Stay or Let It Go
Brian McKnight Lyrics


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What's up girl?
I need to talk to you for a minute
I can't keep playing myself like this
There's only one thing I wanna know
Should I stay or should I go?

It's not my fault that you make yourself regret the past
But all I know is, it makes me look bad
When I'm holding your hand and you see your friends you know
And they walk away laughing
Calling me a fool

(But baby I can't) change the things you did before we met
Even though I didn't know you
(It's hard for me to) trust you even more girl, I love you
So tell me what am I to do, yeah

Don't know if we will last
Nothing we do can erase the past
Now can you tell me, I don't know
Should I stay or let it go?
Don't know if we're meant to be
And if we should be committed faithfully
But can you tell me, I don't know
Should I stay or let it go?

I think of the night that I made reservations just for two
But you gave your attention to someone across the room
I should have known right then that things weren't right
But I couldn't see it cause love had me so blind

(Tell me how can) I be so secure in loving you
When everybody's calling me a fool
(I can't keep holding) on to broken promises from you
And I can't take no more from you, yeah

Don't know if we will last
Nothing we do can erase the past
Now can you tell me, I don't know
Should I stay or let it go?
Don't know if we're meant to be
And if we should be committed faithfully
But can you tell me, I don't know
Should I stay or let it go?

Baby time and time again
I try to overlook the pain
And I think of losing all we had together
Girl if it takes me losing you
For happiness in me
I think that I might just have to let you go, oh

Why you playing those games huh?
I don't see how you'll do it when I walk out the door

Don't know if we will last
Nothing we do can erase the past
Now can you tell me, I don't know
Should I stay or let it go?
Don't know if we're meant to be
And if we should be committed faithfully
But can you tell me, I don't know
Should I stay or let it go?

Don't know if we will last
Nothing we do can erase the past
Now can you tell me, I don't know
Should I stay or let it go?
Don't know if we're meant to be
And if we should be committed faithfully
But can you tell me, I don't know
Should I stay or let it go?





Should I stay, or should I go?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Brian McKnight's song "Stay or Let It Go" depict the struggle of a man who is confused about the fate of his relationship. He asks his partner if he should stay or go, considering the baggage of her past that constantly haunts their present. The man acknowledges that he loves her deeply, but he finds it difficult to trust her because of her past actions, which have led to people calling him a fool. The man believes that he cannot change what his partner did before they met, and it pains him whenever her past resurfaces, causing public shame.


The man reminisces about a particular event where he made reservations for two, but his partner gave attention to someone else across the room. He admits to being blinded by love, which prevented him from seeing the cracks in their relationship. The man struggles to justify his love for her because of the pain that comes with the relationship. He worries that nothing they do can erase the past and questions whether their relationship is worth committing to. He ultimately questions whether he should stay and try to make things work, or let go and move on.


Overall, the song is a reflection of how challenging it can be to navigate relationships that are plagued with past baggage. The man expresses his love but also acknowledges the difficulties that come with the baggage his partner carries. He struggles with whether to stay and try to make things work, or let go and move on to seek happiness.


Line by Line Meaning

What's up girl?
The singer is initiating the conversation with his partner.


I need to talk to you for a minute
The singer wants to discuss something important with his partner.


I can't keep playing myself like this
The singer is tired of being in a relationship where he feels unhappy.


There's only one thing I wanna know
The singer wants to make one decisive decision regarding his relationship.


Should I stay or should I go?
The singer is asking his partner whether he should stay in the relationship or leave it behind.


It's not my fault that you make yourself regret the past
The singer is not responsible for his partner's past mistakes.


But all I know is, it makes me look bad
The singer feels embarrassed by how his partner's past is affecting their relationship.


When I'm holding your hand and you see your friends you know
When the singer is physically close to his partner, his partner's friends see them together.


And they walk away laughing, Calling me a fool
His partner's friends laugh at him for being with someone who they think is not trustworthy.


(But baby I can't) change the things you did before we met
The singer cannot change the actions of his partner before they met.


Even though I didn't know you
The singer did not know about his partner's past mistakes before they met.


(It's hard for me to) trust you even more girl, I love you
Although the singer loves his partner, it's hard for him to trust her after knowing her past.


So tell me what am I to do, yeah
The singer is asking his partner for advice on what to do about their relationship.


Don't know if we will last
The singer is unsure whether their relationship is sustainable.


Nothing we do can erase the past
No actions can change what happened in the past.


Now can you tell me, I don't know, Should I stay or let it go?
The singer is still unsure about whether he should stay or leave the relationship.


I think of the night that I made reservations just for two
The singer recalls a time when he planned something special for both him and his partner.


But you gave your attention to someone across the room
During their special night, the singer's partner was focused on someone else in the room.


I should have known right then that things weren't right
The singer realized in retrospect that something was wrong during their special night.


But I couldn't see it cause love had me so blind
The singer was blinded to the issues because he was deeply in love with his partner.


(Tell me how can) I be so secure in loving you
The singer is questioning how he can continue to love his partner when he has doubts about her past.


When everybody's calling me a fool
Others are criticizing the singer for staying with his partner despite her past mistakes.


(I can't keep holding) on to broken promises from you
The singer can no longer hold on to the promises his partner made if she is not honoring them.


And I can't take no more from you, yeah
The singer has reached a breaking point in his relationship with his partner and cannot tolerate any more negativity.


Baby time and time again, I try to overlook the pain
The singer has tried to bypass the negative events in the relationship several times.


And I think of losing all we had together
The singer thinks of losing the memories and positive experiences they shared together.


Girl if it takes me losing you, For happiness in me
The singer is willing to let go of his partner to find happiness for himself.


I think that I might just have to let you go, oh
The singer is considering breaking up with his partner.


Why you playing those games huh?
The singer is asking his partner why she is playing games with him.


I don't see how you'll do it when I walk out the door
The singer is saying that he will not be able to come back to the relationship if he leaves.


Should I stay, or should I go?
The singer asks his partner again whether he should stay or leave the relationship.




Lyrics Β© Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: FRED JERKINS III, LASHAWN AMEEN DANIELS, RODNEY JERKINS, BRIAN MCKNIGHT, HARVEY MASON

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@SJMe777

Even after 21 years this song doesn't ever get old. Is there anyone else out there who agrees? πŸ₯°πŸŽΌβ€οΈπŸŽ΅πŸ˜ƒπŸŽΆπŸ’½ πŸ’ž

@brianhines1452

This is my favorite Brian McKnight song! The 90's R&B was bangin' then and classic today!

@jacedjohnson3541

Most underrated Brian McKnight song

@deentheking1057

Not to me

@willgold9705

One of the greatest tracks ever made, period.

@mwilamilimo9276

You are very right

@kukantalasha2829

Yes sir, I totally agree πŸ‘πŸ½

@leo3396

❀❀yes!

@whoknows6767

Yep!

@virgilyancey1261

This is one of the most favorite songs, it often reminds me of a breakup situation with my ex but I absolutely love this song, it's a timeless hitπŸ”₯

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