Learning to Trust
David Meece Lyrics


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There's a father in your sweetest dreams
Who's always there to meet your needs
He never ever let you down

There's a mother in your heart of hearts
Who always plays the perfect part
She never lets you hit the ground
This is the need of children
These are their tender dreams
And oh, how it hurts when they don't come true

That's why I'm learning to trust in You
In everything I do
I'm learning to trust in You

'Cause I know in my heart that You're true
I'm learning to trust in You
But sometimes it's so hard to do

Father, little children must grow up
And to grow we've got to learn to trust
And to trust we've got to cling to You

And when You tell me You will hold me close
It's the very thing I need the most
But it's the very hardest thing to do

I've got this pain inside me
It speaks to me loud and clear
When there's so much to gain there's always so much to lose

That's why I'm learning to trust in You
In everything I do
I'm learning to trust in You

'Cause I know in my heart that You're true
I'm learning to trust in You
But sometimes it's so hard to do

Keep calling me, drawing me closer
Don't let me hold back
Whatever it takes I must break through

The heart of a child is broken
But his time has come
Whatever he lost, I'll find in You

That's why I'm learning to trust in you
In everything I do
I'm learning to trust in You

'Cause I know in my heart that You're true
I'm learning to trust in You
But sometimes it's so hard to do

I'm learning to trust in You
In everything I do
I'm learning to trust in You

'Cause I know in my heart that You're true
I'm learning to trust in You
But sometimes it's so hard to do





Hard to do, learning to trust in You
So hard to do, learning to trust, it's so hard to do

Overall Meaning

David Meece's song Learning to Trust expresses the deep human need for a father's and mother's love and care. The song underscores the childlike innocence and faith that often fades away as one grows older and faces the challenges of life. In the first two stanzas, Meece talks about the ideal image of a perfect father and mother who anticipate the needs of their children and always provide for them, never letting them down. However, the reality is often different, and Meece acknowledges the hurt and pain when these dreams do not come true.


The repeated chorus 'That's why I'm learning to trust in You' echoes the resolution to put faith in God even when circumstances are unfavorable. The song recognizes that trust in God is a learning process, and it takes time to break through one's fears and doubts. The bridge appeals to God to keep drawing the singer closer, and in this way, he will break through his inhibitions and realize that the heart of the child that was once broken can be found in God.


Line by Line Meaning

There's a father in your sweetest dreams
Every child has this idealized father figure in their dreams who can fulfill all their needs.


Who's always there to meet your needs
This imaginary father figure is always present to provide everything that the child requires.


He never ever let you down
This father figure never fails to fulfill the child's expectations and never disappoints them.


There's a mother in your heart of hearts
Similarly, every child has an idealized mother figure in their heart who plays the perfect role.


Who always plays the perfect part
This imaginary mother figure always lives up to the child's expectations, never letting them down.


She never lets you hit the ground
This idealized mother figure provides emotional support and never lets the child experience pain or hurt.


This is the need of children
These idealized parental figures represent what children need in order to feel safe, secure and loved.


These are their tender dreams
The idealized parental figures exist within the dreams of children, representing their innermost desires.


And oh, how it hurts when they don't come true
However, when these idealized parental figures fail to materialize in real life, it can be very painful for children to accept and come to terms with.


That's why I'm learning to trust in You
The singer of the song turns to faith in God as a way to replace the idealized parental figures and provide the needed love and support.


In everything I do
The singer acknowledges that trusting in God is an ongoing process that affects every aspect of their life.


Cause I know in my heart that You're true
The singer believes in the truth of God's love and support, and tries to build their trust and faith in Him.


But sometimes it's so hard to do
However, the singer admits that building trust in God can be a difficult and challenging journey.


Father, little children must grow up
The singer addresses God as a father figure, and acknowledges the need for children to grow up and develop their own sense of trust.


And to grow we've got to learn to trust
The process of growing up requires an understanding and acceptance of trust, and learning to put faith in something or someone other than the idealized parental figures.


And to trust we've got to cling to You
The singer emphasizes the importance of clinging to faith in God in order to build trust and feel secure in His love.


And when You tell me You will hold me close
The singer's faith in God is reinforced when they feel that He is holding them close and providing them support.


It's the very thing I need the most
This love and support from God is the most important thing that the singer needs in order to feel secure and at peace.


But it's the very hardest thing to do
However, building trust in God is not always easy, and can be a struggle for the singer.


I've got this pain inside me
The singer admits to feeling pain and hurt due to the absence of the idealized parental figures and their struggle to trust in God.


It speaks to me loud and clear
This pain is a constant reminder to the singer of their need to trust in God and seek His love and support.


When there's so much to gain there's always so much to lose
The singer acknowledges that the journey towards building trust in God comes with risks and uncertainties, but also presents great opportunities for personal growth and fulfillment.


