Make Love So Hard
Darden Smith Lyrics


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Trouble comes to our house
Every other week
First you and then me
With a tear on our cheek
Over and over the same mistakes
How many last straws till it breaks
Oh, we make love so hard
We make love so hard

Scratching at the old wounds
Laying blame
Calling up the old ghosts
Taking names
Over and over same mistakes
How many close calls can we shake
Oh, we make love so hard
Oh, we make love so hard

It doesn't have to be this way
We've seen better days

Oh, we make love so hard
Oh, we make love so hard




Oh, we make love so hard
Why do we make love so hard

Overall Meaning

The song "Make Love So Hard" by Darden Smith is a captivating track that delves into the struggles and complexities of a relationship. The lyrics speak of a couple who are facing trouble in their relationship every other week, with each of them blaming the other for their problems. The singer notes that they have been making the same mistakes over and over again, not learning from the past and continuing to scratch at old wounds. The lines "Over and over same mistakes, How many close calls can we shake" express the frustration and weariness of being stuck in a cycle of repeated mistakes.


Despite the difficulties they face, the couple still love each other deeply and have a strong physical connection, as evidenced by the repeated refrain "We make love so hard". The phrase has a double meaning, referring both to the intensity of their passion and the difficulty they have in making their relationship work.


Towards the end of the song, there is a glimmer of hope as the singer suggests that their relationship doesn't have to be this way, and that they have experienced better days in the past. The unspoken question that runs through the entire song is "Why do we make love so hard?" - highlighting the often inexplicable nature of romantic relationships.


Overall, "Make Love So Hard" is a poignant and beautifully crafted song that captures the emotional complexity of human relationships, and the challenge of breaking free from cycles of pain and dysfunction.


Line by Line Meaning

Trouble comes to our house
Our relationship is constantly facing problems


Every other week
These problems occur frequently


First you and then me
We both contribute to the issues in our relationship


With a tear on our cheek
We are emotional and upset about our problems


Over and over the same mistakes
We keep making the same mistakes that cause our relationship problems


How many last straws till it breaks
We are continually pushing our relationship to the brink of breaking


Oh, we make love so hard
Our struggles are greatly impacting our ability to have a healthy and strong relationship


Scratching at the old wounds
We are bringing up past issues and not letting them heal


Laying blame
We are not taking responsibility for our own actions and instead pointing fingers at each other


Calling up the old ghosts
We are letting past traumas and experiences affect our current relationship


Taking names
We are keeping score of each other's mistakes


How many close calls can we shake
We keep narrowly avoiding the end of our relationship


It doesn't have to be this way
We can work to improve our relationship and make it better


We've seen better days
We have had good times in our relationship that we can strive to reach again


Why do we make love so hard
We are questioning why our relationship has to be so difficult and strained.




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Written by: DARDEN SMITH, KIM RICHEY

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