Daddy Come And Get Me
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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(Dolly Parton/Dorothy Jo Hope)

In this mental institution, lookin' out through these iron bars
How could he put me in here, how could he go that far
Yes I need help but not this kind, he didn't love me from the start
But it's not my mind that's broken, it's my heart
Oh Daddy come and get me and take me home with you
I'm depending on you Daddy, there's nothing I can do
And you said that I could come to you if I ever was in need
But Daddy I can't come to you, you'll have to come to me

When he said he loved another, I was crazy with jealousy
That's 'cause I was crazy over him and I couldn't stand to set him free
And I couldn't stand to lose him and I cried and cried for days
And he said that I was crazy but he just put me in here to get me out of his way
Daddy come and get me

Oh Daddy come and get me and take me home with you
I'm depending on you Daddy 'cause there's nothing else I can do
And you said that I could come to you if I ever was in need
But Daddy I can't come to you, you'll have to come to me





Oh Daddy, come and get me

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Dolly Parton's song "Daddy Come And Get Me" explore the mental and emotional distress of a woman who has been placed in a mental institution by a man who she has been in love with but who did not reciprocate those feelings. In the first verse, the singer expresses confusion and disbelief that she has been put in such a place and questions why the man would go so far as to do this to her. She acknowledges that she needs help, but not the kind she has been given. She shares that her mind is not the issue, but rather it is her broken heart that has caused her to suffer so greatly.


In the chorus, the singer calls out to her father, asking him to come and get her and take her home. She expresses her dependence on her father and the fact that there is nothing she can do to get out of her current situation. She reminds her father that he had promised her a safe haven should she ever be in need, but now she is unable to come to him, so he must come to her.


In the second verse, the singer shares that her emotional instability arose from jealousy towards the man she loved. She admits that she couldn't bear to let him go because she was so in love with him. When he expressed his love for another, she became distraught and cried for days. However, instead of receiving the help and support she needed from this man, he instead chose to have her institutionalized.


Overall, the lyrics to "Daddy Come And Get Me" paint a vivid picture of the despair and heartbreak experienced by the singer. She is desperate for help and for someone to come to her aid, but feels trapped and helpless in her current situation.


Line by Line Meaning

In this mental institution, lookin' out through these iron bars
I'm currently in a mental institution and confined to a small space with iron bars as windows.


How could he put me in here, how could he go that far
I can't believe my partner put me in this situation and went to the extreme of committing me to a mental institution.


Yes I need help but not this kind, he didn't love me from the start
I admit that I'm struggling and need help, but not the kind that involves being locked up in a mental institution. I realize now that my partner never truly loved me from the beginning.


But it's not my mind that's broken, it's my heart
Even though I'm locked up in a mental institution, my mind isn't the problem. It's my broken heart that's causing me this pain.


Oh Daddy come and get me and take me home with you
I'm pleading with my father to come and rescue me from this mental institution and take me back home with him.


I'm depending on you Daddy, there's nothing I can do
I'm at my wits' end and have no other options, so I'm completely relying on my father to save me from this situation.


And you said that I could come to you if I ever was in need
My father promised to be there for me when I was in need, and I'm now calling on that promise to rescue me from this situation.


But Daddy I can't come to you, you'll have to come to me
Unfortunately, I can't physically come to my father for help, so he'll have to be the one to come to me in this mental institution.


When he said he loved another, I was crazy with jealousy
When my partner told me he loved someone else, I became consumed with jealousy and acted irrationally.


That's 'cause I was crazy over him and I couldn't stand to set him free
My actions stemmed from my intense love for my partner, which made it impossible for me to let him go.


And I couldn't stand to lose him and I cried and cried for days
The thought of losing him caused me so much sadness and despair that I cried for days on end.


And he said that I was crazy but he just put me in here to get me out of his way
Although my partner called me crazy, he really just put me in this mental institution to remove me from his life and go about his own business without me getting in the way.




Lyrics Β© Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DOROTHY JO HOPE, DOLLY PARTON

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Comments from YouTube:

@eloisebush4595

Real music.we dont realise how lucky we were to grow up on such beautiful music.this song still tears me up .beautiful.

@robertaelder3015

Why has 16 people gave the thumbs down on this song this is real country music straight from the heart every girl and woman should understand the words are true it's tearful but I do love all dolly patrons songs she sings straight from the heart love you dolly parton for ever from roberta

@dianarussell6047

Probably because the message is sad and they thumbs down the behavior of her husband

@Kima-tt8rq

2020 im still listening to this. so amazing

@johnlewandowski5385

OF COURSE! Classics NEVER go out of style and legends NEVER die! This song is truly sung from the heart and with a pure voice(a novelty today)! Even though I am a guy, this song resonates with me because my Daddy was always there for his daughters AND sons! Mine passed away two years ago! I miss him!

@lennybuttz2162

I was 16 or 17 the first time I heard this song, I'm 63 now.

@janetbrown4190

I had a daddy that would do anything for me. He's been in Heaven since 2006. He was a loving daddy to us all. This has always been one of my favorites by Dolly. Thanks for posting. "Daddy, come and get me and take me home with you.I'm depending on you daddy..cause there's nothing I can do...You said that I could come to you if I ever was in need, but daddy I can't come to you, you'll have to come to me"...Daddy come and get me.

@ramblinman884

I remember hearing this when I was about 3 or 4 years old living on a mountain top in East Tennessee with my mom and dad. Only remembered the title and that I loved the song. Mom and dad are long gone now, but the memories remain, and I still love the song.

@oaklj4

Truly heart breaking!!! I am not a girl but I know my Father would come and get me any time any place!!! He's the greatest Dad I can name! There is so much soul in this song it makes me cry every time I hear it. Thank u Dolly, I love it to death!!!!

@johnlewandowski8624

Great to hear from another guy that this song resonates with! My Daddy, may he rest in peace, was there for his daughters AND sons!

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