The Other Woman
Chely Wright Lyrics


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She picked up his jacket
And hid her earrings in his pocket
So he'd have a reason to call
But her telephone won't ring
And the shame that it will bring
Makes her regret it all

She should be accustomed
She oughta know you just can't trust 'em
When he's got a wife that he ain't gonna leave
Maybe she deserves what she's got comin'
She can't hide and there's no runnin'
From the guilty, lonely life she's bound to lead

[Chorus]
Cause she's the other woman
You've seen her before
Deep in his eyes
When he walks through the door
But did you know that even though
She's puttin' you through hell
You don't have to hate the other woman
She'll do it herself

They tried to keep it undercover
But you would soon discover
That she's your worse nightmare comin' true
You don't even know her name
But you wish her a life of pain
And believe you me that's what she's goin' through

[Chorus]





No, you don't have to hate the other woman
She'll do it herself

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Chely Wright's song "The Other Woman" depict the struggles of a woman who is involved with a man who has a wife. She picks up his jacket and hides her earrings in his pocket so that he has a reason to call her. But when the phone doesn't ring, she realizes the mistake that she has made and regrets it all. She is ashamed of what she has done, especially since she knows that she can't trust her lover. She also knows that she is the other woman, and while she may deserve what is coming for her, she cannot escape the guilty and lonely life that she has chosen.


The chorus of the song describes the other woman as someone who is often seen by people, deep in the eyes of the man she is involved with, when he walks through the door. However, even though she may be putting people through hell, you don't have to hate her because she is doing that herself. The verses of the song talk about how the affair was kept under cover so no one knew who the other woman was, but once it was discovered, people wished her a life of pain. The lyrics show the pain and vulnerability that the other woman feels, while also highlighting the judgments imposed on her.


Line by Line Meaning

She picked up his jacket
She took his jacket to give him a reason to call her


And hid her earrings in his pocket
She hid her earrings in his pocket to create an excuse for him to contact her


So he'd have a reason to call
She wanted him to call her and having his jacket and earrings would give him a reason to do so


But her telephone won't ring
He hasn't called her, and she is frustrated about it


And the shame that it will bring
She is ashamed of herself for being with a married man


Makes her regret it all
She is full of regret for getting involved with a married man


She should be accustomed
She should know better by now


She oughta know you just can't trust 'em
She should be aware that married men can't be trusted


When he's got a wife that he ain't gonna leave
If he hasn't left his wife yet, he probably never will


Maybe she deserves what she's got comin'
She might deserve the consequences of her actions


She can't hide and there's no runnin'
She can't hide from the situation or escape its consequences


From the guilty, lonely life she's bound to lead
She will have to live with guilt and loneliness as a result of her affair


Cause she's the other woman
She is the woman having an affair with a married man


You've seen her before
You might have seen women like her before


Deep in his eyes
You can tell he is hiding something by looking into his eyes


When he walks through the door
When he arrives, you can feel something is not right


But did you know that even though
However, you might not realize that


She's puttin' you through hell
She is not the only one suffering


You don't have to hate the other woman
You don't have to hate her because


She'll do it herself
She will hate herself and suffer enough


They tried to keep it undercover
They tried to keep it a secret


But you would soon discover
However, they couldn't keep it hidden forever and you found out the truth


That she's your worse nightmare comin' true
She is the worst thing that could happen to a marriage


You don't even know her name
You don't even know her, but


But you wish her a life of pain
You still wish her the worst because of what she did


And believe you me that's what she's goin' through
She is going through a tough time, suffering the consequences of her actions




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: CHELY WRIGHT

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