Iris
Break The Silence Lyrics


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I watched you fight through all of the pain. Anger: I feel it when I hear your name.
I tried to help you the best that I can. Destroying me now won't make you a man.
Believing all the lies from you who gave me life.
Hating you as you die, I could not say good-bye.

I am still hearing all that was said?the nightmare we lived still stuck in my head.
The memories left seem more like a mess. Now you are gone, and its for the best.
Believing all the lies from you, who gave me life.
Hating you as you die, I could not say good-bye. What it's worth.

Recoil memories of you, out of control.
Say it was all out of love, when you never had a soul. Just rot.
Now, you are dead to me anyway.
The pain you have caused me will fade away.





I will go on, you will remain.
You think you tried, and I think you're insane

Overall Meaning

The song "Iris" by Break The Silence is a powerful indictment of the emotional damage caused by an abusive parent-child relationship. The lyrics describe a narrator watching their parent struggle through pain and anger, ultimately failing to help them heal. Despite their efforts, the relationship is one of lies and resentment, with the child wanting to say goodbye but unable to.


The first verse speaks to the singer's feelings towards their parent, and the anger they feel when they hear their name. They tried to help, but this effort was ultimately futile, and they now feel as if they are being destroyed by the parent's actions. The second verse describes the aftermath of the parent's death, with the singer still struggling to come to terms with the trauma they endured. Despite the memories being a mess, the singer believes that the parent's death is ultimately for the best.


The third verse is a direct indictment of the parent, with the singer describing how they caused pain and never had a soul. The singer sees the parent as dead to them, and suggests that the pain will eventually fade away. The final lines suggest a turning point in the singer's understanding of the situation, with the parent's efforts seen as a symptom of insanity rather than a true attempt at healing.


Overall, "Iris" is a powerful meditation on the complexity of abusive relationships, and the long-lasting effects they can have on those involved.


Line by Line Meaning

I watched you fight through all of the pain.
I saw you suffer through difficult times and struggle to overcome them.


Anger: I feel it when I hear your name.
Every time I think of you, all I can feel is hatred and anger towards you.


I tried to help you the best that I can.
I did my best to support and assist you in any way possible.


Destroying me now won't make you a man.
Harming me now won't make you stronger or more mature.


Believing all the lies from you who gave me life.
Trusting all the falsehoods you told me, even though you are the one who brought me into this world.


Hating you as you die, I could not say good-bye.
Despite my hatred for you, I still cannot bring myself to say goodbye as you pass away.


I am still hearing all that was said?the nightmare we lived still stuck in my head.
I am still haunted by the terrible memories of the traumatic experiences we endured together.


The memories left seem more like a mess.
The memories I have of you and our past seem disorganized and chaotic.


Now you are gone, and its for the best.
Now that you are no longer a part of my life, it's better for me and my well-being.


Recoil memories of you, out of control.
Thoughts of you frequently come flooding back to me, and I struggle to regain control of my mind.


Say it was all out of love, when you never had a soul.
You claim your actions were motivated by love, but in reality, you are incapable of genuine emotion or compassion.


Now, you are dead to me anyway.
Regardless of whether you are alive or not, you are no longer a significant part of my life.


The pain you have caused me will fade away.
Although the pain you inflicted on me was significant, it will gradually diminish over time.


I will go on, you will remain.
I will continue to live my life, while you remain stuck in the past and unable to move forward.


You think you tried, and I think you're insane.
You believe you made an effort, but I think your actions were irrational and harmful.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: John T. Rzeznik

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