After Fogelberg's death from prostate cancer in 2007, the woman who he wrote the song about came forward with her story. Her name is Jill Greulich, and she and Fogelberg dated in high school when she was Jill Anderson. As she explained to the Peoria Journal Star in a December 22, 2007 article, they were part of the Woodruff High School class of 1969, but went to different colleges. After college, Jill got married and moved to Chicago, and Dan went to Colorado to pursue music. On Christmas Eve, they were each back in Peoria with their families when Jill went out for egg nog and Dan was dispatched to find whipping cream for Irish coffee. The only place open was a convenience store at the top of Abington Hill, at Frye Avenue and Prospect Road, and that's where they had their encounter. They bought a six pack of beer and drank it in her car for 2 hours while they talked.
Five years later, Jill heard "Same Old Lang Syne" on the radio while driving to work, but she kept quiet about it, as Fogelberg also refused to reveal her identity. Her main concern was that coming forward would disrupt Fogelberg's marriage.
Looking at the lyrics, Jill says there are 2 inaccuracies: She has green eyes, not blue, and her husband was not an architect - he was a physical education teacher, and it's unlikely Fogelberg knew his profession anyway. Regarding the line, "She would have liked to say she loved the man, but she didn't like to lie," Jill won't talk about it, but she had divorced her husband by the time the song was released.
Same Old Lang Syne
Dan Fogelberg Lyrics
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The snow was falling Christmas Eve
I stood behind her in the frozen foods
And I touched her on the sleeve
She didn't recognize the face at first
But then her eyes flew open wide
She went to hug me and she spilled her purse
We took her groceries to the check out stand
The food was totaled up and bagged
We stood there lost in our embarrassment
As the conversation lagged
We went to have ourselves a drink or two
But couldn't find an open bar
We bought a six-pack at the liquor store
And we drank it in her car
We drank a toast to innocence
We drank a toast to now
We tried to reach beyond the emptiness
But neither one knew how
She said she's married her an architect
Who kept her warm and safe and dry
She would have liked to say she loved the man
But she didn't like to lie
I said the years had been a friend to her
And that her eyes were still as blue
But in those eyes I wasn't sure if I saw
Doubt or gratitude
She said she saw me in the record stores
And that I must be doing well
I said the audience was heavenly
But the traveling was Hell
We drank a toast to innocence
We drank a toast to now
We tried to reach beyond the emptiness
But neither one knew how
We drank a toast to innocence
We drank a toast to time
Reliving, in our eloquence
Another "Auld Lang Syne"
The beer was empty and our tongues were tired
And running out of things to say
She gave a kiss to me as I got out
And I watched her drive away
Just for a moment I was back at school
And felt that old familiar pain
And, as I turned to make my way back home
The snow turned into rain
Dan Fogelberg's Same Old Lang Syne is a story of two former lovers who meet each other unexpectedly on Christmas Eve at a grocery store. The lyrics are atmospheric and evocative, recounting the vivid details of their encounter. The singer stands behind his old lover in the frozen foods section and touches her on the sleeve. She doesn't recognize him at first, but then her eyes fly open wide, and they laugh as she spills her purse while going in for a hug.
They leave the store and buy a six-pack of beer because they couldn't find an open bar. As they drink and reminisce in her car, they toast to innocence and now, trying to reach beyond the emptiness, they both feel inside. The singer learns that his ex-girlfriend's married to an architect who keeps her safe and dry, and though she likes the man, she cannot say she loves him because she doesn't want to lie. They discuss their lives before saying a final goodbye, a kiss, and a wave.
The song speaks to the universal experience of loss, regret, and nostalgia. Despite their love for each other, circumstances pull them apart, and they have no choice but to move on. This classic tune continues to be listened to today, more than 40 years after it was first written. It's a testament to Fogelberg's skills as a songwriter and his ability to write lyrics that are both poetic and moving.
