Porcelain Doll
Chrisette Michele Lyrics


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I can't even believe we're having this conversation again, oh my god.
Here's the thing
I need you to stop treatin' me as if I'm simple or naive.
As if I don't know nothing bout the world.
I understand you think you protecting me, but I could use a little room to breathe
And the respect you give a woman not a girl
Here's the thing
I appreciate all the love
The constant catering kisses and hugs
But lately I'm wondering what you do it for
If the reason you act all over sweet is cause you want to keep me on a leash.
I have no choice but to show you the door.

[Chorus: x2]
If you want to cradle me like a little girl
And lock me down
I'm not your possession
I'm a full grown woman I am not your porcelain doll

Here's the thing you wanna put me in fancy clothes
And take me everywhere you go
And show me off to all your fancy friends
Well here's the thing
I really don't mind the clothes
I love a nice dress with some open toes
But a trophy I'm not, So baby think again
(Hey) and Here's the thing
You always wanna hold my hand
And say things to me like I'm the man So let me do what a man's suppose to do
Well here's the thing you can be the man all the while
Understanding I am not a child
You're a man for sure, but baby I'm grown too
Hey hey

[Chorus: x2]

Said you gotta respect me totally
Otherwise I'm goin' up and leave
And baby I know you don't want me to do that.
So you gotta respect me totally, so when I say back up off of me
Just kiss my cheek and when I leave move back

[Chorus: x2]

I'm a full grown woman I am not your porcelain doll




One more time
I'm a full grown woman I am not your porcelain doll

Overall Meaning

The lyrics in Chrisette Michele's song, Porcelain Doll, display the frustration and dissatisfaction that the singer feels towards her lover. She can't believe they're having the same conversation again, and she demands that he stops treating her as if she's simple or naive. She wants to be given room to breathe and to be respected as a woman, not a girl. She appreciates the love and affection he shows, but questions the motives behind the constant catering and attention. She feels like she's being put on a leash and wants to be free.


The chorus emphasizes her independence and strength, as she declares that she's not his possession and is a full-grown woman, not a porcelain doll. She wants to be respected totally and warns that if she's not, she's leaving. The singer wants to be seen as an equal and not just an accessory that her lover shows off to his friends. She emphasizes that she's not a trophy and he needs to think again if that's how he perceives her. She also wants him to understand that being a man doesn't mean dictating her every move, and that she's grown too.


Overall, the lyrics in Porcelain Doll are a message to the singer's lover that she's no longer comfortable with being treated like a child or an object. She wants to be respected as an adult woman, given space to breathe and be her own person, and not be limited or restricted in any way.


Line by Line Meaning

I can't even believe we're having this conversation again, oh my god.
I cannot believe that we're having this conversation again. It's exasperating.


Here's the thing I need you to stop treatin' me as if I'm simple or naive. As if I don't know nothing bout the world.
Stop treating me like I'm simple or naive as if I don't know anything about the world. I'm smart enough to understand things.


I understand you think you protecting me, but I could use a little room to breathe And the respect you give a woman not a girl
I know you're trying to protect me, but I need space to do my own thing. Treat me like a woman rather than a girl.


I appreciate all the love The constant catering kisses and hugs But lately I'm wondering what you do it for If the reason you act all over sweet is cause you want to keep me on a leash. I have no choice but to show you the door.
I appreciate your love, but lately I've been wondering if you're only doing it to control me. If that's the case, I have to leave.


If you want to cradle me like a little girl And lock me down I'm not your possession I'm a full grown woman I am not your porcelain doll
If you want to treat me like a child and control me, I won't tolerate it. I'm a grown woman, not your possession.


Here's the thing you wanna put me in fancy clothes And take me everywhere you go And show me off to all your fancy friends Well here's the thing I really don't mind the clothes I love a nice dress with some open toes But a trophy I'm not, So baby think again (Hey) and Here's the thing
You want to dress me up and show me off to your fancy friends, but I'm not some trophy. I don't mind the clothes, but I won't stand for being treated like an object.


You always wanna hold my hand And say things to me like I'm the man So let me do what a man's suppose to do Well here's the thing you can be the man all the while Understanding I am not a child You're a man for sure, but baby I'm grown too Hey hey
You always want to hold my hand and treat me like I'm the man in the relationship. Let me be independent and do what a man is supposed to do. You can be the man, but also understand that I'm not a child. I'm a grown woman too.


Said you gotta respect me totally Otherwise I'm goin' up and leave And baby I know you don't want me to do that. So you gotta respect me totally, so when I say back up off of me Just kiss my cheek and when I leave move back
You need to respect me entirely, or I'll leave. I know you don't want that, so you better respect me. When I tell you to back off, do it. Just give me a kiss on the cheek and move back.


I'm a full grown woman I am not your porcelain doll One more time I'm a full grown woman I am not your porcelain doll
I want to reiterate that I'm a grown woman, and I won't tolerate being treated like a fragile porcelain doll.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: SHAFFER SMITH, CHARLES T. HARMON

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