A Gamble Either Way
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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Being born was the worst and the
First mistake I ever made
The doctor didn't spank me
He just slapped me in the face
And the cup of love was
Always quenching someone else's thirst
Leaving me to swallow the
Bitter taste of hurt
Because I was raised an orphan
Never wanted as a kid
Until the year I turned 13
Then everybody did
Strangers pass me back and forth
Men just took me as they pleased
And others had a Cinderella slave to
Cook and clean and weave

Though the deck is stacked against you
Win or lose, you have to play
The hand that life has dealt you
And it's a gamble either way

On a dusty road at 15
In a yellow cotton dress
With the desert sun like an angry
Dragon breathing down my neck
And the dry cracked plains would make
Me think of a prehistoric time
Should I fear what lay before me
Less than what I'd left behind?
A 15-year old girl don't have
No trouble hitching rides
But sometimes when you're riding free
You'll pay the highest price
On back roads and in back seats
And in cheap highway motels
But what's a few more strangers in
A life of nothing else?

Though the deck is stacked against you
Win or lose, you have to play
The hand that life has dealt you
And it's a gamble either way

Sixteen, caught me crying
Underneath the scarlet lights
On the doorsteps of a stranger on
A cold and rainy night
When I walked into the parlor here
All the pieces seemed to fit
I was good at pleasing strangers
So I made the most of it
Either way it's all a gamble
So view the stakes and know the odds
And lay your cards upon the table
Do all the dealing from the top

Though the deck is stacked against you
Win or lose, you have to play




The hand that life has dealt you
And it's a gamble either way

Overall Meaning

In Dolly Parton's song "A Gamble Either Way," the lyrics explore the hardships and struggles the singer has faced throughout her life, presenting a bleak and challenging narrative. The song begins with the singer reflecting on her birth, describing it as her worst and first mistake, as she was not welcomed into the world with warmth and love. The doctor's action of slapping her instead of comforting her sets the tone for a life filled with pain and neglect.


The lyrics further delve into the singer's experiences of being raised as an orphan and feeling unwanted. However, when she reaches the age of thirteen, suddenly everyone wants her, but not for genuine reasons. She becomes a commodity to be passed around and used by strangers, both physically and as a servant. The lyrics touch upon the dehumanizing nature of these experiences, highlighting the singer's vulnerability and lack of agency.


The second verse expands on the singer's life at the age of fifteen, feeling trapped in a desolate and arid environment. The dry cracked plains serve as a metaphor for the barrenness of her experiences and the uncertainty she faces. Despite the risks and dangers, she finds solace in hitchhiking, even though it often comes with a high price.


At sixteen, the singer finds herself crying under scarlet lights, suggesting she has turned to some form of sex work as a means of survival. She feels a sense of belonging and acceptance within this world, believing that she is good at pleasing strangers and making the most of her circumstances. The lyrics convey a sense of resignation, acknowledging that life is a gamble regardless of the choices made.




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on Gypsy Joe And Me

As a matter of fact she's contemplating suicide standing on the bridge, that's how they'll be together again.