Dancing Nancies
Dave Matthews Band Lyrics


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Could I have been
A parking lot attendant
Could I have been
A millionaire in Bel Air
Could I have been lost somewhere in Paris
Could I have been
Your little brother
Could I have been
Anyone other than me
Could I have been
Anyone other than me
Could I have been
Anyone other than me
Could I have been
Anyone

He stands touch his hair his shoes untied
Tongue gaping stare
Could I have been a magnet for money?
Could I have been anyone other than me?

Twenty three and so tired of life
Such a shame to throw it all away
The images grow darker still
Could I have been anyone other than me? Then I

Look up at the sky
My mouth is open wide, lick and taste
What's the use in worrying, what's the use in hurrying
Turn, turn we almost become dizzy

I am who I am who I am who am I
Requesting some enlightenment
Could I have been anyone other than me?

Sing and dance I'll play for you tonight
And thrill at it all
Dark clouds may hang on me sometimes
But I'll work it out then I

Look up at the sky
My mouth is open wide, lick and taste
What's the use in worrying, what's the use in hurrying
Turn, turn we almost become dizzy

Falling out of a world of lies




Could I have been dancing Nancy
Could I have been anyone other than me?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Dancing Nancies" by Dave Matthews Band are a contemplative reflection on the concept of self-identity and the possibility of alternate realities. The song explores the idea of what if the singer could have been someone else – a parking lot attendant, a millionaire, lost in Paris, or anyone other than who they are. The lyrics present a range of possibilities for different paths the singer's life could have taken and questions the choices and circumstances that lead to their current identity.


The song also dives into darker themes of depression and suicide with the line "twenty-three and so tired of life, such a shame to throw it all away." The singer's mind drifts to alternate realities where they could have been someone else, but ultimately concludes with the affirmation of self-acceptance, stating, "I am who I am, who I am, who am I requesting some enlightenment? Could I have been anyone other than me?" The repetition of the phrase "Could I have been anyone other than me" throughout the song emphasizes the singer's existential musings and inner turmoil.


The imagery in the lyrics further accentuates the exploration of identity and possibility. The tongue-gaping stare and the mouth wide open signifies a hunger for experiencing the world, while the turning and dancing evoke a sense of euphoria and freedom. The song presents a thought-provoking and introspective message that encourages listeners to contemplate their own identity and sense of self.


Line by Line Meaning

Could I have been
Wondering about different paths my life could have taken


A parking lot attendant
Someone working a mundane job


A millionaire in Bel Air
Someone living a lavish lifestyle


Lost somewhere in Paris
Someone getting lost in the beauty of the world


Your little brother
Someone looking up to another person


Anyone other than me
Someone questioning their identity and the path they chose to take


He stands touch his hair his shoes untied
Someone in need of direction and focus


Tongue gaping stare
Someone in shock and disbelief


Could I have been a magnet for money?
Wondering if money could have solved all their problems


Twenty three and so tired of life
Feeling burnt out and exhausted from life's challenges


Such a shame to throw it all away
Regretting past actions that led to negative outcomes


The images grow darker still
Feeling weighed down by negativity


Look up at the sky
Finding solace and hope in nature


My mouth is open wide, lick and taste
Feeling alive and being present in the moment


What's the use in worrying, what's the use in hurrying
Letting go of stress and fear


Turn, turn we almost become dizzy
Feeling overwhelmed by the chaos of life


I am who I am who I am who am I
Questioning one's identity and purpose


Requesting some enlightenment
Searching for guidance and clarity


Sing and dance I'll play for you tonight
Finding joy in music and the arts


And thrill at it all
Feeling alive and inspired


Dark clouds may hang on me sometimes
Going through rough periods in life


But I'll work it out then I
Feeling determined to overcome obstacles


Falling out of a world of lies
Breaking free from illusions and falsehoods


Could I have been dancing Nancy
Wondering who they could have been


Could I have been anyone other than me?
Questioning their choices and potential for alternative paths in life




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: DAVID JOHN MATTHEWS

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Comments from YouTube:

@theostracized

My dad was the biggest DMB fan ever!! He passed almost three years ago now, but I can still hear him singing this and dancing along in the kitchen. Good lord do I miss him. Thank you Dave Matthews for your gift of music.

@bobbyburseth5861

And he named you carter!

@marythereseholewczynski9655

What a wonderful memory...

@adamjochum4545

Dave Mathews is love. Your dad knew it. His songs are just emotions dulled down for the ears to pick up.

@TheTracystella

I am sorry for your loss. It is cool that you can listen to DMB and know that your Dad is right here still.
I'm 61 and we never know...I want this version played during my transition and let everyone feel the love, joy and all the positive energy!

@Oecanside

That's awesome. Stay safe

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@deckham81

This video is evidence of why Dave Matthews band should be in the Hall of Fame

@scottjohnson3666

There will never be another band like this. There's only one DAVE MATTHEWS BAND. This is the most unique band and sound. I LOVE IT! THANKS DMB!

@adrian_just_adrian

That slight look back like, "C'mon Carter, let's do this thing"....💯💯💯

@rachelharris725

I had the double cd in my car 20 years ago.....wore out the repeat button on this tract. Best of DMB.

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