For Better Or Worse
Debbie Gibson Lyrics


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You could walk behind me
Or you could hold my hand
You could know me fully
Or never understand
And you can drive me crazy
Like only you can
Life's blessing, life's curse,
For better or worse

You could leave me stranded
Or hold me with your eyes
Come home empty handed
Or with a brilliant surprise
And you could sing me love songs
Or just make me blue
Life's blessing, life's curse,
For better or worse
I'm with you

Sure there are plenty of fish in the sea
Flocks of birds on the rise
Baby, not for me
'Cause I live in paradise

And if harm's way found you
You know I'd be there
To wrap my love around you
To let you know I care

And when the angels came down
I'd say don't you dare
You know not what you do
May God take me first
For better or worse
I love you

May God take me first




For better or worse
I love you

Overall Meaning

The song "For Better Or Worse" by Debbie Gibson is a love song that talks about the ups and downs of a relationship. The opening lines, "You could walk behind me or you could hold my hand, You could know me fully or never understand" suggest that the couple in the song have a dynamic relationship where they can be close or distant. The chorus, "Life's blessing, life's curse, For better or worse" is a testament to the fact that no matter what, the singer is willing to be with their partner through thick and thin.


The second verse, "You could leave me stranded or hold me with your eyes, Come home empty-handed or with a brilliant surprise, And you could sing me love songs or just make me blue" signifies some of the unpredictability that the relationship might bring. The line, "I'm with you" seems to suggest that the singer is committed to their relationship regardless of what may come their way.


The final verse, "And when the angels came down, I'd say don't you dare, You know not what you do, May God take me first, For better or worse, I love you" is an expression of devotion in the deepest sense. The singer is stating that they can't imagine a life without their partner and would prefer to let harm come to themselves rather than lose the one they love.


Overall, the song is about taking the good with the bad and being committed to someone through thick and thin. It also speaks to the unpredictability of relationships and how being in love means accepting that there will be surprises, both good and bad.


Line by Line Meaning

You could walk behind me
You can follow my lead


Or you could hold my hand
Or we can go hand in hand together


You could know me fully
You can understand me completely


Or never understand
Or we can be complete strangers


And you can drive me crazy
You can make me go crazy in love


Like only you can
In a way that only you can do


Life's blessing, life's curse,
Life has its ups and downs


For better or worse
In good times and bad times


You could leave me stranded
You can abandon me completely


Or hold me with your eyes
Or show me affection with just a look


Come home empty handed
Come back without anything


Or with a brilliant surprise
Or return with an amazing gift


And you could sing me love songs
You can serenade me with romantic tunes


Or just make me blue
Or make me feel sad


I'm with you
But I'm sticking with you no matter what


Sure there are plenty of fish in the sea
There are plenty of other options out there


Flocks of birds on the rise
There are many things to see and experience


Baby, not for me
But I only want you


'Cause I live in paradise
Because I feel I have found my perfect match


And if harm's way found you
And if you were in danger


You know I'd be there
You know I would always have your back


To wrap my love around you
To shower you with my affection


To let you know I care
To show you that I love you


And when the angels came down
And if it was time for us to go


I'd say don't you dare
I would plead for more time together


You know not what you do
They don't understand our love


May God take me first
I'd rather go first than see you go


For better or worse
Through good times and bad


I love you
I love you unconditionally




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Comments from YouTube:

Richard White

One of the finest songs from Deborah Gibson and i think from one of her best recordings "Think With Your Heart" CD. A beautiful song. I love it!!!! All of Deborah's recordings are awesome!!!! Hope she records more songs like this!!!!!!!!!!

Vegan Higler

This is her best song .

Zen Alive

Always love how old songs throw us back to those lovely moments in our life..

Sophie Weston

She has always been my favourite female singer since the 80's 😀

Ghost Rider

Sophie Weston Ahh...I love when a girl knows when she's found someone special, like our girl Deborah. We have our affection for her in common.

Mhar Mg

I love her voice...and so are her songs. 'Brings a lot of teenage days memories.

Joseph Aguilar

I just love this song. It's so simple and perfect, straight from the heart. I've been a fan of hers since the 1st album and still listen to her today. I get teased by some people but I make them listen to a few songs and later I catch them playing her songs.

Jorge toro huenulao

debbie siempre fuiste una gran cantante y compositora

Cley Pessoa

Gosto muito muito da Debbie e das canções que ela canta.

Rebecca Johnson

I will always be a great fan of Deborah Gibson

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