Go Find a Man
Christopher Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

(Verse)
You threw my favorite t-shirt out, who the hell do you think you are?
Always change the music when we're driving in my car
You don't like my friends, you say they're immature
But you don't like anything cause you're so insecure

And I'm not sure, what you're looking for
(Chorus)
Go find a man that you can change
And let me go because you don't want me, no
You never never did
Go find a man who will obey every word you say
You don't want me, no,
You never never did x3

(Verse)
You don't like the way I laugh, say I always talk too much
And you hate the way I dance, but don't really give a fuck!
You can't take it, you can leave it, you can break it or believe it
I'm so over you, telling me what to do

(Chorus)
Go find a man that you can change
And let me go because you don't want me, no
You never never did
Go find a man who will obey every word you say
You don't want me, no,
You never never did x3

(Interlude)
You never ever will
You never ever understood
You won't get it until
Until you have lost me for good

(Chorus x2)
Go find a man that you can change
And let me go because you don't want me, no
You never never did
Go find a man who will obey every word you say




You don't want me, no,
You never never did x3

Overall Meaning

In the first verse of the song, the singer addresses their significant other and lists various things that they dislike about their partner. From throwing out a favorite t-shirt, to changing the music while driving, to disliking the singer's friends due to immaturity, the partner is portrayed as someone who is controlling and insecure. The singer concludes that their partner does not like anything because of their insecurity. The chorus addresses the partner's desire to change the singer's behavior and personality, suggesting that they leave and find someone who is more compliant and obedient.


The second verse continues to list things that the partner dislikes about the singer, including the way they laugh, talk, and dance. The singer acknowledges that the partner can take it or leave it, but ultimately decides that they're over being told what to do. The interlude expresses the singer's belief that their partner never understood them, and won't until it's too late. The final chorus repeats the message of the earlier chorus, encouraging the partner to find someone else who will allow themselves to be changed and obedient.


Line by Line Meaning

You threw my favorite t-shirt out, who the hell do you think you are?
You disrespect me and take a blind-eye to my feelings.


Always change the music when we're driving in my car
You never respect my choices or what makes me tick.


You don't like my friends, you say they're immature
You always criticize everything about my life and the people I choose to befriend.


But you don't like anything cause you're so insecure
You always need to find flaws in everything, because you can't handle being imperfect.


And I'm not sure, what you're looking for
I'm beginning to question whether you actually care for me, or just want to control me.


Go find a man that you can change
Instead of trying to mold me into something I'm not, find someone else who will fit your expectations.


And let me go because you don't want me, no
I'm tired of being in a one-sided relationship and I deserve better.


You never never did
You never really wanted me in the way that I wanted you.


Go find a man who will obey every word you say
You're looking for someone to control, not for a partner with whom to share your life.


You never ever will
You will never understand the deep connection and love that I need.


You never ever understood
You don't understand or care to understand what I need in order to be happy.


You won't get it until
You are incapable of empathy until you have lost me for good.


Until you have lost me for good
Only when you lose me will you realize what you have forfeited.




Contributed by Lily W. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found

More Versions