Barbara on Your Mind
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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(Dolly Parton)

Last night you called me Barbara
As you lay fast asleep
And although I'm not Barbara
You wanted me to be
You whispered words I haven't heard
In such a long, long time
Last night you said I love you
With Barbara on your mind

Sometimes I find traces of her kisses on your skin
And strands of chestnut hair
That say you've been with her again
Little traces of her that it breaks my heart to find
Last night you called me darlin'
With Barbara on your mind

With Barbara on your mind
You held me in your arms so tight
And lying there so close to you
I cried until day light

And though you think that I don't know
I'm really not that blind
Last night you said I love you
With Barbara on your mind




Last night you called me darlin'
With Barbara on your mind

Overall Meaning

In this song, Dolly Parton sings about a painful realization that her lover still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend, Barbara, despite being in a current relationship with her. The lyrics describe the moment when the lover calls Dolly "Barbara" in his sleep, showing that the ex-girlfriend is still on his mind. Dolly is hurt by the presence of Barbara in their relationship and notices little reminders of her, like the strands of hair he leaves behind. She feels unloved and unwanted when he calls her Barbara and struggles to cope with his ongoing attachment to her. Despite these insecurities, Dolly remains in the relationship and cries herself to sleep while being held tightly by her lover.


The song is a raw and emotional exploration of jealousy, insecurity, and the complexities of love triangles. It highlights the pain of being the "rebound" in a relationship and how lingering feelings for an ex can impact the current partner's self-esteem. Dolly's lyrics suggest that sometimes, even when you are in a healthy and loving relationship, the past can still have a strong hold on your emotions.


Line by Line Meaning

Last night you called me Barbara
Last night, you addressed me as 'Barbara', who is another woman, while you were fast asleep.


As you lay fast asleep
You were in deep sleep when you called me 'Barbara'.


And although I'm not Barbara
Even though my name is not 'Barbara', you still wished that I were her.


You wanted me to be
You desired me to be 'Barbara'.


You whispered words I haven't heard
You uttered words that I haven't heard from you in a very long time.


In such a long, long time
It has been a very long time since you last said those words to me.


Last night you said I love you
You expressed your love for me last night.


With Barbara on your mind
However, you were actually thinking of 'Barbara' while you said those words to me.


Sometimes I find traces of her kisses on your skin
I occasionally discover signs of her love, such as her kisses, on your skin.


And strands of chestnut hair
I also come across strands of 'Barbara's' chestnut hair on you.


That say you've been with her again
Such instances suggest that you have been with 'Barbara' once more.


Little traces of her that it breaks my heart to find
Finding these small indications of 'Barbara' cause emotional pain and distress to me.


With Barbara on your mind
You continue to think of 'Barbara' even as you hold me closely in your arms.


You held me in your arms so tight
You embraced me tightly in your arms.


And lying there so close to you
While lying so near to you, I observed your feelings.


I cried until day light
This caused me so much sadness that I wept until morning light.


And though you think that I don't know
However, you assume that I am ignorant of your love for 'Barbara'.


I'm really not that blind
But, in reality, I am not as unaware as you believe me to be.


Last night you said I love you
Last night, you professed your love for me.


With Barbara on your mind
However, it was 'Barbara' who was on your mind at the time.


Last night you called me darlin'
Last night you called me by a term of affection, 'darlin'.


With Barbara on your mind
But, once again, you were thinking about 'Barbara'.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DOLLY PARTON

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Romy K.


on Gypsy Joe And Me

As a matter of fact she's contemplating suicide standing on the bridge, that's how they'll be together again.

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