I Hate That You Love Me
Diddy - Dirty Money Lyrics


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Yeah,
Yo turn the piano up
Can you feel it
Yeah like that
This the way love feels
Yo check it

Are we living in vain,
Are we living in pain
Girl remember my name (remember my name)
And whatever remains
After we walk on white sand
Lets travel in style
Just want to see you happy and smiling
I can change your life in one flight,
Lets take off tonight, come on

We go,
We go down
Love is in,
Then its out
We can tell,
Tell by now
If it wont, work out

Lets not forget
Back in Brooklyn
Where the future
First began
Lets start again
Cant be over
That's what I told her
And then she said

I hate that you love me
So much boy
I hate that you hurt me
So much boy
I hate that you love me
So much boy
I hate that you hurt me
So much boy
I hate that you love me

One time is enough for me
Close your eyes, there's much to see
So lets jump and both touch the clouds, and we never come down
Its amazing the view here
On top of the world where even the air is all brand new here
Fireworks like new years
Hurt is old news, why would you shed new tears

How can you
Trust in love
When our time
Our time is up
If I leave
Will you
Walk away
From the truth

Lets not forget
Back in Brooklyn
Where the future
First began
Lets start again
Cant be over
That's what I told her
And then she said

I hate that you love me
So much boy
I hate that you hurt me
So much boy
I hate that you love me
So much boy
I hate that you hurt me
So much boy
I hate that you love me

Things I know now, don't allow me to turn back
We been through it all but now I just want my heart back
And I could walk away but see your love is my weakness
Oh it could be pointless to try and walk away, that's why

I hate that you love me
So much boy
I hate that you hurt me
So much boy
I hate that you love me
So much boy
I hate that you hurt me
So much boy
I hate that you love me

That I love
Cause I know how to love
You hate better hurt
Cause you hurt me
You hate better love
Cause I hate better love




You hate better hurt
Cause you hurt me

Overall Meaning

In "I Hate That You Love Me," Diddy grapples with a complicated relationship that is intense but ultimately unfulfilling, as the chorus declares "I hate that you love me so much boy, I hate that you hurt me so much boy." The song opens with questions about the nature of their relationship, wondering if they are living in vain or pain. But despite the uncertain future, Diddy expresses his desire to make his love interest happy and take her on a luxurious adventure. He promises to change her life with one flight, and invites her to join him in soaring to new heights.


Line by Line Meaning

Yeah,
Introducing the song on a positive note.


Yo turn the piano up
Asking for the adjustment of the music volume (instrument) to set the mood.


Can you feel it
Asking for the listener's attention and engagement in the emotions expressed in the music.


Yeah like that
Expressing satisfaction with the current musical ambiance.


This the way love feels
The melody captures the essence and complexities of romantic love.


Yo check it
Asking for the listener's full comprehension of the song's message.


Are we living in vain,
Questioning the meaningfulness of life and love.


Are we living in pain
Wondering if love brings more pain than joy.


Girl remember my name (remember my name)
Asking for recognition and significance in the partner's life.


And whatever remains
Acknowledging that nothing lasts forever.


After we walk on white sand
Referencing a romantic trope of a walk on the beach with one's significant other.


Lets travel in style
Aspiring toward luxurious travels and experiences together.


Just want to see you happy and smiling
Altruistic desire to make the partner feel fulfilled and joyful in the relationship.


I can change your life in one flight,
Offering to elevate the partner's lifestyle and experiences through shared travel.


Lets take off tonight, come on
Suggesting a spur-of-the-moment trip together.


We go,
The ups and downs of a romantic relationship.


We go down
The instability of the aforementioned relationship.


Love is in,
The presence of love in the relationship.


Then its out
The absence of love in the relationship.


We can tell,
Awareness of the status of the relationship.


Tell by now
The relationship's trajectory is becoming increasingly clear.


If it wont, work out
Doubts about the relationship's viability.


Lets not forget
Referencing a shared past.


Back in Brooklyn
Reference to a shared origin or hometown.


Where the future
The departure point for their shared journey.


First began
The origin of the relationship.


Lets start again
Aspiration to start over with a renewed sense of purpose.


Cant be over
Refusal to accept the end of the relationship.


That's what I told her
Affirming the refusal to give up on the relationship.


And then she said
Introducing a response from the partner.


I hate that you love me
Acknowledgment of the partner's love and the subsequent difficulties it poses.


So much boy
Emphasizing the intensity of the aforementioned difficulties.


One time is enough for me
Reflecting on the ups and downs of the relationship and acknowledging that doing it all over again may not be worth it.


Close your eyes, there's much to see
Encouraging the partner to relax and enjoy the present moment, despite the difficulties of the relationship.


So lets jump and both touch the clouds, and we never come down
Metaphorically suggesting a grand, never-ending romantic adventure.


Its amazing the view here
Expressing gratitude for the beauty of the relationship, despite the challenges.


On top of the world where even the air is all brand new here
Further emphasizing the exhilarating nature of the relationship.


Fireworks like new years
Metaphorically likening the passion in the relationship to a celebratory fireworks display on New Year's Eve.


