Gotta Be This Or That
Dianne Reeves Lyrics


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If you ain't wrong, you're right
If it ain't day, it's night
If you ain't sure, you might
Gotta be this or that

If it ain't dry, it's wet
If you ain''t got, you get
If it ain't gross, it's net
Gotta be this or that

If it ain't sis, you can't miss
It's got to be your brother
Can't you see it's gotta be
One way or the other

If it ain't full, it's blank
If you don't spend, you bank




If it ain't Dee, it's Frank
Gotta be this or that

Overall Meaning

Dianne Reeves's song "Gotta Be This or That" is a playful tune with a message about the binary nature of life. The lyrics assert that everything in life comes with its opposite, and we have to choose between them. The first stanza sets up this contrast beautifully: "If you ain't wrong, you're right / If it ain't day, it's night / If you ain't sure, you might / Gotta be this or that." The implication is that there's no in-between or grey area. We have to take a stand, make a choice, and stick to it because everything is black or white.


The subsequent verses continue this theme of contrast, showing that life is full of opposing forces, such as wet and dry, gross and net, full and blank, spend and bank, and Dee and Frank. The lines, "If it ain't sis, you can't miss / It's got to be your brother" exemplify the idea that we have to choose between two options that are essentially the same. The song's upbeat tempo and Reeves's soulful voice are perfectly matched, making this philosophy feel more lighthearted than dogmatic.


In conclusion, "Gotta Be This or That" is a fun song that reminds us that choices are a part of life, and there's always another side to a situation. It's a song that celebrates the dualities and choices that come with life, and it does so in an entertaining way.


Line by Line Meaning

If you ain't wrong, you're right
Things are either correct or incorrect, there is no in-between


If it ain't day, it's night
Things are either light or dark, there is no gray area


If you ain't sure, you might
It's important to be decisive, uncertainty can lead to negative outcomes


Gotta be this or that
There are only two options to choose from and a choice must be made


If it ain't dry, it's wet
Things are either moisture-free or damp, there is no middle ground


If you ain't got, you get
Either you have something or you acquire it, there is no alternative


If it ain't gross, it's net
Things either have or don't have, there is no neutral ground


If it ain't sis, you can't miss
Recognizing that things that are similar are difficult to differentiate between


It's got to be your brother
Things that are in the same category are indistinguishable


Can't you see it's gotta be
This is an inescapable conclusion that everyone should be able to acknowledge


One way or the other
Regardless of what path is chosen, there will always be two options


If it ain't full, it's blank
Things are either complete or incomplete, there is no middle ground


If you don't spend, you bank
Either you use your money or you save it, there is no third option


If it ain't Dee, it's Frank
Both similarities and differences exist in everything




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: SUNNY SKYLAR

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