They have released two EP's: Innocence Surround and Introduction, a demo and four full length albums: Shout The Truth in 2008, which was re-recorded and re-released when Joel Piper joined the band in 2009, Recover in 2010 and then All Is Calm in 2013. The band ended in 2010, but had a comeback for their last album released in 2013.
All former members (in order of joining):
Jeffrey Helberg (2004 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): guitar (only original member left)
Aaron Van Zuthpen (2004 - 2009): guitar, vocals (now in Nekrogoblikon)
Joshua Plesh (2004 - 2007): vocals
Billy Pruden (2004 - 2009): bass
Jason Pickard (2004 - 2006): drums
John Paul Penton (2006 - 2007): drums
Ross Kenyon (2007 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): vocals (Ex-PenknifeLovelife)
Arin Ilejay (2007 - 2009): drums (ex-Avenged Sevenfold)
Joshua Patrick Paul (2009 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): guitar (Ex-In Fair Verona)
Joel Piper (2009 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): drums, vocals (also in Avery PkwyEx-Olivia the Band)
Trevor Vickers (2009 - 2010, 2012 - 2013): bass (Ex-Underneath The Gun)
Confide was formed by Joshua Plesh, Aaron Van Zuthpen, Billy Pruden, Jason Pickard and Jeff Helberg. They were in the same youth group and wanted to start a hardcore band. Two EP's were recorded in this formation: Innocence Surround and Introduction.
In the end of 2006, drummer Jason Pickard left the band and was replaced by John Paul Penton. Joshua Plesh also left the band. Ross Kenyon (who was fronting Penknifelovelife at that time) contacted Jeffey Helberg through the internet and told him he wanted to sing in an American band because his girlfriend lived there.
After being in the States for three months, Ross was forced to move back to England and John decided to quit the band.
In July Ross moved back to California and Arin Ilejay joined the band on the drums. In this formation they recorded Shout The Truth and their videoclip for If We Were a Sinking Ship.
In March 2009 two new members were introduced to the band: Joshua Paul and Joel Piper. Aaron and Arin left the band because they wanted a normal life off the road.
With Joel taking over the clean vocals, they re-recorded Shout The Truth and also a cover of The Postal Service's 'Such Great Heights'. They also recorded a videoclip for that song.
In August 2009 Billy Pruden, bassplayer and founding member, left the band. He was replaced by Trevor Vickers.
Vickers was introduced on their national headliner tour 'Thriller Tour' with Agraceful. They also recorded a video for 'I Never Saw It Coming' in September.
In December 2009 the band recorded their new album with Joey Sturgis (Asking Alexandria, The Devil Wears Prada, Attack Attack!). The album was released in May 2010 and featured one single Tighten it Up..
On October 4th, 2010, it was officially announced by Confide of their breakup. They have stated that they'll part ways when they return from their tour of Japan in early October. The band plans to play a handful of farewell shows on the West Coast. A statement released on behalf of the band says, "There is no easy way to say this at all but it's time to put an end to all the rumors you guys keep hearing about us breaking up. Unfortunately, the rumors are true and we wish we could have been the first to tell you guys but there are reasons why we couldn't release this statement until now. We want to be 100% honest with you guys and let you know the real reasons that Confide will be no longer because you deserve to know. First of all, we want to let you know that each member of the band remains friends and the band breaking up was a positive thing and nothing bad happened to result in this. After being a touring band for over three years now, Confide is on the road for nine to ten months out the year and for some people in the band, it was getting to be a struggle to be gone so much, living in a van, sleeping in parking lots and not eating/sleeping well. We absolutely love making music, playing shows and especially meeting/hanging out with fans but we feel God has a new chapter for our lives right now. Around two weeks ago, Joshua, Trevor & I (Ross) sat down and talked about how we felt about touring and how it is really taking a toll on our lives. After the talk, we then sat down as a full band and told Jeff & Joel how we felt and they were very understanding and knew exactly what we were going through. Jeff & Joel discussed keeping Confide going but we decided as a group that it would be for the best if Confide came to an end after our Japan tour, which is in early October. Each member of the band will continue to work in the music industry in some way or another, whether it be in a band, work for a record label/management company, work in a studio, or whatever it may be, we're not giving up on music and you will definitely hear from each of us again. We hope that you guys will show each of us the same support that you have shown Confide over the years. Since the beginning, Confide has been a band that strives to help, encourage and inspire people and even though the band will be no more, we want you guys to still be able to talk to us on a personal level so if you ever want to talk or just say hey, please never hesitate to contact us through our Facebook, twitter or myspace profiles. As a huge thank you to our fans, we will be doing a bunch of farewell shows. We'll post dates and details on the farewell shows once we get back from Japan and figure all of that out. We want to thank fans and give you guys a chance to come to a show and celebrate the life of Confide with us."
