in the way, and I need you back to stay

I wonder through the night
And search the world for the words to make it right
All I want is the way it used to be
With you here close to me
And I've got to make you see,

That I'm lost with out your love
Life without you isn't worth the trouble of
I'm as helpless as a ship without a wheel,
A touch without a feel
I can't believe its real

And someday soon I'll wake and find my heart won't have to break

Yes, I'm lost with out your love
Life without you isn't worth the trouble of
All I want is just the way it used to be
I need you here with me
Oh darling can't you see,

If we had love before we can have it back once more

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