Keep calling me, drawing me closer
The singer looks to God to keep them on track and provide ongoing support as they work towards building trust and faith.


Don't let me hold back
The singer asks God to help them overcome their fears and doubts that might hold them back from fully trusting in Him.


Whatever it takes I must break through
The singer is fully committed to doing whatever it takes to build faith in God and overcome their pain and doubts.


The heart of a child is broken
The singer compares their own personal struggles to those of a child whose idealized parental figures fail to materialize in real life.


But his time has come
However, the singer believes that it is possible to move on from this pain and hurt, and rebuild their trust and faith in God.


Whatever he lost, I'll find in You
The singer finds solace in the belief that God can provide the love and support that was absent and missing from their life, and allow them to move past the pain and hurt of the past.


Hard to do, learning to trust in You
The singer acknowledges that building trust in God is a difficult and challenging process, but a necessary journey towards finding peace and fulfillment.


So hard to do, learning to trust, it's so hard to do
The repetition of this line emphasizes the ongoing struggle and difficulty of building trust and faith in God, but also the importance and value of this journey.




Lyrics © CAPITOL CHRISTIAN MUSIC GROUP, Capitol CMG Publishing, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: DAVID MEECE, MICHAEL VINCENT HUDSON

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Jörg Neuland

Lyrics and german translation:

There's a father in your sweetest dreams
Who's always there to meet your needs
He never ever let you down
There's a mother in your heart of hearts
Who always plays the perfect part
She never lets you hit the ground
This is the need of children

These are their tender dreams
And oh, how it hurts when they don't come true
That's why I'm learning to trust in You
in everything I do
I'm learning to trust in You
'Cause I know in my heart that You're true
I'm learning to trust in You
But sometimes it's so hard to do
Father, little children must grow up
And to grow we've got to learn to trust
And to trust we've got to cling to You
And when You tell me You will hold me close
It's the very thing I need the most
But it's the very hardest thing to do
I've got this pain inside meIt speaks to me loud and clear
When there's so much to gain there's always so much to lose
That's why I'm learning to trust in You
In everything I do
I'm learning to trust in You
'Cause I know in my heart that You're true
I'm learning to trust in YouBut sometimes it's so hard to do
Keep calling me, drawing me closerDon't let me hold back
Whatever it takes I must break throughThe heart of a child is broken
But his time has come
Whatever he lost, I'll find in YouThat's why I'm learning to trust in you
In everything I do
I'm learning to trust in You
'Cause I know in my heart that You're true
I'm learning to trust in You
But sometimes it's so hard to do
I'm learning to trust in You
In everything I do
I'm learning to trust in You
'Cause I know in my heart that You're true
I'm learning to trust in You
But sometimes it's so hard to do
Hard to do, learning to trust in You
So hard to do, learning to trust, it's so hard to do


In deinen süßesten Träumen gibt es einen Vater,
der ist immer da, um deine Bedürfnisse zu erfüllen
Er hat dich nie im Stich gelassen
Es gibt eine Mutter in deinem Herzen
die immer die perfekte Rolle spielt
Sie lässt dich nie auf den Boden aufschlagen
Das ist das Bedürfnis der Kinder
Dies sind ihre zärtlichen Träume
Und oh, wie weh es tut, wenn sie nicht wahr werden
Deshalb lerne ich, dir zu vertrauen
Bei allem, was ich tue
Ich lerne, dir zu vertrauen
Denn ich weiß in meinem Herzen, dass Du wahr bist
Ich lerne, dir zu vertrauen
Aber manchmal ist es so schwer
Vater, kleine Kinder müssen erwachsen werden
Und um zu wachsen, müssen wir lernen, zu vertrauen
Und um Vertrauen zu haben, müssen wir uns an dich klammern
Und wenn du mir sagst, dass du mich festhalten wirst
Das ist genau das, was ich am meisten brauche
Aber es ist das Allerschwierigste, was man tun kann

Ich habe diesen Schmerz in mir
Er spricht mich laut und deutlich an
Wenn es so viel zu gewinnen gibt, gibt es immer so viel zu verlieren
Deshalb lerne ich, dir zu vertrauen
Bei allem, was ich tue
Ich lerne, dir zu vertrauen
Denn ich weiß in meinem Herzen, dass Du wahr bist
Ich lerne, dir zu vertrauen
Aber manchmal ist es so schwer
Rufe mich weiter, ziehe mich näher heran
Lasse mich nicht zurückbleiben
Was immer es auch kostet, ich muss durchbrechen

Das Herz eines Kindes ist gebrochen
Aber seine Zeit ist gekommen.
Was immer es verloren hat, werde ich in dir finden
Deshalb lerne ich, dir zu vertrauen.
Bei allem, was ich tue
(DeepL)
The account runs through my father.
Der Account läuft über meinen Vater.