The fans missed Confide and the band listened to the words online. The band started a Kickstarter campaign and on September 30, 2012 Confide was successfully funded and had received $38,709 in fan support for their album project to be released in 2013 called All Is Calm. Confide performed on several festivals after this.
The members of Confide have gone on to take part in many other bands and projects, most notably Avenged Sevenfold and Of Mice & Men. Former drummer Arin Ilejay joined Avenged Sevenfold and then was fired from the band, but as of 2015 has joined the nu metal band Islander. Drummer Joel Piper started his own solo project after quitting Of Mice & Men, and later the band Lifelong with also previous Confide members Ross Kenyon and Trevor Vickers. Aaron Van Zutphen currently plays in the metal band Nekrogoblikon.
Now Or Never
Confide Lyrics
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You know what I'm feeling
You'll show me the way out
It's a certain feeling that I can't describe
I see your face when I close my eyes
There's something that's missing, I'm not one to listen
You've told me before but my ears are all yours now
It has to be now or never
And if you know me all so well
You know I haven't been so well
And if you know me all so well
You know I haven't been so well lately
I said I would try to get through this
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go)
I said I would try to get through this
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go, don't let me go)
This could be
This could be the death of us all
I won't keep you waiting, I know that I'm changing
This just gives me reason to prove that I'm willing
I almost close down from all that I hide
I know things are better when you're by my side
I'm hoping you see that I'm honestly trying
To keep my ways clean and to show you a better side
This is it, a new me for you
A new beginning is all I can do
I said I would try to get through this
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go)
I said I would try to get through this
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go, don't let me go)
If I believed in myself
As much as I believe in you
This would be so much easier
But it's not so come and get me
I can't keep bringing myself down
I tear myself apart
It has to stop
I said I would try to get through this
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go)
I said I would try to get through this
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go, don't let me go)
And if you know me all so well
You know I haven't been so well
The song "Now or Never" by Confide is a heartfelt plea for help from someone who is struggling with their personal demons. It is a song about the need for change and the difficulty of making that change happen. The lyrics express a sense of urgency and a fear of losing the person who is offering their support. At the heart of the song is the idea that the singer is willing to take a risk and try to change, but they need help and they can't do it alone.
The opening lines of the song are a declaration of trust and vulnerability. The singer acknowledges that they are broken and lost, but they believe that the person they are speaking to can guide them out of darkness. The next few lines describe the difficult emotions that the singer is struggling with, and how their feelings are intertwined with the person they are singing to. The chorus is a plea for action ā the singer knows that they need to change, and they are afraid that they will lose the support they need if they don't act quickly.
The second verse of the song is a promise to try harder, to be better, and to rely on the person who is offering their support. The lyrics express a longing for the person to see that the singer is changing and making progress. The bridge of the song is a reflection on the singer's lack of self-confidence and their sense that they are unworthy of the help they are receiving. It is a moment of doubt, but the song quickly returns to the hopeful tone of the chorus, with the singer pleading not to be abandoned.
Overall, "Now or Never" is a powerful song about the need for change and the difficulty of making that change happen. It is a song that many people can relate to, as it speaks to the universal struggle to overcome personal demons and grow as a person.
Line by Line Meaning
You have my attention, there is not a question
I am fully focused on you and ready to listen to what you have to say.
You know what I'm feeling
You understand me and my emotions.
You'll show me the way out
You will help me through this tough time and guide me towards a solution.
It's a certain feeling that I can't describe
I am experiencing something I cannot put into words.
I see your face when I close my eyes
You are constantly on my mind.
There's something that's missing, I'm not one to listen
I have been ignoring what you have been trying to tell me.
You've told me before but my ears are all yours now
I acknowledge that I haven't been listening, but now I am fully paying attention to what you have to say.
It has to be now or never
The situation requires us to take action immediately.
You can't wait on me forever
I understand that you cannot keep waiting for me to make a change forever.
And if you know me all so well
If you truly understand me and my struggles,
You know I haven't been so well
You are aware that I have not been doing well emotionally.
I said I would try to get through this
I made a promise to try and overcome my difficulties.
But we know it won't last forever
I understand that the situation will not be temporary and may take some time to overcome.
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go)
Please stay by my side and support me throughout my journey.
This could be
This situation has the potential to be the end.
This could be the death of us all
This situation could lead to the downfall of us both.
I won't keep you waiting, I know that I'm changing
I will not delay any longer and I am actively pursuing changes in myself.
This just gives me reason to prove that I'm willing
This situation has given me motivation to show my commitment and dedication to making progress.
