No Games
Breaking Benjamin Lyrics


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This game is over
I'm mean and older
You're coming closer
Over and over
My dear Brianna
I need an answer
What was the question?
I can't remember

[Chorus]
Would you, want to
Feel the way that I do?
And I bend, to your will
I've felatted myself

Tied to the needle
My drunk libido
My nervous ego
The faster we go
You are an asshole
King of the castle
I am the meager
Follow the leader

[Chorus]

And I know that you don't
Like the way that it goes




We're all in, so begin
Just remember: I win

Overall Meaning

Breaking Benjamin's song No Games is a powerful and intense song that captures the essence of an unhealthy and destructive relationship. The lyrics paint a picture of a toxic dynamic where the singer is being controlled and manipulated by someone else. The song begins with the singer acknowledging the end of the game that he has been playing with his partner. The game has led to him becoming mean and older, which is a clear indication that the relationship has taken a toll on him. His partner is coming closer to him, and the repetition of the phrase over and over highlights the relentlessness of the situation.


The singer, named Brianna, is then directly addressed, and he seeks an answer, but he cannot even remember the question. The chorus, which is repeated throughout the song, speaks of the singer's willingness to do anything to feel the way his partner feels. He is bending to her will, and he's even "felatted" himself, a crass euphemism for oral sex, somewhere he wouldn't typically perform the act, to please her.


In the second verse, the singer indulges in excessive drinking and drugs to numb himself from the situation. He is tied to the needle, and his libido is high, which further highlights the dysfunctional nature of the relationship. His partner is seen as the asshole who is controlling everything while he is just meagerly following her lead. In the end, the singer acknowledges that he's trapped in the relationship, and he might not like how things are going, but his partner wins, which hints at the tragedy of the situation.


Line by Line Meaning

This game is over
I am done playing games with you and our relationship is over.


I'm mean and older
I am older now and less naive, which has made me less tolerant of your behavior.


You're coming closer
You keep trying to reconcile with me even though I am becoming more distant.


Over and over
This cycle of breaking up and getting back together keeps repeating itself.


My dear Brianna
I am addressing you by name, indicating the personal nature of this conflict.


I need an answer
I am demanding that you give me a clear explanation for your actions.


What was the question?
I have been asking you so many questions that I cannot remember which one I should be focusing on.


I can't remember
I am frustrated by my inability to keep track of everything that you have done to hurt me.


Would you, want to
I am asking if you even care about our relationship and if you would like to salvage it.


Feel the way that I do?
I am wondering if you understand how much pain you have caused me.


And I bend, to your will
I have been submissive to you and allowed you to control our relationship.


I've felatted myself
I have become subservient to you, even though it is not in my best interest to do so.


Tied to the needle
I feel trapped in this relationship and cannot break free, similar to being addicted to a drug.


My drunk libido
I have been foolish and impulsive in my decision-making regarding our relationship.


My nervous ego
I am insecure and anxious about our relationship, which fuels my decision-making.


The faster we go
Our relationship is moving too quickly and is unsustainable at this pace.


You are an asshole
You have been cruel and disrespectful towards me, which I am acknowledging in this line.


King of the castle
You believe that you are in control of our relationship and have all the power.


I am the meager
I feel like I am insignificant and powerless in this relationship.


Follow the leader
You are taking charge in our relationship, and I am following your lead.


And I know that you don't
I am aware that you do not care about me or our relationship.


Like the way that it goes
You are not satisfied with how our relationship has turned out and blame me for its failures.


We're all in, so begin
We are both fully invested in this relationship and need to work towards making it successful.


Just remember: I win
I am the victor in this relationship and will not let you control me anymore.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: BENJAMIN BURNLEY, JEREMY HUMMEL, AARON C FINCKE, MARK JAMES KLEPASKI

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