Between Us
Brendan Benson Lyrics


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Some days I'm content to stay at home
But other days I get restless
I can't stand to be alone
Okay, I've been known to cry in my sleep
But dreams often show what you don't want to know
When you're awake you're not so deep

Could be a bad habit I need to break
Or some kind of sentiment
That I could learn to fake
Maybe it's the devil in my ear
Averting his eyes and whispering lies
So that no one can hear
There isn't anything between us

Many times I listened to the things that people say
But many times I disagree
And I see it a different way
Could say that it looks and tastes so real
But I wouldn't mind if I went blind
Maybe then I'd learn how to feel

Yes man, I'm so glad to be alive
It's a beautiful day and my girl is okay
So we go out for a drive
Yes sir, I haven't felt my right in my head
There's no getting dressed when I get depressed




I don't want to leave my bed
There isn't anything between us

Overall Meaning

In Brendan Benson's song Between Us, he speaks about his own struggle with contentment and loneliness. He confesses that while some days he is okay with staying at home, there are other days where he feels restless and cannot stand to be alone. He admits to having cried in his sleep and that his dreams often reveal things he does not want to know. However, when he is awake, he does not feel so deeply.


He wonders if this restlessness and discontentment is a bad habit he needs to break or if it is some kind of sentiment that he needs to learn to fake. He even suggests that it could be the devil whispering lies in his ear. Benson acknowledges that there is nothing between him and this feeling of loneliness and restlessness that he experiences.


In the second verse, Benson expresses his disagreement with people when they say things that do not align with his own perspective. He reveals that sometimes things may seem real, but he would not mind going blind because then he would learn how to feel. Benson also openly talks about his depression and his reluctance to get out of bed when he is feeling low. He concludes by stating that there is nothing between him and this feeling of loneliness.


This song explores the internal struggle many people face when they battle loneliness and depression. By acknowledging his feelings and stating that there is nothing between them, Benson is expressing a desire for a sense of companionship and happiness but admits that he is not sure how to achieve it.


Line by Line Meaning

Some days I'm content to stay at home
I sometimes feel comfortable staying at home


But other days I get restless
Other times, I feel restless and need to do something


I can't stand to be alone
I don't like being alone


Okay, I've been known to cry in my sleep
I have cried in my sleep before


But dreams often show what you don't want to know
Dreams can reveal things you don't want to face


When you're awake you're not so deep
When you're awake, you're not as introspective


Could be a bad habit I need to break
It could be a bad habit that I need to stop


Or some kind of sentiment
Or maybe it's a feeling


That I could learn to fake
I could pretend to feel it


Maybe it's the devil in my ear
Perhaps it's a negative voice in my head


Averting his eyes and whispering lies
That distracts me and tells me untruths


So that no one can hear
So no one else can hear what it says


There isn't anything between us
There's no connection between us


Many times I listened to the things that people say
I have heard many things people say


But many times I disagree
But often, I don't agree with them


And I see it a different way
I have my own perspective


Could say that it looks and tastes so real
It might seem believable


But I wouldn't mind if I went blind
But I wouldn't be upset if I didn't see it anymore


Maybe then I'd learn how to feel
Perhaps I would experience things more deeply


Yes man, I'm so glad to be alive
I feel happy to be alive


It's a beautiful day and my girl is okay
The weather is great and my girlfriend is doing well


So we go out for a drive
We are going for a drive


Yes sir, I haven't felt my right in my head
However, sometimes I don't feel right


There's no getting dressed when I get depressed
I don't feel like getting dressed when I'm depressed


I don't want to leave my bed
I don't feel like leaving my bed


There isn't anything between us
There's no connection between us




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BRENDAN BENSON

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