Open
Demi Lovato Lyrics


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Spitting fire back & forth now
Times have changed in just a few months
Neighbors complaining from the fights & why can't things be the same
And maybe I'm just a little bit cautious
Of what I'm gonna say
When I tell you I can't live this way
I don't know what to expect from someone who's so insane
Why can't I get through the night
Without another fight
I'm tired of the hurting
Is it really worth it?
Am I all alone again?
Cause I'm kinda feeling like I'm screaming with my mouth shut
When it's really open

The only noises in my head
Are consumed of your voice
From all the pain & hatred
How long can you kick somebody down
Before a foot breaks?

Why can't I get through the night
Without another fight
I'm tired of the hurting
Is it really worth it?
Am I all alone again?
Cause I'm kinda feeling like I'm screaming with my mouth shut
When it's really open

And I knew that you would fabricate
This situation just for
The sake of your need for attention
I'm sick of always being the one
To always break down,always melt down
In the end
And maybe this time
It's a sign that independence & I
Are finally catching on
I don't need you to rely on

Why can't I get through the night
Without another fight
I'm tired of the hurting
Is it really worth it?
Am I all alone again?
Cause I'm kinda feeling like I'm screaming with my mouth shut
When it's really open





Spitting fire back & forth now
Times have changed in just a few months

Overall Meaning

In "Open," Demi Lovato sings about the struggles of a toxic relationship. The song speaks of two people who are constantly fighting, with the neighbors even complaining. The imagery of "spitting fire back & forth now" provides insight into the intensity of the arguments. Despite all the fighting, the singer is hesitant to voice their feelings and concerns, wondering "why can't things be the same?" Although they long for peace, they find themselves unable to escape the cycle of fighting.


The lyrics also delve into the singer's inner turmoil. They feel like they're "screaming with [their] mouth shut" and unheard, even though they are "kinda feeling" like they're screaming "when it's really open." Through these lines, Lovato touches upon the feeling of helplessness that can come with toxic relationships. The singer wonders if their relationship is "really worth it," and if they are "all alone again." Ending the song on the same line as the beginning, "spitting fire back & forth now / times have changed in just a few months," Lovato brings the song full circle while highlighting the speed at which a relationship can deteriorate.


Line by Line Meaning

Spitting fire back & forth now
Engaging in heated arguments or confrontations with frequent outbursts


Times have changed in just a few months
Things have changed noticeably within a short period of time


Neighbors complaining from the fights & why can't things be the same
The neighbors are bothered by the fights, and the singer wishes for things to return to how they were before


And maybe I'm just a little bit cautious
The artist is hesitant and careful about what they say next


Of what I'm gonna say
The artist is conscious of their words and their potential consequences


When I tell you I can't live this way
The singer is ready to express their dissatisfaction with the current situation


I don't know what to expect from someone who's so insane
The singer has concerns about the unpredictable behavior of the other person


Why can't I get through the night Without another fight I'm tired of the hurting Is it really worth it? Am I all alone again? Cause I'm kinda feeling like I'm screaming with my mouth shut When it's really open
The artist is tired of the constant arguments and the associated pain, and wonders if it's worth the effort for this relationship. Despite being vocal about their thoughts, they feel unheard and alone


The only noises in my head Are consumed of your voice From all the pain & hatred How long can you kick somebody down Before a foot breaks?
The artist is plagued by negative thoughts related to their partner, and questions how much longer they can bear the emotional strain


And I knew that you would fabricate This situation just for The sake of your need for attention I'm sick of always being the one To always break down,always melt down In the end
The artist realizes that the other person created this situation to gain attention, and expresses their exhaustion from always being the one to break down


And maybe this time It's a sign that independence & I Are finally catching on I don't need you to rely on
The singer sees this as a sign that they are better off independent, and don't need to rely on the other person anymore




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Comments from YouTube:

@melaninmelancholy

How do I still remember these lyrics

@Ooodledoodle

SAME LOL

@brenbrenr

SAME LOL

@reddingmalik

I mean every word!!! Lmao

@JeanOJesus

I remember hearing this song 12 years ago, and in my memories it was was an awesome song. I thought it was nostalgia or something. Took me a lot of time to find this again, and this songs is actually well structured, its a great song!

@montagne5825

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