Hurt is old news, why would you shed new tears
Rejecting the idea that ongoing pain is necessary in the relationship.


How can you
Questioning the partner's commitment to the relationship.


Trust in love
Challenging the notion that love is inherently trustworthy.


When our time
Mulling over the finite nature of the relationship.


Our time is up
Acknowledging that the relationship may be nearing its end.


If I leave
Possible contingency plan for the partner's exit from the relationship.


Will you
Asking whether the partner will persevere in the relationship.


Walk away
Potential act of ending the relationship.


From the truth
Refusing to accept the validity of the end of the relationship.


Things I know now, don't allow me to turn back
Acknowledging personal growth and admitting that there is no return to a previous state.


We been through it all but now I just want my heart back
Expressing a longing for emotional closure after a tumultuous relationship.


And I could walk away but see your love is my weakness
Admitting the inherent vulnerability in romantic love.


Oh it could be pointless to try and walk away, that's why
Acknowledging the strength of attachment to the partner, despite the difficulties.


I hate that you love me
Reemphasizing that the partner's love is both alluring and painful.


So much boy
Highlighting the depth of that mixed emotion.


I hate that you hurt me
Admitting the negativity inherent in the ups and downs of the relationship.


So much boy
Reiterating the dual nature of emotions in the relationship.


I hate that you love me
A dichotomy of longing and anxiety regarding the partner's love.


So much boy
Expressing the weight of that dichotomy.


I hate that you hurt me
Still grieving the partner's actions that have caused pain in the relationship.


So much boy
The continuing weight of those past wounds.


I hate that you love me
Acknowledging the difficulties and uncertainties inherent in the complexity of romantic relationships.


That I love
Confirming the emotional commitment to the partner regardless of the difficulties.


Cause I know how to love
Asserting personal confidence in the ability to show love despite previous difficulties.


You hate better hurt
Emphasizing that if pain is to emerge from the relationship, it is preferred that this pain is caused by the singer rather than by the partner.


Cause you hurt me
Attributing past pain to the partner.


You hate better love
Asserting that while the partner may have caused pain in the past, it is preferred that love remain the focus of the future relationship.


Cause I hate better love
Confirming that the singer's love and commitment to the partner wins out, even in the face of past pain.


You hate better hurt
Again acknowledging that pain may result from the relationship.


Cause you hurt me
Reiterating the source of past pain in the relationship.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Peermusic Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., WORDS & MUSIC A DIV OF BIG DEAL MUSIC LLC
Written by: SEAN COMBS, LASHAWN DANIELS, LETOYA DUGGAN, RODNEY JERKINS, VICTORIA MCCANTS, LEROY WATSON

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Sli Net

Hey yo turn the piano up
Can you feel it
Yeah, like that
That's the way love feels
Yo check it
Are we living in vain
Are we living in pain
Girl remeber my name
And whatever remains
After we walk on white
Sand, let's travel in style
Just want to see you happy
And smiling
I can change your life in
One flight, let's take off
Tonight, come on
We go, we go down
Love is in then its out
We can tell, tell by now
If it won't work out
Let's not forget back in
Brooklyn
Where the future first
Began
Let's start again can't be
Over
That's what I told her, and
Then she said
I Hate that you love me so
Much boy
I Hate that you hurt me so
Much boyI Hate that you love me
One Time Is Enough For Me
Close Your Eyes, There's Much To See
So Let's Jump And Both
Touch The Clouds, AND We
Never Come Down
Its Amazing The View Is
On Top Of The World Where
Even The Air Is All Brand New
Here
Fireworks Like New Years
Hurt Is Old News, Why Would
You Shed New Tears
Trust in you, just enough
When our time, our time is
Up
If I leave, will you
Walk away from the truth
Let's not forget, back in
Brooklyn
Where the future, first began
Let's start again, can't be
Over
That's what I told her and
Then she said
I hate that you love me so
Much boy
I hate that you hurt me so
Much I hate that you love me
Things I know now, don't
Allow me to turn back
We been through it all but
Now I just want my heart
Back
And I could walk away but
See your love is my weakness
Oh it could be pointless to
Try, and that's why
I hat you love me so
Much boy
I hate that you hurt me so
Much boyI hate that you love me
That I love, cuz I know how to love
You hate that I hurt,
Cuz you hurt me
You hate I love,
Cuz ow how to love
You hate that I hurt cuz you hurt me



All comments from YouTube:

Terrence Allen

The Last Train To Paris album was exceptional. Its a shame that it didn't get the attention it deserved. Dirty Money was greatness. If they were making more albums like this, they would go down in history.

Steven Rasmussen

+Terrence Allen 200%

Tonya Brown

you are so right, I love them they didn't get enough credit!!!!!!

Callmeromain2016

The album is a blast

Jasmine Smith

Terrence Allen i totally agree. Well put

LaDy Meaux

This album is 🔥...

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Let's appreciate this beat together 🎼🎶🎵🎙️🙂🙂

Kgomotso Taf

It’s really been 10 years bruh. Underrated album in it’s entirety 💙

Jerry Tasker

I must agree with every word you say. This is one of the best Jams that I play often. I love this cut.

Josh Flynn

Always one talking about "underrated"

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