Love the One You're With
Crosby Stills & Nash Lyrics


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If you're down and confused
And you don't remember who you're talking to,
Concentration slips away
Cause you're baby is so far away

Well there's a rose in the fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove
And if you can't be with the one you love honey
Love the one you're with, Love the one you're with,
Love the one you're with, Love the one you're with.

Don't be angry, don't be sad
Don't sit crying over good times you've had
There's a girl right next to you
And she's just waiting for something to do

Well there's a rose in the fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove
And if you can't be with the one you love honey
Love the one you're with, Love the one you're with,
Love the one you're with, Love the one you're with.

Love the one you're with,Love the one you're with,
Love the one you're with,Love the one you're with,

Turn your heartache right into joy
Cause she's a girl and you're a boy
Get it together, make it nice
You ain't gonna need anymore advice

Well there's a rose in the fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove
And if you can't be with the one you love honey




Love the one you're with, Love the one you're with,
Love the one you're with, Love the one you're with.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Crosby Stills & Nash's "Love the One You're With" suggest that if you are feeling down and confused and find yourself longing for someone who is not near, it's time to focus on what you do have. The song encourages you to stop feeling sad about past memories or focusing on what could have been, and instead, appreciate the present moment and the company of those around you. The lyrics remind listeners that there is always something to be grateful for and someone to love right in front of you, and realizing this can turn your heartache into joy.


The metaphor of the rose in the fisted glove and the eagle flying with the dove speaks to the concept of opposites attract and the idea of finding beauty in unlikely places. The combination of the hard exterior of the fisted glove with the delicate rose inside represents the idea that there is always a positive or beautiful side to every situation or person, even if it may not be immediately apparent. Similarly, the image of the eagle flying with the dove suggests that despite differences or conflicts, it is possible for love and peace to prevail.


Overall, "Love the One You're With" is a reminder to live in the present, appreciate what you have, and find happiness in every moment.


Line by Line Meaning

If you're down and confused
If you're feeling low and perplexed


And you don't remember who you're talking to,
And you're blanking on the person you're communicating with,


Concentration slips away
Your focus starts to fade,


Cause you're baby is so far away
Because your loved one is distant,


Well there's a rose in the fisted glove
There's a hidden treasure in unexpected places,


And the eagle flies with the dove
Even opposites can come together harmoniously,


And if you can't be with the one you love honey
And if you can't be with your true love,


Love the one you're with, Love the one you're with,
Find love in the present, cherish the one you're with,


Love the one you're with, Love the one you're with.
Love the one you're with.


Don't be angry, don't be sad
Don't be upset about what you can't have,


Don't sit crying over good times you've had
Don't wallow in nostalgia,


There's a girl right next to you
There's someone to love nearby,


And she's just waiting for something to do
And she's eager to connect with you.


Turn your heartache right into joy
Transform your pain into happiness,


Cause she's a girl and you're a boy
Because you're different and complementary,


Get it together, make it nice
Pull yourself together and make the most of the moment,


You ain't gonna need anymore advice
You won't require any more guidance,


Well there's a rose in the fisted glove
There's a hidden treasure in unexpected places,


And the eagle flies with the dove
Even opposites can come together harmoniously,


And if you can't be with the one you love honey
And if you can't be with your true love,


Love the one you're with, Love the one you're with,
Find love in the present, cherish the one you're with,


Love the one you're with, Love the one you're with.
Love the one you're with.




Lyrics © Wixen Music Publishing, Royalty Network, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Stephen Stills

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Pauline Hall


on Unequal Love

Saw Graham Nash last week in Gateshead, he sang this song.
Absolutely beautiful, possibly about his love for Joni Mitchell.
His voice still amazing

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