So Well
Damhnait Doyle Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

so the loop has started
and I sit here broken hearted
sounds like something
written on a bathroom wall

and thats the best line
that I've got
cause your mother has you
so well taught
and I've got to lie about you
as I scrawl on this stall

why do you treat me so well
why do you treat me so god damn well

been good to me so long
the enemy of a good song
and that's the kind of problem
every women should want

I've been through hellish phases
that yielded good catch phrases
but here with you, all that shit is gone

why do you treat me so well
why do you treat me the way
I need to be treated
why do you treat me so well
why do you need me the way
I need to be needed

that day in may
I thought I'd break
you broke me down
I was yours to take
across the room
I catch your glance
no standing guard
cause no one else stands a chance

so the drum beat's ending
and the patient's pending on
maliciousness and anger

why do you treat me so well
why do you treat me the way
I need to be treated
why do you treat me so well




why do you need me the way
I need to be needed

Overall Meaning

The song "So Well" by Damhnait Doyle is a reflection on a complicated romantic relationship. The singer, who is clearly deeply in love with the object of her affection, finds herself struggling to express her feelings for him. She is torn between her need for emotional transparency and her awe at the way he treats her so well. Despite the fact that she has been through difficult times in previous relationships, she finds herself unable to express her true feelings for this man, instead expressing herself in poetry scrawled on bathroom stalls.


The song is essentially a love letter to the man who treats her so well. The singer is so overwhelmed by his kindness and affection that she finds herself unable to put into words how she feels. She acknowledges that she is lying when she writes about him on bathroom walls, unable to express the depth of her emotions in any other way. The chorus, when she asks him why he treats her so well, is a question she cannot answer, because she herself is not entirely sure. All she knows is that she cannot imagine her life without him.


In the end, the singer is aware that the relationship is complicated and may not last. She talks of anger and maliciousness, and acknowledges that the future is uncertain. But even as she faces the possibility of heartbreak and pain, she cannot help but feel grateful for the way this man has treated her, and for the love and affection he has shown her over the years.


Line by Line Meaning

so the loop has started
The situation has started and there's no going back.


and I sit here broken hearted
I am sitting here feeling sad and heartbroken about what has happened.


sounds like something written on a bathroom wall
This situation or feeling seems like something that would be written on a bathroom wall, it's that bad.


and that's the best line that I've got
This is the only good line or reason I can come up with for what's happening.


cause your mother has you so well taught
You have been brought up or taught so well by your mother which is why you treat me the way you do.


and I've got to lie about you as I scrawl on this stall
I have to lie about you as I write on this bathroom stall because I cannot express my true feelings in public.


why do you treat me so well
I am questioning why you treat me so well despite all that I have done or said.


been good to me so long
You have been treating me well for so long.


the enemy of a good song
However, this stability in our relationship does not make for a good song, it's too predictable and boring.


and that's the kind of problem every women should want
This is the kind of problem every woman should want - to have a partner who treats them well and is predictable.


I've been through hellish phases that yielded good catch phrases
I have been through tough times that have produced good catchphrases or lyrics for my songs.


but here with you, all that shit is gone
However, now that I am with you and things are good, all that negativity is gone.


why do you need me the way I need to be needed
I am questioning why you need me the way I need to be needed, even though I can't express myself openly to you.


that day in may I thought I'd break, you broke me down I was yours to take
That day in May, I thought I would break up with you, but you convinced me otherwise and I became yours to keep.


across the room I catch your glance, no standing guard cause no one else stands a chance
When we're in the same room, I catch your eye and I can see that you're interested in me. I don't need to be on guard because nobody else stands a chance with you.


so the drum beat's ending and the patient's pending on maliciousness and anger
As our time together comes to an end, I am left feeling like I may have some feelings of anger or resentment towards you.




Contributed by Mason H. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found