I Really Don't Want to Know
Dolly Parton Lyrics


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How many arms have held you
And hated to let you go
How many, how many I wonder
But I really don't want to know

And how many lips have kissed you
And set your soul aglow
How many, how many I wonder
But I really don't want to know

So always make me wonder
And always make me guess
Even if I ask you
Darlin', don't confess

No you just let that remain your secret
'Cause, darlin', I do love you so
How many, how many I wonder
But I really don't want to know





How many, how many I wonder
But I really don't want to know

Overall Meaning

In Dolly Parton's song "I Really Don't Want to Know," she sings about the fear of finding out her lover's past romantic experiences. The lyrics suggest that the singer's partner has been with other people before, and the singer doesn't want to know the details. She asks how many people have held and kissed her lover before, but quickly dismisses those questions, saying she really doesn't want to know. The singer admits that she loves her partner, but she's afraid that knowing too much about the past could ruin their present relationship.


The chorus of the song reveals the root of the singer's fear: she doesn't want to lose the mystery and magic in their relationship. She wants her lover to keep her guessing and keep the romance alive. The lyrics suggest that sometimes, ignorance is bliss, and that knowing too much can be detrimental to a relationship. The singer acknowledges that her partner has a past, but she doesn't want to dwell on it. She chooses to focus on the present and the future, and to continue to love her partner without knowing all the details of their history.


Overall, "I Really Don't Want to Know" is a song about the fear of losing the magic in a relationship by delving too deep into the past. The lyrics suggest that sometimes, it's best to leave things in the past and focus on the present, rather than risking ruining a good thing by looking too closely at what came before.


Line by Line Meaning

How many arms have held you
How many people have you been with?


And hated to let you go
How many of these people did not want to end things with you?


How many, how many I wonder
How many experiences have you had?


But I really don't want to know
I prefer to stay in ignorance and not have to confront the truth.


And how many lips have kissed you
How many people have you kissed?


And set your soul aglow
How many of these people made you feel alive?


So always make me wonder
I would rather stay oblivious.


And always make me guess
I don't want to know the real answer.


Even if I ask you
Even if I am curious enough to ask.


Darlin', don't confess
Please don't tell me the truth, honey.


No you just let that remain your secret
Please keep this to yourself.


'Cause, darlin', I do love you so
Despite my curiosity, I do love you.


How many, how many I wonder
How many times have you done these things?


But I really don't want to know
I'd rather not know the answer to my questions.




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Written by: Howard Barnes, Don Robertson

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