Line by Line Meaning
Met my old lover in the grocery store
I coincidentally encountered an ex-girlfriend at the supermarket
The snow was falling Christmas Eve
It was Christmas Eve and snowflakes were gently falling from the sky
I stood behind her in the frozen foods
I stood behind her in the frozen foods section of the store
And I touched her on the sleeve
I reached out and touched her on the sleeve of her coat
She didn't recognize the face at first
At first, she didn't recognize who I was
But then her eyes flew open wide
But then she suddenly realized who I was and her eyes widened in surprise
She went to hug me and she spilled her purse
She tried to hug me, but accidentally dropped her purse and spilled its contents
And we laughed until we cried
We found the situation so humorous that we laughed until tears streamed down our faces
We took her groceries to the check out stand
We carried her groceries to the checkout counter
The food was totaled up and bagged
The cashier added up the cost of the groceries and bagged them for us
We stood there lost in our embarrassment
We awkwardly stood there, feeling embarrassed by the situation
As the conversation lagged
As we struggled to find topics to talk about
We went to have ourselves a drink or two
We decided to have a few drinks together
But couldn't find an open bar
However, we were unable to find a nearby open bar
We bought a six-pack at the liquor store
As a result, we purchased a six-pack of beer from a liquor store
And we drank it in her car
We proceeded to drink the beer in the car she had driven to the store
We drank a toast to innocence
We raised our bottles and toasted to the innocence of our youth
We drank a toast to now
We drank another toast to the present moment
We tried to reach beyond the emptiness
We attempted to overcome the feelings of emptiness that we shared
But neither one knew how
Despite our efforts, we were unable to overcome those feelings
She said she's married her an architect
She informed me that she had married an architect
Who kept her warm and safe and dry
She described how her husband kept her comfortable, secure, and protected
She would have liked to say she loved the man
However, she confessed that she was unwilling to lie by saying she loved him
But she didn't like to lie
She didn't want to be dishonest with me or with herself
I said the years had been a friend to her
I commented that time had treated her well
And that her eyes were still as blue
And that the color of her eyes, blue, had not changed
But in those eyes I wasn't sure if I saw
However, I was not completely confident that I could interpret everything I saw in her eyes
Doubt or gratitude
Whether she was experiencing doubt or gratitude
She said she saw me in the record stores
She shared that she had seen me in music stores
And that I must be doing well
She inferred that I was doing quite well in my life
I said the audience was heavenly
I responded by expressing how wonderful it is to perform in front of an appreciative audience
But the traveling was Hell
However, I added that traveling as part of the performance schedule is extremely difficult
We drank a toast to innocence
We once again lifted our glasses and toasted to the purity of our past
We drank a toast to time
Our next toast was to the concept of time itself
Reliving, in our eloquence
As we spoke about the past, each of us became more articulate
Another "Auld Lang Syne"
We essentially created another instance of the classic tune, Auld Lang Syne, in our conversation
The beer was empty and our tongues were tired
We had finished the beer, and our conversation had grown weary
And running out of things to say
We had said everything we could say and were rapidly approaching the end of the conversation
She gave a kiss to me as I got out
Before I left the car, she kissed me goodbye
And I watched her drive away
I watched as she drove off into the distance
Just for a moment I was back at school
For a brief moment, I returned to my school years mentally
And felt that old familiar pain
I experienced familiar feelings of sadness and regret
And, as I turned to make my way back home
As I turned to walk away and return home
The snow turned into rain
The snowflakes had transformed into raindrops, signaling a change or ending to the moment
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Dan Fogelberg
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@derickseagers8034
I am 70 years old and I cry every time I hear this. They don't write them like this anymore. God bless this man RIP
@davelee8961
I loved that "Innocent Age" album when I was a kid, and I cried when DF died, just as I did when John Denver died, and Karen Carpenter died. Amazing artists.
@Sunny-jz3dy
❤
@SteveEcksteinDouglasDrive
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@traceyrevis7968
100!
@ericmoen389
Yes my brother, I cry too
@BJDJ
40 years since this song came out and we, the fans, still cherish it
@traceyrevis7968
You got that right!
Beautiful clean music!
@leslier3964
Exactly right
@deemcdonagh3097
Just love, love this song. I have great memories listening to it. Transports me back to a great time in my life.💖💖💖💖