I Just Don't Know What To Do With Myself
Dionne Warwick Lyrics


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I just don't know what to do with myself
Don't know just what to do with myself
I'm so used to doing everything with you
Planning everything for two
And now that we're through

I just don't know what to do with my time
I'm so lonesome for you, it's a crime
Going to a movie only makes me sad
Parties make me feel as bad
When I'm not with you, I just don't know what to do

Like a summer rose
Needs the sun and rain
I need your sweet love to beat all the pain

I just don't know what to do with myself
I don't know just what to do with myself
Oh baby, if your new love ever turns you down
Come on back, I will be around
Just waiting for you, I don't know what else to do

Like a summer rose
Needs the sun and rain
I need your sweet, sweet love to beat (to beat)




I need your sweet sweet love to beat (to beat)
All the pain

Overall Meaning

Dionne Warwick's "I Just Don't Know What To Do With Myself" is a poignant and emotional song about lost love. The song conveys the heartache and sense of disorientation felt by the singer now that she is no longer with her significant other. She describes the feeling of not knowing what to do with herself, as all the things she used to do with her partner feel empty and meaningless now that he's gone. She finds no joy in everyday activities like going to the movies or attending parties, as they only serve to remind her of what she's lost.


The central metaphor of the song is the image of a summer rose needing both sun and rain to thrive. The singer compares herself to the rose, saying that she needs her partner's love to beat the pain of their separation. The haunting and soulful quality of Warwick's voice brings out the raw emotion of the lyrics, lending them an almost universal appeal. The song serves as a touching tribute to the pain, loss, and nostalgia that are an inevitable part of every love story.


Line by Line Meaning

I just don't know what to do with myself
I am lost and confused without you; I don't know how to live my life on my own.


Don't know just what to do with myself
I don't have any direction or purpose without you in my life.


I'm so used to doing everything with you
We were so close that we did everything together; I've become dependent on you.


Planning everything for two
We made plans together, and now I don't know how to make plans for just myself.


And now that we're through
Our relationship is over, and I'm struggling to adjust to life without you.


I just don't know what to do with my time
My free time feels empty and meaningless without you to spend it with.


I'm so lonesome for you, it's a crime
I feel incredibly sad and lonely without you in my life; it's almost unbearable.


Going to a movie only makes me sad
Things that used to bring me joy, like going to the movies, now just make me feel even worse because you're not there to share them with me.


Parties make me feel as bad
Even trying to socialize and have fun without you feels like a painful reminder of what I've lost.


When I'm not with you, I just don't know what to do
I'm completely lost and without purpose when you're not by my side.


Like a summer rose
Similar to how a rose needs both sun and rain to survive,


Needs the sun and rain
I need your love and care to survive and thrive.


I need your sweet love to beat all the pain
Your love is the only thing that can heal the pain I'm feeling right now.


Oh baby, if your new love ever turns you down
If your new love doesn't work out, know that I'll still be here for you.


Come on back, I will be around
I'll always be here for you, no matter what happens.


Just waiting for you, I don't know what else to do
I'm still completely devoted to you, and waiting for you to come back to me is all I can do.


I need your sweet, sweet love to beat (to beat)
Once again, it's clear that I can only find happiness and healing through your love.


All the pain
The pain of losing you is unbearable, and the only way to get past it is to have you back in my life.




Lyrics © DistroKid, BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Songtrust Ave
Written by: Hal David, Burt F. Bacharach

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