Don't Get Your Hopes Up
Dntel Lyrics


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Disappointment is nothing new,
It may leave at times,
But always comes back to you.

So don't get your hopes up,
Don't aim too high,
They may say they love you,
But most of them lie,
So don't even try.

So don't even try.

Disappointment is nothing new,
It may leave you hopeless,
Alone and confused.

So don't get your hopes up,
But try not to cry,
They may not quite love you,
But most of them try.

So don't get your hopes up,
But try not to cry,




They may not quite love you,
But most of them try.

Overall Meaning

The song "Don't Get Your Hopes Up" by Dntel presents a melancholic and honest perspective on love and relationships. The lyrics reveal a sense of resignation and acceptance of the fact that disappointment is a constant factor in romantic connections. The opening lines, "Disappointment is nothing new, it may leave at times, but always comes back to you," set the tone for the rest of the song, describing a cyclical pattern of heartache and hopelessness.


The chorus provides a warning and a defense mechanism against getting hurt. The singer advises not to get one's hopes up or aim too high, suggesting that romantic love is often based on lies and false promises. Thus, the repetitive line "don't even try" serves as a mantra for a jaded outlook on love.


Despite the cautious approach, there is some optimism in the second verse, acknowledging that some may try to love sincerely, even if they may not be successful. The final lines of the chorus encourage resilience and emotional strength, encouraging the listener not to cry and keep their expectations low.


Overall, the song portrays a realistic and poignant reflection on the complexities of love and relationships, highlighting the mixture of hope and disappointment that people often experience.


Line by Line Meaning

Disappointment is nothing new,
Disappointments happen all the time and it's a common experience.


It may leave at times,
Disappointments sometimes go away and disappear temporarily.


But always comes back to you.
However, disappointments seem to always come back to haunt you in some way or form.


So don't get your hopes up,
Don't have high expectations so that you will not be disappointed if things don't work out the way you want them to.


Don't aim too high,
Don't set goals or expectations that are beyond your reach or capabilities.


They may say they love you,
Other people may express their love and affection for you verbally.


But most of them lie,
However, many people are not truthful or genuine in their expressions or promises of love.


So don't even try.
Therefore, it's not worth putting in the effort to pursue something or someone that is likely to result in disappointment or betrayal.


It may leave you hopeless,
Experiencing disappointments can make you feel helpless, hopeless, and lost in life.


Alone and confused.
Disappointments can also make you feel lonely and unsure of what to do next.


But try not to cry,
Even though disappointments can be painful, try to stay strong and not let them bring you down completely.


They may not quite love you,
People may not have the same level of love or affection for you as you do for them, or they may not show it in the way that you prefer.


But most of them try.
However, most people do make an effort to express their love and care for others, even if it's not always genuine or reciprocated.




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@airimatsu

Disappointment is nothing new
It may leave at times
But always comes back to you

So don't get your hopes up
Don't aim too high
They may say they love you
But most of them lie
So don't even try

So don't even try

Disappointment is nothing new
It may leave you hopeless
Alone and confused

So don't get your hopes up
But try not to cry
They may not quite love you
But most of them try

So don't get your hopes up
But try not to cry
They may not quite love you
But most of them try



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@darthsarcasm73

2020 lost my job, and my girlfriend and I broke up during quarantine. Hello again.

@silverCandyshops

brooo. hope you're doing well :)

@easytakeit5001

if you are alive. Im sure that u are enjoying all more. I had the same... And now. I enjoy more and more the life...

@1k_Synth

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@mikeneville9462

This is so VERY BEAUTIFUL on so many levels! I just found it again after many years....many years ago. It embraces and "holds you in it's arms"....and reassures you that you are NOT alone....yet, says it lovingly. Pure genius..........and love.........Thank you, Tommy! Mike

@tessarae9127

This is the greatest song of all time... Been listening on repeat since 2010

@rogeronekaka4584

Me too!

@rarecharisma

Me too!! I can’t find this song anywhere but here and I’m afraid one day it’ll get taken down

@mohutch7863

Please don’t delete this video. I literally have no idea where to find this song other than here

@vinyl66tape

It’s been more than 10 years, and I’m already 31.
This song brings so much melancholic memories.
But somehow when I’m feeling down, I find it comforting in a weird way.
This song is my life’s motto and an anthem.

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