The Long Way
Dan Fogelberg Lyrics


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She was lost
And I thought I was found
Even so I tried
To bring her in...

She was young
And I had just begun
To learn that even
Losing men can win.

We went the long way
We went the long way
We went the long way...
Or maybe just the wrong way
I`ll never know.

Overnight
We were shown the light
Neither of us knew
To look away...
So we burned
And far too late we learned
That lifetimes can`t be lived out
In a day.

We went the long way
We went the long way
We went the long way...
Or maybe just the wrong way
I`ll never know.

So, goodbye
At least me made the try
Something can be said for
love that`s pure.
If and when
We ever try again
One thing will be known to us
For sure...

We`ll go the long way
We`ll go the long way
We`ll go the long way...




Or maybe just the wrong way
I`ll never know.

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to this song, The Long Way by Dan Fogelberg, reflect on a relationship that ultimately did not work out. The opening lines suggest that the singer believed he had found his way in life, but when he met the girl he loved, she was lost. Despite this, he tried to bring her in, to be her guide and support, perhaps feeling that this relationship was his calling in some way. However, he also recognizes that he was young and inexperienced. Losing men suggests that he had a lot to learn and that this relationship was part of his growing process.


The phrase "we went the long way" is repeated throughout the song, as the singer reflects on the journey he and his love took together. They burned in the fire of passion, but it was far too late for them to realize that they were living lifetimes in a day; they had rushed into things and not taken the time to breathe and live in the moment. The line "maybe just the wrong way" suggests that deep down, the singer knew that the relationship was not meant to be. Finally, the song concludes with the singer acknowledging that their love was pure, and if they were ever to try again, they would take a different path - one that could lead them on the long way or the right way.


Overall, the song is a reflection on the ups and downs of love and relationships, and the importance of taking the time to slow down and truly appreciate life's journey.


Line by Line Meaning

She was lost
The girl was confused and didn't know what to do.


And I thought I was found
The singer believed he had his life under control and knew where he was going.


Even so I tried
Despite his own uncertainties, the singer attempted to help the girl.


To bring her in...
To offer the girl guidance and support.


She was young
The girl was inexperienced and naïve.


And I had just begun
The singer was just starting to learn about life and the world around him.


To learn that even
The singer was realizing that despite his own struggles, he could still provide help and support to someone else.


Losing men can win.
Even when he wasn't sure what he was doing, the artist still found success in taking care of someone else.


We went the long way
The artist and the girl took a difficult, winding path through life.


Or maybe just the wrong way
The artist isn't sure if the path they took was actually helpful or productive.


I`ll never know.
The singer will never have a clear answer if their choices were the right ones.


Overnight
Things changed suddenly and unexpectedly for both the artist and the girl.


We were shown the light
They both gained a new perspective or understanding of their lives and the world.


Neither of us knew
Both the singer and the girl were unaware of what was happening or how they should react.


To look away...
To turn their heads or divert their attention from the situation they found themselves in.


So we burned
Both the artist and the girl suffered the consequences of their choices.


And far too late we learned
They only realized their mistake well after the fact.


That lifetimes can`t be lived out
They learned that some things take time to achieve and can't be rushed or forced.


In a day.
Nor can someone expect to fix everything in an instant.


So, goodbye
The artist and the girl parted ways.


At least me made the try
Despite everything, the artist still believes they tried their best.


Something can be said for
There's still value or merit in what they did.


love that`s pure.
Their intentions and feelings for each other were genuine and true.


If and when
If there's a chance in the future...


We ever try again
If they reunite and take on a similar challenge...


One thing will be known to us
They'll be more aware and knowledgeable next time.


For sure...
They'll be a clearer outcome, no matter what it is.


We`ll go the long way
If they pursue their goal again, they'll take the difficult path again.


Or maybe just the wrong way
But they might still make the same mistakes or take the same non-productive route.


I`ll never know.
The uncertainty of life is a constant theme throughout the song.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DAN FOGELBERG

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Comments from YouTube:

Crown Limo LA

Maybe the most gut-wrenching song I've ever heard. Dan's outlet for exressing his pain was his music. This one goes all the way down to his soul. You can hear it in his voice as he tries to keep it together to even finish the song. A musical genius and a good-hearted man who will never be forgotten.

Rebecca Donovan

This song still brings tears to my eyes all these years later. Dan, you are deeply missed. When we lost Dan we lost an amazing poet...no one else will ever come along who can express their emotions as beautifully and poetically as this wonderful man.💕

Tony Dee

I am sitting here crying like a child that has lost his mama, which I do at a lot of Dan's songs. He is the diamond among the rocks in my life.

moodylicious

yeah. Before I clicked start I said, "this'll get me howlin'"
really tugs at the heartstrings.

Lloyd Davis

One of the most beautiful songs ever written. I always think of my wife that passed away in 1996. Wonderful song.

Stanley Hanson

God Brother I can't imagine your pain.Im sorry Man

Jean Shea

In my heart, I will never really believe he is gone. Every time I listen to his songs.. he is here and in concert and recording albums.. he is my all time favorite artist of my lifetime. I first heard him when I was all of 17. I am going on 59. There were never be another brilliant, sensitive, gorgeous crafter of songs and stories that touch your soul and heart and stay there forever.. EVER ON.

Wayne DeGaramo

One of the greatest musical talents in history!! Very underrated!! Greatly missed by millions!!✝️♾💔😇❤!!

Rebecca Donovan

I feel the same Jean, I can't believe he is gone... Don't think I ever will. Thanks for your beautiful words about our beloved poet, Dan Fogelberg.♥️♥️

Tony Westbrook

His songs take you to a place in your mind and heart that you couldn't get to otherwise.

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