For the Love of a Daughter
Demi Lovato Lyrics


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Four years old
With my back to the door
All I could hear
Was the family war
Your selfish hands
Always expecting more
Am I your child?
Or jut a charity award?

You have a hollowed out heart but it's heavy in your chest
I tried so hard to fight it but it's hopeless
Hopeless
You're hopeless
Oh father, please father
I'd love to leave you alone but I can't let you go
Oh father, please father
Put the bottle down for the love of a daughter

It's been five years
Since we've spoken last
And you can't take back
What we never had
Oh, I can be manipulated only so many times
Before even "I Love You"
Starts to sound like a lie

You have a hollowed out heart but it's heavy in your chest
I tried so hard to fight it but it's hopeless
Hopeless
You're hopeless
Oh father, please father
I'd love to leave you alone but I can't let you go
Oh father, please father
Put the bottle down for the love of a daughter

Don't you remember I'm your baby girl?
How could you push me our of your world?
Lied to your flesh and your blood
Put your hands on the ones that you swore you loved
Don't you remember I'm your baby girl?
How could you throw me right out of your world?
So young when the pain had begun
Now forever afraid of being loved

Oh father
Please father
I'd love to leave you alone but I can't let you go
Oh father
Please father
Oh father
Please father




Put the bottle down for the love of a daughter
For the love of a daughter

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Demi Lovato's "For the Love of a Daughter" depict a painful experience of a daughter who grew up in a broken family. The first verse shows the daughter's memory of her family's conflict at a young age. She wonders if she is merely an obligation to her father, who always demands more from her. She questions her value as his child and feels like a charity award. In the second verse, the daughter describes the five years of silence between her and her father. She acknowledges the fact that she can only take so much manipulation from him before his words become meaningless. The chorus shows the daughter's plea to her father, asking him to put the bottle down for the love of their relationship. The bridge of the song expresses the daughter's anger towards her father. She reminds him of how he lied to her, and questions how he could push her out of his world.


Line by Line Meaning

Four years old
At a very young age


With my back to the door
Turning a blind eye to the reality of the situation


All I could hear
Only being able to sense the hostility around


Was the family war
The continuous fights in the family


Your selfish hands
Self-centered actions


Always expecting more
Constantly requiring more from others


Am I your child?
Questioning the bond and relationship between a parent and their child


Or just a charity award?
Feeling like a burden or someone to be pitied


You have a hollowed out heart but it's heavy in your chest
Having a heart filled with darkness and despair


I tried so hard to fight it but it's hopeless
Attempting to overcome the pain and trauma, but ultimately feeling defeated


Oh father, please father
A desperate plea for understanding and acknowledgement


I'd love to leave you alone but I can't let you go
Desiring to distance oneself from the toxic relationship, but feeling emotionally tethered to it


Put the bottle down for the love of a daughter
A plea to stop self-destructive behavior for the sake of familial love


It's been five years
A significant amount of time has passed


Since we've spoken last
No communication has occurred


And you can't take back
Past actions and words can't be undone


What we never had
A nonexistent relationship


Oh, I can be manipulated only so many times
Being taken advantage of, but eventually becoming wise to the tactic


Before even "I Love You"
Empty words and phrases


Starts to sound like a lie
Losing faith in the genuineness of expressions of affection


Don't you remember I'm your baby girl?
Requesting recognition of familial connection


How could you push me our of your world?
Feeling excluded and unloved


Lied to your flesh and your blood
Betraying family members who should have been treated with love and respect


Put your hands on the ones that you swore you loved
Causing physical harm to loved ones


So young when the pain had begun
Experiencing emotional trauma at a young age


Now forever afraid of being loved
Trouble feeling and accepting love due to past hurt


Oh father
Addressing the source of trauma


Put the bottle down for the love of a daughter
The importance of stopping self-destructive behavior for the sake of family love


For the love of a daughter
The powerful influence of familial love, even amidst past trauma and hurt




Lyrics © Royalty Network, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: WILLIAM BECKETT, DEMITRIA LOVATO

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Angela Butler Griffin

To all those people being bullied

To all those people who have lost a loved one

To all those people who have lost a pet

To all those people being abused

To all those people going through depression

To all those people with anxiety

To all those people in poverty

To all those people going through a breakup

To all those people having a bad day

To all those people with insecurities

To all those people just having a hard time,

Don't forget

Your weakness today

Is your strength tomorrow

It always gets better

Your loved ones will remain in your hearts

You always have the memories

Love yourself

Stand up for yourself

Money can't buy happiness

Those lovers

Just weren't right

Don't abuse yourself

Don't abuse others

Kill them with kindness

Treat people with kindness

We've all had these times

There will always be a hole in our chests

But

Let's all be each others' strength

weather you're

Black

White

LGBTQ+

Christian

Atheist

Etc

Love yourself

Love others

Don't cut

Don't kill

Don't criticize

Don't beg

Don't do drugs

Don't starve yourself

Don't starve others

We aren't supposed to do any of that

Just keep your strength

Keep your faith

Don't change because you were told to

Be yourself



Holly Clementine

My friend recommended this song to me, because of my family’s history.
I truly didn’t expect to get so emotional.

I saw my father’s drinking & drug use when I was a kid. Hell...I saw majority of my family abuse substances.
& I SWORE to myself I would never go down that road.

Yet I wound up being an addict for 4 years.

But...I’m now almost 3 years sober.



All comments from YouTube:

BLAKE JENNER IS AN ABUSER

shoutout to the girls who’s father broke their hearts before any teenage boys ever could

x_CallMeAmber_x

My cheated 3 times then lied also drinks and lies about not bringing any in when we smell and hes always arguing and never there for me

3peoplestuff

Mine

Shantiz

@x_CallMeAmber_x my dad wasnt in my life

Lilly Marmoljeo

My dad died when i was one😄😃😄😃

Cindy Stokes

@Lilly Marmoljeo my brother marty died when he was 1

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Gone.Girl7

"Don't you remeber I'm your baby girl?" I can't stop crying to this part

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Shadow Katsuki Bakugo

I wonder if my dad remembers I'm his little baby girl from all those years ago. It hurts when I wonder if I'm a charity award, like the song says, or if I'm his daughter to him.

Gone.Girl7

@Shadow Katsuki Bakugo bruh that's deep

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