If You See Him / If You See Her
Brooks & Dunn Lyrics


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If you see him
Tell him I wish him well
How am I doin'?
Well, sometimes it's hard to tell

I still miss him more than ever
But please don't say a word
If you see him
Oh, if you see him

If you see her
Tell her I'm doin' fine
And if you want to
Say that I think of her from time to time

Ask her if she ever wonders
Where we both went wrong
If you see her
If you see her

Oh, I still want her
And I still need him so
Oh, I don't know why
We let each other go

If you see her
Tell her the light's still on for her
Nothing's changed
Deep down the fire still burns for him

And even if it takes forever
Say I'll still be here

If you see him
If you see her




If you see him
If you see her

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Brooks & Dunn's song If You See Him / If You See Her are a poignant expression of the bittersweet emotions that arise after a breakup. The singer is addressing two different people they've parted ways with, with a message to pass along. The first verse tells the audience to relay their good wishes to the male partner ("if you see him"), but also admits that they're struggling with the separation. The second verse is for the female partner ("if you see her"), and the singer tells her that they're "doing fine" and that they think about her sometimes. The bridge reveals that the singer still has deep feelings for both of them, and that the distance between them is painful. The chorus ties everything together by reiterating both requests, as well as the lingering emotions: "if you see him/if you see her."


The lyrics to this song are incredibly relatable to anyone who has gone through a breakup, particularly one where the feelings were intense and deep. One of the most powerful aspects of the song is the way it acknowledges the complexity of those emotions: the singer doesn't pretend that they're over their exes, but they're also not wallowing in bitterness or regret. Instead, they're acknowledging the love that they still feel, even as they move on. This speaks to a deep human need to honor our past relationships, even as we try to forge a new path forward.


Line by Line Meaning

If you see him
Asking if the person being spoken to has seen the individual in question (him)


Tell him I wish him well
Requesting that the person being spoken to pass on a message of goodwill to him


How am I doin'?
Asking for an update on how the individual is perceived by others


Well, sometimes it's hard to tell
Acknowledging that one's own emotions can be difficult to discern


I still miss him more than ever
Admitting to a persistent feeling of emptiness and longing for him


But please don't say a word
Preferring that the person being spoken to keep the previous sentiment between them


If you see him
Reiterating the initial inquiry about him


Oh, if you see him
Expressing the strength of the desire to see him again


If you see her
Adjusting the inquiry from him to her


Tell her I'm doin' fine
Informing her of one's current state of being


And if you want to
Offering the option of passing on additional information


Say that I think of her from time to time
Revealing that thoughts of her occasionally cross one's mind


Ask her if she ever wonders
Making an inquiry about her thoughts and feelings concerning their past relationship


Where we both went wrong
Asking for an evaluation of where the relationship was damaged


If you see her
Restating the inquiry about her


If you see her
Repeating the inquiry for emphasis


Oh, I still want her
Admitting to a persistent desire for her


And I still need him so
Acknowleging that one still relies on him emotionally


Oh, I don't know why
Confessing a lack of understanding regarding the reasons for the dissolution of the relationship


We let each other go
Acknowledging that both parties have separated from one another


If you see her
Returning the focus to the inquiry about her


Tell her the light's still on for her
Declaring that one is still waiting for her to come back


Nothing's changed
Asserting that one's feelings and circumstances remain unchanged


Deep down the fire still burns for him
Acknowledging that the same persistent feeling of desire for him still remains


And even if it takes forever
Continuing to wait for the individuals to return


Say I'll still be here
Vowing to remain in the same position, emotionally and circumstantially


If you see him
A final restatement of the original inquiry about him


If you see her
The final statement reiterating the inquiry about her


If you see him
A final restatement of the original inquiry about him


If you see her
The final statement reiterating the inquiry about her




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Tommy Lee James, Jennifer K Kimball, Terry Mc Bride

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