When Possession Gets Too Strong
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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I can't live with you when you try to own me
Though you may give me love like I have never known
But if you try to control me then you won't never know me
And I'll be movin' on when possession gets too strong
So love me just for what I am don't try to change a thing
And I'll take you just like you are and I'll expect the same
So if you want to love me you must understand all of me
For I'll be movin' on when possession gets too strong
And I have no control over what I feel inside
And I can't change the way I am and you must be satisfied
So if you think you can't be without place and chance on me
Then I'll be movin' on when possession gets too strong
[ ac.guitar ]




I have no control...
I'll be movin' on when possession gets too strong

Overall Meaning

In this song, Dolly Parton expresses her dissatisfaction towards a possessive partner. She values love and affection but doesn't want to be owned or controlled by her partner. She urges her partner to love her just the way she is and not try to change her because she cannot change the way she feels. However, she warns her partner that she will move on when the possession gets too strong. The possession mentioned in the song could refer to possessive behavior, jealousy, or obsession. Overall, the song sends a strong message about valuing individuality and personal freedom in a relationship.


One of the interesting facts about this song is that it was released as a B-side to Dolly Parton's other hit song "Jolene" in 1974. It received very little commercial success at the time but has since become a fan favorite. Another interesting fact is that Dolly Parton originally wrote the song for Porter Wagoner, her former duet partner, as a way to express their complicated professional and personal relationship. The song was later included on her album "My Tennessee Mountain Home" in 1973.


Line by Line Meaning

I can't live with you when you try to own me
I cannot be in a relationship with you when you attempt to control and dominate me.


Though you may give me love like I have never known
Even though you might provide me with a type of love that I have never experienced before...


But if you try to control me then you won't never know me
...if you attempt to manipulate me, you won't ever truly understand who I am.


And I'll be movin' on when possession gets too strong
I will leave the relationship when you become overly possessive and controlling.


So love me just for what I am don't try to change a thing
Love me for who I am and do not attempt to change any part of me.


And I'll take you just like you are and I'll expect the same
I will accept you as you are and hope for the same in return.


So if you want to love me you must understand all of me
If you want to love me, you must comprehend every aspect of my being.


And I have no control over what I feel inside
I am not in charge of my emotions.


And I can't change the way I am and you must be satisfied
I cannot alter my personality, and you must be content with who I am naturally.


So if you think you can't be without place and chance on me
Therefore, if you cannot be apart from me, take a risk on me...


Then I'll be movin' on when possession gets too strong
...but I will leave the relationship if your need for control becomes too strong.


[ ac.guitar ]


I have no control...


I'll be movin' on when possession gets too strong
I will end the relationship if it becomes too possessive or controlling.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: LOUIS OWENS, DOLLY PARTON

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