Better Get to Livin'
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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(Ooh-ooh)
(Ooh-ooh)

People always comin' up to me and askin'
"Dolly, what's your secret?
With all you do, your attitude
Just seems to be so good
How do you keep it?"
Well, I'm not the Dalai Lama, but I'll try
To offer up a few words of advice

You better get to livin', givin'
Don't forget to throw in a little forgivin'
And love along the way
You better get to knowin', showin'
A little bit more concern about where you're goin'
Here's a word unto the wise
You better get to livin'

(Ah-ha)

A girlfriend came to my house
Started cryin' on my shoulder Sunday evening (better get to livin')
She was spinnin' such a sad tale
I could not believe the yarn that she was weavin' (better get to livin')
So negative the words she had to say
I said if I had a violin I'd play

I said you'd better get to livin', givin'
Be willing and forgivin'
'Cause all healin'g has to start with you
You better stop whinin', pinin'
Get your dreams in line
And then just shine, design, refine
'Til they come true
And you better get to livin'

Your life's a wreck, your house is mess
And your wardrobe way outdated
All your plans just keep on fallin' through
Overweight and under paid, under appreciated
I'm no guru, but I'll tell you
This I know is true

You better get to livin', givin'
A little more thought about bein'
A little more willin' to make a better way (make a better way)
Don't sweat the small stuff
Keep your chin up
Just hang tough
And if it gets too rough
Fall on your knees and pray (ooh, everyday)
And do that everyday
Then you'll get to livin'

(Ah-ha)

The day we're born we start to die
Don't waste one minute of this life
Get to livin' (better get to livin')
Share your dreams and share your laughter
Make some points for the great hereafter (better get to livin')

Better start carin'
Better start sharin'
Better start tryin'




Better start smiling
And you better get to livin'

Overall Meaning

In Dolly Parton's song "Better Get to Livin'," she gives advice for living a fulfilling life. People often ask her how she maintains her positive attitude, and she responds by emphasizing the importance of giving, forgiving, and loving. She encourages listeners to be more concerned with where they are going and to stop whining and start shining, designing, and refining their dreams. She advises not to sweat the small stuff and to keep your chin up, but to also fall on your knees and pray when things get tough. The song acknowledges that life is short and encourages listeners to start caring, sharing, trying, and smiling in order to truly start living.


Line by Line Meaning

People always comin' up to me and askin', 'Dolly, what's your secret?'
People often ask me how I manage to be so positive despite everything.


With all you do, your attitude, Just seems to be so good, How do you keep it?'
People usually associate my positive attitude with the various things I do. They want to know how I keep myself happy and motivated.


Well, I'm not the Dalai Lama, but I'll try, To offer up a few words of advice
I may not be an expert on philosophy, but I can share some lessons and wisdom that have helped me through tough times.


You better get to livin', givin', Don't forget to throw in a little forgivin', And lovin' on the way, You better get to knowin', showin', A little bit more concerned about where you're goin', Just a word unto the wise, You better get to livin'
My advice to anyone who wants to be happy and successful is to start living, giving, loving, and showing concern for their goals. Do it now rather than waiting, as life is too short to waste on regrets.


A girlfriend came to my house, Started cryin' on my shoulder Sunday evening, She was spinnin' such a sad tale, I could not believe the yarn that she was weavin'
A friend recently came to me seeking a shoulder to cry on, and her story was so sad that I could hardly believe it could happen in real life.


So negative the words she had to say, I said if I had a violin I'd play
My friend had nothing but negative things to say, leaving me wishing I had a way to portray my feelings about her story in a creative way.


You better get to livin', givin', Be willing and forgivin', Cause all healing has to start with you, You better stop whining, pining, Get your dreams in line, And then just shine, design, refine, Until they come true, And you better get to livin'
I told her that the healing process begins with yourself, and you need to focus on living, giving, and being forgiving. It's time to stop complaining and delaying things, start planning, and excel in what you do.


Your life's a wreck, your house is mess, And your wardrobe way outdated, All your plans just keep on falling through, Overweight and underpaid, underappreciated, I'm no guru, but I'll tell you, This I know is true.
If you feel like nothing is going right in your life and are stuck in a rut, you need to understand that you need to make changes. You can improve your life by fixing your home, updating your wardrobe, working hard, and being more appreciated.


You better get to livin', givin', A little more thought about bein', A little more willin' to make a better way, Don't sweat the small stuff, Keep your chin up, Just hang tough, And if it gets too rough, Fall on your knees and pray, And do that every day, Then you'll get to livin'
You need to start caring and sharing, willing to face challenges and willing to work hard to create a better life for yourself. Don't worry about the small things; instead, stay strong and pray for guidance.


The day we're born we start to die, Don't waste one minute of this life, Get to livin', Share your dreams and share your laughter, Make some points for the great hereafter, Better start carin', Better start sharin', Better start tryin', Better start smiling, And you better get to livin'...
We all have a limited time on earth, so we need to make the most of it by living to the fullest. Share your dreams and your sense of humor, and work towards creating a better future for yourself and those around you. Start caring, sharing, trying, and smiling; these things will help you make the most of your life.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Dolly Parton, Michael K. Wells

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Mrs Nesbitt

It doesn't matter how low I am, Dolly will always cheer me up. She is the epitome of positivity!

Octagon9

such positivity can’t possibly be faked

Kaesy Govea

Yes amen !

Mark Julius Fortaleza

Very true dolly dolly brilliant singer songwriter in and out good persona

Billy Saylors

Amen damn right

Jose Rebolledo

She is just what I needed to cheer up a little bit

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Rydel6

56 dislikes? these people must be dead inside lol this is the most uplifting song ive heard in ages, i was delighted to discover the video! i listen to this song whenever i get into one of "those" moods :)

Octagon9

as some say they got so excited to be lovin’ they accidentally pressed wrong button...it can happen I’ve done it and I’m sure u have so u know

Elma Ware

I never get tired of listening to Dolly's songs and hearing her voice always makes my day brighter and happier! 👠💕💋🙏

Kaitlyn Bess

"Well, I'm not the Dalai Lama, but I'll try to offer up a few words of advice" Hahahaa. I love Dolly.

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