Dump the Dude
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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Hey girl, I wanna give you some friendly advice
He's got you cryin', oh he's done it again
He's made a date and he didn't show
You know he's done this to you so many times
When you gonna let him go
He doesn't treat you little a lover should
He could be so downright cruel
Can't understand why you're hangin' with him
Girl, don't you be a fool

Go on and dump the dude
You know he's got a rotten attitude
He always leaves you in a cryin' mood
Take my advice, don't you think twice
Listen to what I'm telling you
Go on and dump the dude

You know that we've been friends for so many years
And I've never ever seen you this way
So torn apart, how he gets to your heart
With all the little games that he plays
Just give him up, get him out of your life
Promise me that once and for all
You're gonna tell him that it's over and done
The very next time he calls, ain't you now

Dump the dude
You know he's got a rotten attitude
He always leaves you in a cryin' mood
Take my advice, find somebody nice
Listen to what I'm telling you
Go on and dump the dude

Girl, I know you may think this is none of my business
But the fact that we're friends I believe that makes it my business
I care about you but I ain't preachin'
I think you should dump the dude

I don't know why you'd want to settle for less
When you could have so much more
You know that you deserve only the best
So what are you waiting for?

Go on and dump the dude
You know he's got a rotten attitude
He always leaves you in a cryin' mood
Take my advice, don't you think twice




Find yourself somebody nice
Go on and dump the dude

Overall Meaning

In Dolly Parton's song "Dump the Dude," the lyrics depict a close friend offering advice to a woman who is continuously mistreated by her partner. The friend begins by acknowledging the woman's distress and the recurring pattern of her partner's behavior -- making plans and not following through. The friend questions why the woman remains attached to someone who treats her poorly, emphasizing that he is cruel and does not treat her with the love and respect she deserves. The friend implores the woman to break free from this toxic relationship, urging her to listen to their advice and not hesitate to end things with her partner.


The lyrics convey a sense of caring and concern from the friend's perspective. They emphasize the long-standing friendship they share, noting that they have never seen the woman so devastated before. The friend acknowledges the emotional manipulation and mind games employed by the partner, urging the woman to let go and remove him from her life. They encourage her to assert her worth and confront her partner, making it clear that she deserves better treatment. By insisting on dumping the "dude," the friend underscores the importance of self-respect and the potential for finding someone who will treat her with kindness and love.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey girl, I wanna give you some friendly advice
I have some important advice to offer you as a friend


He's got you cryin', oh he's done it again
He repeatedly makes you cry and hurt


He's made a date and he didn't show
He didn't keep his promise to meet you


You know he's done this to you so many times
He has repeatedly disappointed you


When you gonna let him go
When will you finally end the relationship


He doesn't treat you little a lover should
He doesn't treat you with the love and respect you deserve


He could be so downright cruel
He can be extremely unkind and heartless


Can't understand why you're hangin' with him
I can't comprehend why you are still with him


Girl, don't you be a fool
Please don't continue to make foolish choices


Go on and dump the dude
End the relationship with him


You know he's got a rotten attitude
He consistently displays a negative and unpleasant demeanor


He always leaves you in a cryin' mood
He continually causes you to feel sad and upset


Take my advice, don't you think twice
Follow my recommendation without hesitation


Listen to what I'm telling you
Pay attention to my words of wisdom


You know that we've been friends for so many years
We have been friends for a long time


And I've never ever seen you this way
I have never seen you so affected or distressed


So torn apart, how he gets to your heart
He deeply affects and upsets you emotionally


With all the little games that he plays
He manipulates and plays mind games with you


Just give him up, get him out of your life
Simply let go of him and remove him from your life


Promise me that once and for all
Make a vow to finally and conclusively


You're gonna tell him that it's over and done
You will firmly communicate that the relationship is finished


The very next time he calls, ain't you now
Next time he reaches out to you, end it for good


I know you may think this is none of my business
You might believe that I shouldn't be involved


But the fact that we're friends I believe that makes it my business
However, because we're friends, I think it concerns me


I care about you but I ain't preachin'
I do genuinely care about you, but I don't want to sermonize


I think you should dump the dude
In my opinion, you should end the relationship with him


I don't know why you'd want to settle for less
I don't understand why you would accept a lower standard


When you could have so much more
When there are much better options available to you


You know that you deserve only the best
You are aware that you deserve nothing less than the best


So what are you waiting for?
Why are you hesitating?


Take my advice, don't you think twice
Accept my recommendation without second-guessing


Find yourself somebody nice
Discover someone who will treat you well


Go on and dump the dude
End the relationship with him




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Written by: ALLAN RICH, STEPHEN DORFF

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