Boys
Camila Cabello Lyrics


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I know thoughts you don't want in your head
Are spinnin' 'round, 'round, 'round
I know you got demons from the past
Slowin' you down, down, down
But you don't answer your FaceTime
You never had much of a poker face
It doesn't make you less of a man
You're just human right now

When I'm afraid of the world, when every part of me hurts
You don't know how many times you've saved me
So why you hidin' from me? It's only makin' it worse
I just want to be close, my baby

Give me your pain, I'll take the weight off your shoulders
Don't be afraid, fall into me, let me hold you
We weren't made to hold back the rain from the sky
Who ever told you that boys don't cry, boys don't cry?

Hate it when you shut me out
Actin' like it's your shit to figure out
Don't want to be touched
Don't want to discuss
I get it, I just, uh
Now I'm in my head
About what's in your head
Come back to bed
Can we talk about it?

It's not stupid, it's not drama
It's just trauma turned to armor
Keepin' you from me, no performin'
If you love me, come and touch me, yeah

When I'm afraid of the world, when every part of me hurts
You don't know how many times you've saved me
So why you hidin' from me? It's only makin' it worse
I just want to be close, my baby

Give me your pain, I'll take the weight off your shoulders
Don't be afraid, fall into me, let me hold you
We weren't made to hold back the rain from the sky
Who ever told you that boys don't cry, boys don't cry?

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Boys don't cry, boys don't cry
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
Boys don't cry, boys don't cry

Come, my baby, lay your head on me
Lay your head on me, lay your head on me
Come, my baby, lay your head on me
Lay your head on me, lay your head on me (you know I gotcha)
Come my baby, lay your head on me (you know I'd do anythin' for ya)
Lay your head on me, lay your head on me (so)
Come, my baby, lay your head on me
Lay your head on me, lay your head on me

Give me your pain, I'll take the weight off your shoulders
Don't be afraid, fall into me, let me hold you
We weren't made to hold back the rain from the sky
Who ever told you that boys don't cry, boys don't cry?




Ooh-oh
Boys don't cry, boys don't cry

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Camila Cabello's song "Boys Don't Cry" touch upon themes of vulnerability, support, and breaking down the societal stereotypes surrounding masculinity. The song begins by acknowledging the thoughts and demons that haunt the person the singer is addressing, recognizing that they are struggling and slowing down due to their past experiences. However, despite this understanding, the person shuts themselves off and avoids connecting with others, including the singer. The singer expresses a desire to be close and offer support, emphasizing that it doesn't make them less of a man to show vulnerability and seek help.


The chorus reinforces the message of the song, with the singer offering to help carry the person's pain and be a source of comfort for them. They encourage the person to trust and not be afraid, indicating that it's okay to lean on someone and let them provide solace. The lyrics challenge the notion that boys don't cry and suggest that it's important to break free from this toxic expectation.


In the second verse, the singer expresses frustration at being shut out and not being given the opportunity to talk about what's happening. They acknowledge that the person may not want physical touch or discussions, but they still want to understand and support them. The lyrics highlight that the person's emotional distance is a result of trauma turned into emotional armor, making it harder for them to connect with others.


The song continues to reinforce the importance of vulnerability and supporting one another in the face of pain and hardship. The repeated chorus emphasizes the offer to provide comfort and dismisses the notion that boys shouldn't show their emotions or shed tears.


Overall, "Boys Don't Cry" is a heartfelt plea for compassion and understanding, challenging gender norms that encourage men to repress their emotions. It calls for a more inclusive and supportive approach to masculinity.


Line by Line Meaning

I know thoughts you don't want in your head
I understand that you have unwanted thoughts swirling in your mind


Are spinnin' 'round, 'round, 'round
They are constantly circulating, causing confusion


I know you got demons from the past
I recognize that you have unresolved issues from your previous experiences


Slowin' you down, down, down
These demons are hindering your progress and weighing you down


But you don't answer your FaceTime
You avoid connecting with me, even through technology


You never had much of a poker face
Your emotions are always transparent, you can't hide them


It doesn't make you less of a man
Your vulnerability doesn't diminish your masculinity


You're just human right now
You're experiencing human emotions and struggles in this moment


When I'm afraid of the world, when every part of me hurts
In times when I'm scared and feeling pain in every aspect of my being


You don't know how many times you've saved me
You may not realize the countless times you have rescued me


So why you hidin' from me? It's only makin' it worse
So, why are you avoiding me? It only exacerbates the situation


I just want to be close, my baby
All I desire is to be emotionally connected with you, my love


Give me your pain, I'll take the weight off your shoulders
Share your pain with me, I will alleviate the burden you carry


Don't be afraid, fall into me, let me hold you
Don't fear, trust in me and allow me to provide comfort and support


We weren't made to hold back the rain from the sky
Our purpose isn't to shield ourselves from life's challenges


Who ever told you that boys don't cry, boys don't cry?
Whoever said that men shouldn't express their emotions and cry?


Hate it when you shut me out
I despise it when you isolate yourself from me


Actin' like it's your shit to figure out
Behaving as if you must solve all your problems on your own


Don't want to be touched
You don't desire physical contact


Don't want to discuss
You don't want to talk about it


I get it, I just, uh
I understand, but it's just, uh


Now I'm in my head
Now I'm overthinking


About what's in your head
Contemplating what's going on in your mind


Come back to bed
Please return to bed with me


Can we talk about it?
Can we have a discussion about the issue?


It's not stupid, it's not drama
This is not trivial, it's not unnecessary conflict


It's just trauma turned to armor
It's just your past trauma becoming a defensive shield


Keepin' you from me, no performin'
Preventing you from being emotionally open with me, not being your true self


If you love me, come and touch me, yeah
If you love me, show it by physically connecting with me, expressing affection


Boys don't cry, boys don't cry
The misconception that boys should suppress their tears and not show emotions


Come, my baby, lay your head on me
Come, my love, rest your head on me


You know I gotcha
You know I will support you


Come my baby, lay your head on me
Come, my love, rest your head on me


You know I'd do anythin' for ya
You know I would do anything for you


So
Therefore


Give me your pain, I'll take the weight off your shoulders
Share your pain with me, I will alleviate the burden you carry


Don't be afraid, fall into me, let me hold you
Don't fear, trust in me, and allow me to provide comfort and support


We weren't made to hold back the rain from the sky
Our purpose isn't to shield ourselves from life's challenges


Who ever told you that boys don't cry, boys don't cry?
Whoever said that men shouldn't express their emotions and cry?


Boys don't cry, boys don't cry
The misconception that boys should suppress their tears and not show emotions




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Camila Cabello, Eric Frederic, Jonah Shy, Scott Harris

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Eli V

I remember Camila singing a snippet of this song and now I can hear it all! 😁

Mahi

I hate how people, instead of appreciating the song, are just focusing on a line and making up theories, like, c'mon it's none of your business just appreciate the song

JUST WHY CRIS

wait wait wait did you see the part where she said "say we don't need no man, NO WONDER WHY WE SWITCH SIDES" UMMMMM

nicole

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JUST WHY CRIS

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Omg her voice

Tasneem Ahmed

Lauren: camren is not real, never have been never will be.
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