All comments from YouTube:

Minh Ho

I'm a meece- a Vietnamese ( Australian). thank you David for showing to me the Fatherly love of God when both of my parents did not know what was going on with me. But God knows. Songs like these helped kept my faith through turbulent waters.

chickenjo23

If you knew his background you would understand the conviction in his voice and the lyrics he wrote. What a talent. This song and Candle in the rain are my two favorites.

Carl Schmidt

Don't forget "My Fathers Chair"

Ella Call

And "In my brokenness"

Complete Off Grid Amateur

This is the song helping me through Covid, being hospitalized and scared. Such peace to know my soul is held in the hands of the Lord no matter what happens.

Rob Henderson

This whole album was such a healing balm for me during my late 20's as I was figuring out God's love and call on my life. I will never forget my daughter discovering my old tapes and loving this one especially. Brought healing to her as well. Wow! God is so awesome.

BeauPierre Bondurant

That He is,glory to His Holy Name.

Larry Nelson

I, a black man, grew up on Contemporary Christian Music. Best foundation ever. Listening to this brings back memories.

Jörg Neuland

Lyrics and german translation:

There's a father in your sweetest dreams
Who's always there to meet your needs
He never ever let you down
There's a mother in your heart of hearts
Who always plays the perfect part
She never lets you hit the ground
This is the need of children

These are their tender dreams
And oh, how it hurts when they don't come true
That's why I'm learning to trust in You
in everything I do
I'm learning to trust in You
'Cause I know in my heart that You're true
I'm learning to trust in You
But sometimes it's so hard to do
Father, little children must grow up
And to grow we've got to learn to trust
And to trust we've got to cling to You
And when You tell me You will hold me close
It's the very thing I need the most
But it's the very hardest thing to do
I've got this pain inside meIt speaks to me loud and clear
When there's so much to gain there's always so much to lose
That's why I'm learning to trust in You
In everything I do
I'm learning to trust in You
'Cause I know in my heart that You're true
I'm learning to trust in YouBut sometimes it's so hard to do
Keep calling me, drawing me closerDon't let me hold back
Whatever it takes I must break throughThe heart of a child is broken
But his time has come
Whatever he lost, I'll find in YouThat's why I'm learning to trust in you
In everything I do
I'm learning to trust in You
'Cause I know in my heart that You're true
I'm learning to trust in You
But sometimes it's so hard to do
I'm learning to trust in You
In everything I do
I'm learning to trust in You
'Cause I know in my heart that You're true
I'm learning to trust in You
But sometimes it's so hard to do
Hard to do, learning to trust in You
So hard to do, learning to trust, it's so hard to do


In deinen süßesten Träumen gibt es einen Vater,
der ist immer da, um deine Bedürfnisse zu erfüllen
Er hat dich nie im Stich gelassen
Es gibt eine Mutter in deinem Herzen
die immer die perfekte Rolle spielt
Sie lässt dich nie auf den Boden aufschlagen
Das ist das Bedürfnis der Kinder
Dies sind ihre zärtlichen Träume
Und oh, wie weh es tut, wenn sie nicht wahr werden
Deshalb lerne ich, dir zu vertrauen
Bei allem, was ich tue
Ich lerne, dir zu vertrauen
Denn ich weiß in meinem Herzen, dass Du wahr bist
Ich lerne, dir zu vertrauen
Aber manchmal ist es so schwer
Vater, kleine Kinder müssen erwachsen werden
Und um zu wachsen, müssen wir lernen, zu vertrauen
Und um Vertrauen zu haben, müssen wir uns an dich klammern
Und wenn du mir sagst, dass du mich festhalten wirst
Das ist genau das, was ich am meisten brauche
Aber es ist das Allerschwierigste, was man tun kann

Ich habe diesen Schmerz in mir
Er spricht mich laut und deutlich an
Wenn es so viel zu gewinnen gibt, gibt es immer so viel zu verlieren
Deshalb lerne ich, dir zu vertrauen
Bei allem, was ich tue
Ich lerne, dir zu vertrauen
Denn ich weiß in meinem Herzen, dass Du wahr bist
Ich lerne, dir zu vertrauen
Aber manchmal ist es so schwer
Rufe mich weiter, ziehe mich näher heran
Lasse mich nicht zurückbleiben
Was immer es auch kostet, ich muss durchbrechen

Das Herz eines Kindes ist gebrochen
Aber seine Zeit ist gekommen.
Was immer es verloren hat, werde ich in dir finden
Deshalb lerne ich, dir zu vertrauen.
Bei allem, was ich tue
(DeepL)
The account runs through my father.
Der Account läuft über meinen Vater.

Naomi Bedwell

I Remember hearing this song on my Mom's cassettes when I was loaded on drugs and somehow feeling that there was some God that maybe still cared about me, in spite of my imperfections.

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