I almost close down from all that I hide
I struggle with keeping my emotions and struggles hidden, which can affect me negatively.
I know things are better when you're by my side
I understand that things are easier when you are there to support me.
I'm hoping you see that I'm honestly trying
I am doing my best to make positive changes in my life and hope that you can see that.
To keep my ways clean and to show you a better side
I am committed to changing my negative behaviors and showing you a more positive side of myself.
This is it, a new me for you
I am determined to become a better version of myself for you.
A new beginning is all I can do
I know that starting fresh and making changes is the best option.
If I believed in myself
If I had more confidence in myself,
As much as I believe in you
As much as I trust and believe in you,
This would be so much easier
Making changes and overcoming this situation would be easier if I had more self-confidence.
But it's not so come and get me
But that is not the case, and I need your help to overcome this situation.
I can't keep bringing myself down
I cannot continue to allow my negative thoughts and emotions to control me.
I tear myself apart
My struggles and difficulties are causing me emotional pain and distress.
It has to stop
I know that I need to take action to stop this cycle of negativity and self-destruction.
Lyrics Ā© O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: JEFFREY HELBERG, JOEL DALE PIPER, JOSHUA PAUL, ROSS KENYON, TOM DENNEY, TREVOR VICKERS
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Lilg0thy
You have my attention, there is not a question
You know what I'm feeling
You'll show me the way out
It's a certain feeling that I can't describe
I see your face when I close my eyes
There's something that's missing, I'm not one to listen
You've told me before but my ears are all yours now
It has to be now or neverĀ
You can't wait on me forever
And if you know me all so well
You know I haven't been so wellĀ
And if you know me all so well
You know I haven't been so well lately
I said I would try to get through thisĀ
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go)
I said I would try to get through thisĀ
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go, don't let me go)
This could beĀ
This could be the death of us all
I won't keep you waiting, I know that I'm changing
This just gives me reason to prove that I'm willing
I almost close down from all that I hide
I know things are better when you're by my side
I'm hoping you see that I'm honestly tryingĀ
To keep my ways clean and to show you a better side
This is it, a new me for you
A new beginning is all I can do
I said I would try to get through thisĀ
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go)
I said I would try to get through thisĀ
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go, don't let me go)
If I believed in myselfĀ
As much as I believe in youĀ
This would be so much easierĀ
But it's not so come and get me
I can't keep bringing myself down
I tear myself apart
It has to stop
I said I would try to get through thisĀ
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go)
I said I would try to get through thisĀ
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go, don't let me go)
And if you know me all so well
You know I haven't been so well
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Lilg0thy
You have my attention, there is not a question
You know what I'm feeling
You'll show me the way out
It's a certain feeling that I can't describe
I see your face when I close my eyes
There's something that's missing, I'm not one to listen
You've told me before but my ears are all yours now
It has to be now or neverĀ
You can't wait on me forever
And if you know me all so well
You know I haven't been so wellĀ
And if you know me all so well
You know I haven't been so well lately
I said I would try to get through thisĀ
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go)
I said I would try to get through thisĀ
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go, don't let me go)
This could beĀ
This could be the death of us all
I won't keep you waiting, I know that I'm changing
This just gives me reason to prove that I'm willing
I almost close down from all that I hide
I know things are better when you're by my side
I'm hoping you see that I'm honestly tryingĀ
To keep my ways clean and to show you a better side
This is it, a new me for you
A new beginning is all I can do
I said I would try to get through thisĀ
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go)
I said I would try to get through thisĀ
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go, don't let me go)
If I believed in myselfĀ
As much as I believe in youĀ
This would be so much easierĀ
But it's not so come and get me
I can't keep bringing myself down
I tear myself apart
It has to stop
I said I would try to get through thisĀ
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go)
I said I would try to get through thisĀ
But we know it won't last forever
Don't let me go. (Don't let me go, don't let me go)
And if you know me all so well
You know I haven't been so well
Eduuh
2017 e ainda continuo ouvindo essa delicia de musica/banda <3
Andrew Kushel
This song by far has the "hardest hitting" and "quickest moving" break down Ive ever heard, just flawless(: Im excited for their return!
Bethany Field
One of my favourite albums <3 even after all this time I love it so much!
bmth123 twa
Mi banda favorita. <3
Eduardo Reyes
bmth123 twa y bmth?
marcus goldberger
i miss the old days:/ this was my jam!!
Hisparussky
No faqin way I was trying to remember with all my strength this band and just remembered the name of this song... This band is sooooooooooooooooo good.. I remember like 8 years ago reharsing this very song with my friends (in our small band). Spotify, GFY!!! Youtube rules!!!!!!