Don't Let It Trouble Your Mind
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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(Dolly Parton)

Our love affair is bitter sweet
Insecure and incomplete
And I've often wondered why your leaving's been so long delayed
It's all become so complicated
Maybe you feel obligated
And out of simpathy for me you stay
But I had rather live alone
Than live with someone who doesn't love me
And I'd rather have you go than stay
And put me down a thinkin' you're above me
Our love affair is so wound up
It's best that we unwind
And if you don't love me, leave me
And don't let it trouble your mind

You've waited much too long to leave afraid of how I'd take it
And I'm deeply touched by your concern but I think I can make it
It won't be easy for a while but I'll forget in time
And if you don't love me, leave me and don't let it trouble your mind

I had rather live alone
Than live with someone who doesn't love me
And I'd rather have you go than stay
And put me down a-thinkin' you're above me
Our love affair is so wound up
It's best that we unwind




And if you don't love me, leave me
And don't let it trouble your mind

Overall Meaning

This song by Dolly Parton titled "Don't Let It Trouble Your Mind" articulates the complexity of a relationship that has been sustained by pity more than love. The first few lines reveal that the singer is trapped in an unfulfilling relationship that is not complete, and she questions why her partner has continued staying even though he is not in love with her. She acknowledges that the situation has become very complicated, and maybe her partner feels obligated to stay to make her happy. But she would rather be alone than stay with someone who doesn't love her. The song emphasizes the importance of a genuine and fulfilling relationship, and the futility of staying in a relationship where there is no true love involved.


In the second verse, the singer advises her partner that he has already delayed too long to leave because he was afraid of hurting her feelings. However, she assures him that she would rather he leaves instead of staying and putting her down. She acknowledges that it will not be easy to forget what they had shared, but in time, things will get better. The chorus repeats the idea that their love affair is complicated and that it's better to unwind it if there's no love involved.


In conclusion, "Don't Let It Trouble Your Mind" is a well-written song that captures the complexity of human emotions and relationships. Dolly Parton's voice adds texture and soul to the lyrics, making it a moving song that will resonate with anyone who has ever loved and lost.


Line by Line Meaning

Our love affair is bitter sweet
Our relationship is a mix of good and bad, it has sweet moments but also bitter ones.


Insecure and incomplete
We both lack security and the relationship feels unfinished.


And I've often wondered why your leaving's been so long delayed
I have questioned why you haven't left sooner if you do not love me.


It's all become so complicated
The situation has become complex and hard to deal with.


Maybe you feel obligated
Perhaps you feel a sense of duty or responsibility to stay with me.


And out of simpathy for me you stay
You might be staying out of sympathy for me and my feelings.


But I had rather live alone
I would rather be alone than be with someone who doesn't love me.


Than live with someone who doesn't love me
Living with someone who doesn't love me is worse than being alone.


And I'd rather have you go than stay
I prefer if you left instead of staying and hurting me.


And put me down a thinkin' you're above me
I don't want you to stay and make me feel inferior to you.


Our love affair is so wound up
Our relationship is so tangled and difficult.


It's best that we unwind
It is better if we untangle ourselves from this relationship.


And if you don't love me, leave me
If you don't love me, it's best if you leave me.


You've waited much too long to leave afraid of how I'd take it
You have waited too long to leave because you were worried about how I would react.


And I'm deeply touched by your concern but I think I can make it
I appreciate your concern for my wellbeing, but I know I can handle it.


It won't be easy for a while but I'll forget in time
I know that it will be difficult at first, but I will eventually move on.


And if you don't love me, leave me and don't let it trouble your mind
If you don't love me, please leave me and don't worry about how it will affect me.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: DOLLY PARTON

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