Mean to Me
Debbie Reynolds Lyrics


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You're mean to me
Why must you be mean to me?
Gee, honey, it seems to me
You love to see me cryin'
I don't know why
I stay home each night
When you say you phone
You don't and I'm left alone.
Sing the blues and sighin'
You treat me coldly each day in the year
You always scold me
Whenever somebody is near, dear
I must be great fun to be mean to me




You shouldn't, for can't you see
What you mean to me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Debbie Reynolds's song "Mean to Me" express the singer's hurt and confusion over their partner's unkind behavior. The opening lines, "You're mean to me / Why must you be mean to me?" convey a sense of both disbelief and resignation. The singer wonders why their partner would treat them so poorly when they care for them deeply. The lines "Gee, honey, it seems to me / You love to see me cryin'" suggest that the partner finds pleasure in the singer's pain, which only adds to the singer's confusion and hurt.


The second verse deepens the singer's sense of isolation and despair. They describe staying home each night, waiting for their partner's call that never comes. This sense of being left alone is reflected in their choice to "sing the blues and sighin'." The bridge connects this sense of loneliness to the partner's behavior, describing how they "treat me coldly each day in the year" and "always scold me / Whenever somebody is near, dear." The final lines of the song turn the tables, implying that the singer's ability to endure such treatment makes them uniquely good at being "mean to me."


Overall, the lyrics to "Mean to Me" portray a challenging and emotional relationship, in which the singer struggles to understand their partner's unkind behavior. By expressing their hurt and confusion, the song captures the universal experience of feeling lost and alone in a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

You're mean to me
You constantly treat me poorly


Why must you be mean to me?
I am confused and hurt by your mistreatment of me


Gee, honey, it seems to me
I am trying to understand your behavior towards me


You love to see me cryin'
You seem to enjoy making me upset and emotional


I don't know why
I am struggling to comprehend your motives


I stay home each night
I have stopped going out because of how you treat me


When you say you phone
I wait anxiously for your call


You don't and I'm left alone.
You never follow through and it hurts me deeply


Sing the blues and sighin'
I am always sad and pensive because of our relationship


You treat me coldly each day in the year
Your behavior towards me is consistently unkind


You always scold me
You get angry with me for no reason


Whenever somebody is near, dear
You only act kindly towards me when other people are watching


I must be great fun to be mean to me
Your behavior towards me makes me feel worthless and disposable


You shouldn't, for can't you see
I wish you would stop treating me this way


What you mean to me
I care about you deeply and wish you would treat me with the same respect and kindness




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Written by: EMERSON HART

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