But Not For Me
Connie Francis Lyrics


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They're writing songs of love, but not for me
A lucky star's above, but not for me
With love to lead the way
I found more clouds are gray
Than any rainy day, could guarantee

I was a fool to fall, and get that way
I should have known the price, I'd have to pay
Although I can't dismiss




The memory of his kiss
I guess he's not for me

Overall Meaning

In Connie Francis's song "But Not For Me," the lyrics convey a sense of longing and heartbreak. The opening line, "They're writing songs of love, but not for me," highlights a feeling of being left out and not experiencing the same love and happiness that others are singing about. This suggests a sense of isolation and longing for a romantic connection.


The second line, "A lucky star's above, but not for me," reinforces the idea that while others may seem fortunate in love, the singer feels as if luck and happiness in romantic relationships elude her. The following lines, "With love to lead the way, I found more clouds are gray than any rainy day could guarantee," intensify the melancholic tone. The idea of love being a guiding force only leads to disappointment, as the singer discovers more sadness and grayness than joy.


The next verse explores the singer's past actions and regrets. The line, "I was a fool to fall and get that way," suggests that the singer acknowledges a wrong decision and the consequences that come with it. The lyrics continue, "I should have known the price I'd have to pay." This line implies a sense of self-blame and regret for not anticipating the eventual heartache.


The final lines of the verse, "Although I can't dismiss the memory of his kiss, I guess he's not for me," reveal that while the singer still holds onto the memory of a past lover's kiss, there is an acceptance that the relationship is not meant to be. This acceptance adds further depth to the feeling of longing and unattainable love present throughout the song.


Overall, "But Not For Me" delves into themes of unrequited love, longing, and coming to terms with the reality of a failed romance.


Line by Line Meaning

They're writing songs of love, but not for me
While others may be finding love and inspiration in the songs being written, it seems that the love portrayed in those songs is not meant for me.


A lucky star's above, but not for me
Although there may be a fortunate celestial body shining in the sky, its luck and blessings do not seem to be directed towards me.


With love to lead the way
Having love as the guiding force in my life, I hoped for happiness and fulfillment.


I found more clouds are gray
Unfortunately, I discovered that there are more moments of sadness and disappointment than expected.


Than any rainy day, could guarantee
These gloomy moments outweigh even the certainty of a rainy day, which is known to bring its own sadness.


I was a fool to fall, and get that way
In retrospect, I realize that I made a foolish decision to fall in love and allow myself to be affected in this manner.


I should have known the price, I'd have to pay
Looking back, I should have been aware of the consequences and sacrifices that would come along with pursuing love.


Although I can't dismiss
Despite my efforts to disregard or forget


The memory of his kiss
I am unable to erase the recollection of his affectionate kiss from my mind.


I guess he's not for me
In the end, it seems that he is not the right person for me, leaving me with a sense of sadness and longing.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Downtown Music Publishing, Songtrust Ave, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: George Gershwin, Ira Gershwin

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Comments from YouTube:

ksayre46

wow

Be Real & Supportive

Hi I never heard this yet, what CD is it on? If it's on one at all lol

ggs10000

I finally found it. It's on the soundtrack to Where The Boys Are. And the CD doesn't have the annoying glitches that are in this video.

jakre10

This movie was not her best. But singing the Gershwin songs was terrific. Connie could sing anything. I can't understand how she was paired up with Harve Presnell. She had a wonderful comedic talent as shown in Where The Boys are but she didn't like doing movies so only had the 4 which is a shame.

Milton Moore

Why do you question this pairing? 😫😖🥺
I sure liked it.
Respectfully

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