Love Is a Thing
Debbie Reynolds Lyrics


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You see a pair of laughing eyes,
And suddenly you're sighing sighs,
You think nothin's wrong,
You string along,
Boy, then snap!
Those eyes,
Those sighs,
They're part of the tender trap!

You're hand in hand beneath the trees,
And soon there's music in the breeze,
You're acting kinda smart,
Until your heart
Just hoes Whap!
Those trees,
That breeze,
They're part of the tender trap!

Some starry night,
When her kisses make you tingle,
She'll hold you tight,
And you'll hate yourself for being single;

And all at once it seems so nice,
The folks are throwin' shoes and rice,
You hurry to a spot
That's just a dot
On the map.
You're hooked!
You're cooked!
You're caught in the tender trap!

Some starry night,
When her kisses make you tingle,
She'll hold you tight,
And you'll hate yourself for bein' single;

And all at once it seems so nice,
The folks are throwin' shoes and rice,
You hurry to a spot
That's just a dot
On the map
And then you wonder how it all came about,
It's too late now, there's no gettin' out,




You fell in love,
And love is the tender trap.

Overall Meaning

In Debbie Reynolds's song "The Tender Trap," the lyrics depict falling in love as a tricky, risky game. The opening lines describe how a person can be drawn in by someone's laughter and eyes, feeling as though nothing is wrong – until suddenly they're trapped in a web of feelings. The imagery of being strung along and then snapped like a trap illustrates how easily one can become ensnared by emotions.


As the song continues, the lyrics paint a picture of a romantic setting where the singer finds themselves hand-in-hand with a partner, feeling the music of the breeze. However, they soon realize that they've fallen into the tender trap and can't escape the pull of their emotions. The final lines describe the feeling of being caught up in the moment, swept away by love and unable to resist its power.


Line by Line Meaning

You see a pair of laughing eyes,
You notice someone’s happy eyes and become enamored in their joy and humor.


And suddenly you're sighing sighs,
Their happiness makes you exhale a deep breath, as if releasing a buildup of excitement.


You think nothin's wrong,
You believe that this carefree moment is perfect, and nothing could make it better.


You string along,
You let yourself be led by the moment, enjoying the company of this person.


Boy, then snap!
Suddenly, without warning, you're fully entranced by this person's allure.


Those eyes,
The happiness in their eyes becomes a driving force of the emotions within you.


Those sighs,
Their exhalation of happiness becomes contagious, and you feel fluttery inside.


They're part of the tender trap!
You don't realize it yet, but this moment could be creating a path that leads to something much more serious than a flirty interaction.


You're hand in hand beneath the trees,
Your hands are intertwined, as you and the person find yourselves amid the beauty of nature.


And soon there's music in the breeze,
The sound of the leaves rustling becomes in tune with your heart, adding even more emotion to the moment.


You're acting kinda smart,
You're trying to play it cool, but your heart is laid bare.


Until your heart
Your heart, which you’ve been trying to hide, takes control.


Just hoes Whap!
Suddenly, the emotion hits you like a punch in the gut.


Those trees,
The surroundings of nature represent a beautiful moment of tenderness.


That breeze,
The wind is a symbol of the uncontrollable nature of love.


They're part of the tender trap!
Without being aware of it, you are walking into an emotional trap that you can’t escape.


Some starry night,
In a perfect, magical moment,


When her kisses make you tingle,
When her soft touch creates an electric feeling inside of you,


She'll hold you tight,
Her embrace will make you feel safe and secure.


And you'll hate yourself for being single;
You will regret not having found this feeling sooner.


And all at once it seems so nice,
Everything feels perfect and in place.


The folks are throwin' shoes and rice,
The people around you are celebrating your love.


You hurry to a spot
You rush to a place that feels special and meaningful.


That's just a dot
A small, insignificant marker on the map now represents a lifetime of happiness and love.


On the map.
It’s a reminder of how love can create meaning in unexpected ways.


You're hooked!
You're in too deep.


You're cooked!
You're fully under the spell of love.


You're caught in the tender trap!
You're now aware of how love can be both beautiful and dangerous, but for better or worse, you’re caught in its grasp.


And then you wonder how it all came about,
You're lost in a moment of reflection, trying to piece together how this all happened.


It's too late now, there's no gettin' out,
You’ve gone too far to turn back now.


You fell in love,
You stumbled upon something beautiful and unexpected.


And love is the tender trap.
That beautiful and unexpected force is also incredibly dangerous and can be difficult to escape.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management
Written by: Jimmy Van Heusen, Sammy Cahn

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Comments from YouTube:

Ruth Baumgartner

My dad, jazz musician James Aton, wrote this song for her. It was on the flip side of Abba Dabba Honeymoon.

James Edward Ford

😮😮😪😪😏😒

Michael Westberg

Is the sheet music available, or are there any chord charts? (I love this song! Such clever lyric writing)

Mattie Snead

She was such a classy lady. This song makes me happy.

DIANE MARTINEZ

I love her and her song !!

B Joan

i love this song.

B Jones

love it--great song (a fun song)

James Edward Ford

🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️😓😓

deanofranksammy

Thanx so much 4 posting, Debbie was a class act...true icon. Great song/lyrix...great movie. I'm guessing it was part of "Tender Trap" soundtrack, but maybe no...just on album you mention.

J J

i love this!

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